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I live in NY and my X comes over to my house sometimes and places me over his knee and spanks me hard with his hand, over my jeans, panties, and bare butt. I am 32 years old. I here that some women are still spanked by their parents or husbands, does anyone want to share, please tell me what state you live in, if you are a female or male, thanks
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I am a woman in my fifties and recently my family members decided I should be spanked for losing my temper and throwing something at my sister. I am embarrassed to admit that the spankings ( there have been several :(( ) HAVE improved my attitude and behavior.
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@: bratty
Just an update for those of you who are interested. My family ( sister, brother-in-law and Dad) started spanking me more than 2 years ago. It doesn't happen often any more and the experience DEFINATELY improved my behavior. For about six months it seemed like I was having my bare backside warmed almost daily. Very embarrassing.
My most recent spanking was last month when I swore at my dad. He took a hairbrush to my bottom... I won't be doing that again any timesoon
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@: bratty
bratty, As you should have been. I do feel if More men took the lead and responsibility in thier homes and used orporal punishment responsibly that thi swould be a much more civil world
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My husband has always spanked me when I get out of line and it has worked great for us.
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My bf spanks me when I misbehave. I live in Utah and I'm 18. He spanks my bare butt with a paddle, a belt, or a switch.
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I live in California, and I am 35, and my dad still turns me over his knee and spanks me good from 10min to 20min depending on how bad I was. I get the hand, or brush, and I cry big time, and for a long time every time. I also get spanked away from home to, my dad tells me I am not too old to be spanked as a child no matter where we are.
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i cant believe im not the only one still getting spanked. im 24 and my dad has always spanked me.i hate it as he really makes my bottom sore.he always puts me on his knee takes down my knickers and spanks with his slipper.he said if i were a boy it would be a belt.im an only child, i know daddy loves me but dont undersstand why at my age he still does this to me, sometimes for the slightest thing i do wrong. he tells me ill never be too old to be spanked but surely its got to stop one day.
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my dad spanked me the night before my wedding for breaking curfew lol and gave my husband a paddle for a wedding present
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Thanks so much for sharing your story. Sorry it took so long to get back. But what did you mean by you get spanked away from home. Who is doing it to you. For what reasons. I am so curious. please leave your email and I will write you back faster. I would just love to talk to you.
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You realize that what your dad does to you is illegal. It's called assault. As an adult, if you want your boyfriend or husband to spank you because it turns you on, that's fine. However, for your father to do this is just sick. You do not, nor should you submit to this abuse.
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Is a spanking effective at age 35. Does it stop you from doing again what you were spanked for? I was spanked as a child but never as an adult. The spankings I received as a child were effective. I received about five hard rapid slaps. Before I could finish crying from the first slap I received another slap.
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I am female and live in NY. I think it is just fine although most would probably disagree. I am in my 30's and my Mom still has no problem paddling my bottom with her wooden spoon or the bath brush which is a real rump roaster. It's all about your personality and relationship. She even whacks my long time friends when they misbehave. Most of my boyfriends figured out that spanking me is the only way to get along with me. My current bf take down my pants, turns me over his knee, and spanks me in my panties until I agree to improve my attitude. He's dragged me out of the mall into his truck for a spanking. That is embarrassing! Especially when I have to sit down. But it works for me, although I frequently have a a burning bottom. Don't worry about it, if it works for you, just put baby lotion on your bottom and try to learn your lesson.
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@: hotseat
hi.i am 26 and am spanked by the woman i live with.she is 54 and thinks spanking is the best way to punish me.it seems to work.my behavior has improved.
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@: hotseat
i'm in the same situation as you, my mom is a r.n. at a local hsopital very strict i'm 31 she 52 and still otks me somtimes bare bottomed the other day i was spanked over her knee while she sat on the couch i had noticed she had placed an oak hair brush on the table, i knew it was going to be used on my bottom first on my clothed bottom which took about four minuets. now one thing about my mom is she is a phyicaly strong woman then without warning pinned both my arms behind my back then i knew the enevetable was about to happen down went my jeans and then my panties i got all teary eye before the first brush smacks landed and when that did happen i actually promised to be good like a little child and why did i get the spanking i got well it was for sprnding to much on grocery's. after all this was over she said she was sorry for having to have to do this and gave me a hug. i went to bed my mom came in and rubd some syeroid salve on my bottom pulled my pj's back over my bottom and said goodnight.
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@: hotseat
I am so sorry that it took so long to write you back. I m proud of you for coming out like you did. but i have so many question for you.
What is your nationality?
What part of ny do you live in?
DId you grow up with a father?
How did you get your bf to start spanking you?
Your friends that your mom spank, are they female or male?
Do you ever learn your lesson, why did your bf spank you in his truck when he dragged you out of the mall.
Do your mom know that he spanks you.
do you father spank your mom
do your father spank you
I know i have so may questions. I really appreciate you responding.
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@: hotseat
I am a 45 year old male and my job was abolished so I had to move in with my dad. One day I was out partying with friends and forgot to pick up my uncle at the airport. To make a long story short, when I got home, my dad grabbed mem took me over to a chair, yanked my pants down, turned me across his lap and walloped me but good. So, yes even as an adult, spanking is sometimes necessary.
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@: hotseat
How do your long time friends react to your mom when she whacks them
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a few years back i would visit a lady who spanked me. I was 50 she was in her late 60's. We became friends over the internet and lived close to each other. She would get after me if I had forgot to take my medicine daily. She also didnt like me texting an driving. I had confessed to her online that I still felt I needed a spanking now n then. So when I visited her and made confession. She would have me strip waist down and go over her lap. She used a woodspoon. She said she liked seeing my butt turn red. He spankings only last 5 minutes. My cornertime after lasted 30. Then we usually had dinner, I would do some chores for her and we spent the rest of the visit watching tv. I think being spanked if needed is normal
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When I was divorced two years ago I went back home to live with my mother. One day there was something we didn't see eye to eye on and I told mum to stop being silly and grow up. I could have bitten off my tongue as soon as I'd said it but it was too late. I obviously apologised straight away but mum was naturally upset and said that I was not too old to have my bottom smacked. I told her to go ahead if that was what she thought and for the first time in over twenty years I found myself over her knee like a naughty girl having a sound spanking. It was the best thing she could have done and I felt so much better for it. There have been one or two more spankings and I am sure mum will prove I am still not too old to haver my bottom smacked if she thinks I deserve it.
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@: cathee
Well done Cathee. I am in my forties and still live at home with my mother and she obviously thinks I'm not too old for a spanking when I step out of line. I'm too big to go over her knee now and have to bend over my bed. She has a hard hand and I'm soon feeling very sore but like you I feel better for it afterwards.
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@: cathee
Good for you and your mum, Cathee. I think you were actually missing her spankings - feeling helpless and loved at the same time as you got your bottom warmed. When you say a "sound spanking," I'm assuming it was your bare bottom. Hand or hairbrush?
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@: cathee
It is good you had the integrity to know you were disresecful and deserved to be spanked
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I am regularly spanked as a husband. I am frustrated at the moment as my son has been around for days and I don't know when he is going. He's finished University and is on some sort of course a couple of days a week but often misses it un-anounced just when I am anticipating a good sex session. My wife has promised me a good session as soon as we get the space but I am amazed at how frustrated I am when we don't have spanking.

May be we can go out in the car to the middle of nowhere and do it?
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I never though I would ever feel my mom's paddle or dad's belt on my bare butt again when I left home right after high school. But when I lost my job and ran up a bunch of debt right after I turned 21 I had to move back home and agree to their rules and their discipline as long as I was there. That in turn for free room and board, paying off my debt and paying for my community college courses that I was expected to take and do well in too. Ok I was 21 then and thought they seriously won't spank me now that I am a man. Wrong I was after staying out all night soon after I moved in and coming home drunk. They waited till 5:30 am to drag me out of bed and down to the kitchen for a long lecture and scolding session which only made my hangover more painful. Then it was over dad's knee for a long hard spanking. Then mom took me to the sink for a mouth soaping for disrespect and laungage I'd used at the beginning of the session and then she spanked me with the same hairbrush she'd used when I was a little boy. All on my bare butt as I was in pajamas and they were easily pulled down. I am 22 now and still getting my butt whipped by my mother and father.
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Dude, you are not alone. I'm 22 yo and live at home. My parents still spank the same way you get it, over their knee and bare butt. I've got it for the same thing you got. kylejordan91@yahoo.com
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Why are you letting your ex walk into your house and attack you?
buy some mace and next time he tries to do it let him have it in the face then kick him in the balls as hard as you can and call the cops. ps dont do it until he is inside the house then its all nice and legal.
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It might be hard to believe, but I was spanked recently 'cause my old man found that I cheated on my wife. He offered me the choice: a severe punishment and the promise that I'd behave myself, or informing my wife, that I love very much, about that stupid story. Of course, I accepted the punishment, not thinking that now, when I'm 41, it would be the one I was used to as a kid. No matter how much I tried to argue, I had to drop my pants and receive a very hard and long belting. I might have deserved it, but it was... well, you can imagine...
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I am a 41 year old man, I have been spanked by my wife's mother several times. Each time she has found that I have done something disrespectful she has subjected me to the same ritual she used on her kids. Bare bottom over her knee spanked with a hair brush,she says since I act like a child she will treat me like one. I have been reduced to tears and she makes me stand in the corner with my pants at my ankles. If I touch my rear end or move she spanks me again. I have been threatened with her telling my friends and kids if I refuse to submit!. After the last spanking I could not sit comfortably for two days.
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That's an interesting relationship you've got with your mother-in-law. She obviously enjoys spanking you, her hairbrush warming your naughty bare bottom across her knee. Mmm, and then putting you in the corner afterwards. Even if it's only a fantasy, it's right up my alley. ;-)
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I had had fantasies about being spanked long before the first time she spanked me. There was nothing exciting about this. I would hate to be outed and she knows she has me. I like reading about other people's experiences and have hoped to find another man in my situation because it feels really strange.
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After a long period with little conflict my mother In law called me and told me I better come to her house. I knew I was in for it but didn't know why. I drove over nervously and when I arrived she greeted me with a short leather strap in her hand. She started explaining that I had been stopped for speeding and was issued a ticket for no securing my son in his car seat. I barely heard a word as I was distracted by the strap which I had not seen before. Now I know she finds excuses to punish me but until know she has used a hair brush which hurts plenty, and had always wrestled me over her knee. She explained that because I had endangered her grand child she was going to make sure I never did that again. After scolding me she ordered me to lower my pants and she bent me over the sofa and started strapping me. I jerked up and started to pull away as the sting was more than I could take. She grabbed my ear and twisting it said I was making things worse, and she forced me back over the sofa and strapped me until I was promising anything she asked and begging for mercy. She let me up and as before stood me in the corner .i can tell you for certain that I will never make that mistake again. It was said earlier that she enjoys spanking me and its clear that's true, but there is not even the slightest hint that she is anything but serious
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I'm sorry but this is just bizarre. First it is illegal for an adult to hit another adult. Second, for your mother-in-law to spank you is kind of sick. I would recommend both of you get some professional psychological help.
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I'm 34 live in Chicago.I have a real desire to b in a relationship with a woman who would give me otk spanking when i do wrong.The woman i'm with doesnt,which we've had long discussions about me wanna a dwc type but she agreed n dont do anything.Should I leave her?
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My wife and mother-in-law are much bigger and stronger than I am and both have no trouble stripping me and turning me over their knees even though my mother-in-law is 78 and I am 55. Both were raised on a farm in NC. I have been spanked in our bedroom, living room, kitchen, barn, out by the pool and bent over our rail fence in the yard. One day our FedEx person witnessed me over my wife's knee on our patio getting spanked naked as my wife told her to bring over the package for her to sign. My wife then put me over her knee and had her spank me as well. 1/2012.
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This past weekend my mother-in-law came over to see how I was doing as my wife was out of town. She said I sassed her one to many times as she stripped me naked in the kitchen and marched me out to the barn for another barn burner. Once out their she sat on a bale of hay and turned me over her knee for a warm up hand spanking. That completed she bent me over a saddle on a saddle stand and took a strap off the wall and gave me an A number 1 strapping as I kicked and promised and finally begged her to let me up. When she finally finished she took some lineament off a shelf and started soothing my red raw cheeks when she noticed me getting a little excited. She asked what this was as she answered her own question. It's an utter, and with that she put more lubricant into her hands grabbed a hold and started milking it. I tried getting up but she pushed me back down and proceeded to massage my prostate as I lost control. 2/16/2012
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@: markiee
I have read your postings on many sites. I don't know if they are true or your fantasies but I have been really handled by my mother in law. I am not submissive in daily life but my mother in law has really got Into my head as well as my behind. Since the first time she cornered me and tanned me I knuckle under whenever she tells me I am in for it. She always leaves me with a lasting sensation usually uncomfortable sitting for a few days. I get no sympathy from my wife.
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@: markiee
I see your postings all over the net. I can't tell if you enjoy these spankings. No one in my life knows and I would be humiliated if they did. But if another guy who was spanked like me knew it would perhaps make it seem a little less usual
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Where I live, it's not considered normal, but for me, it perfectly is. Honestly, if my Husband didn't, I would walk all over Him. ...I probably wouldn't even want to be with Him, to tell you the truth.
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...to add to a comment made earlier, BDSM and abuse are not the same thing. It's like saying swimming and baptism are the same thing. They are very much different. Just sayin'.
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hi, i am also wondering whats normal. here is some backstory.. i was molested by my real father, so my godfather has assumed the father postition. but he says he is "old fashioned" and im never too old to be spanked. here is the thing though, sometimes its like hours or just 20 mins, every little thing i do wrong. he makes me wear a dress and panty hose, sometime he records it to "make sure we have agreements on camera" and even if im perfect, i have to have a maitenence spanking to make sure i stay good. now since i was hurt by my real father in innapropriate ways, i dont know whats normal anymore.. this situation sounds more like a fetish.. what do you guys think, please get back to me asap!
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i do not know my Husband allows me to wear jeans now nut 2012 was the first time i ever wore them as a child and as a young adult i only ever wore dresses and skirts so that was the normal for me and my daughters all wore dresses and skirts until about that same time when we were allowed pants ... my husband does "reminder" and "maintenance" spankings for me also
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I live in Mi, an while growing up my parents believed in spanking. It was a joke to tell us girls boyfriends"if they get out of line bend them over your knee and give them a good whipping". Well neeedless to say I had terrible behaviors. Always being late, lying if i wanted to do something i knew would cause a arguement. I got caught the day i was 2hrs late and than with people i shouldn't of been with. I got it good to for the next week i got the belt everyday. When i'm feeling over whelmed i still call my ex for a good spanking. He is familiar with what i need, and how he should spank me, as to he is the one who decided to start it with me. My sisters where not to happy when he told their husbands of the results of giving a good hard spanking. But on occassions i still feel i need my bottom sore for a few days.
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Similar yet different. I've had an interest in spanking for years. Finally at age 68 am seeking a disciplinarian to administer adult spanking. I've found someone but wondering if it is normal or wise to be pursuing this..
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@: Lvshope
You say you've "found someone." At the age of 68, I'd be careful. There's nothing wrong at all in your wanting to be spanked, but don't surrender your control over how you want it to happen.
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@: Lvshope
Try it...but just be careful like Mockduck says. I'm just a few years younger than you but have been spanked most of my life....first by my father and now my husband. Enjoy!
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I grew up only ever getting threatened with spankings, and never the real thing. By the time I was 13, I'd begun spanking myself. Years later, my wife took over, and while it was great fun to be bare-bottomed over her lap, the paddlings weren't nearly as hard as those I continued to give myself.

After we broke up (she actually cited spanking as one of her reasons for leaving me), I paid at least several thousand dollars over the course of some ten years for spankings from professional female dominants. One in particular described herself as a "maternal disciplinarian," and without word of a lie, her lap became my place of worship.

Every three months or so, I'd have my pants taken down and be put across her knee to have my very smackable bottom thoroughly warmed. I loved it like nothing else in this life. I honestly believed I'd been born to be spanked, and these good old-fashioned, over-the-knee spankings on my bare backside left me feeling exquisitely blessed. The woman I called Mummy Em wasn't the last to spank me, but she was the most like a mother to me.
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At age 30 my wife tricked me by saying she was giving me a birthday spanking but held me Down sat on my legs and wailed on me giving me what she felt I earned! Using her bare hand she left full handprints on both cheeks. She was full of smiles watching me wiggle and squirm!
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i am a 50 year old divorced male. My ex or her adult daughter (late 30's) come over and spank me whenever they want. They have also spanked me at their friend's homes. I am made to wear punishment tights or control panties.
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I live in a similar hell. I am in my 50's. My wife or her adult daughter also spank me whenever they want. This has gone on for over 20 years. I am also have to wear bright colorful panties, tights, and high waisted girdle or a one piece corset. I also have been spanked at my daughter's house, their friend's home, and where I work. I am the laughing stock of this community.
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I am a male and still live home with my parents. My dad still feels its okay to spank me still since I live under his roof. If I talk back, do not do chores he does still spank me on my bare rearend.
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Got another spanking yesterday afternoon for talking back. This time just with my dads hand but it did sting and walked around with a red butt.
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You poor thing! No, it's not not
normal at all! :(
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I'm a 58 yo man and crave having other guys strip me naked, and spank me over their lap like a naughty boy. I end up humping their legs and cumming during the spanking and then get spanked harder. I could be spanked several times a day and not get tired of it.
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Was talking about something similar recently. Normal, dunno, am paddled by wife, non-sexual discipline. Done privately, but most folks know.
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I think that being an adult and fantasizing about being spanked is perfectly normal, and much more common than people would think. There are also adults out there, myself included, that still feel the "need" to be spanked for real, as in leg kicking, tear producing, bare bottom spanking like they got when they were growing up. Not surprisingly, it's only within the anonymity of the internet that folks that "need" a spanking feel safe enough to talk openly about what makes them tick. That being said, I think what isn't normal, at least statistically- which doesn't mean it's wrong, is to actually be getting spankings as an adult. I think a very small percentage of the people that fantasize about or feel the "need" to be spanked as punishment actually ever act on it.
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I have wanted someone to spank my bare bottom for a long time....I feel that I truly need to be spanked hard to the point of tears and not being able to sit after. I have not been spanked by anyone since I was a kid. I have tried to spank myself but cannot get the effect I want. I don't think its abuse unless someone does it as a constant against the others wishes...I would like someone to spank me a coupe times a week for awhile to make up for the lost time and get me on track, then when I need it or feel like I deserve one. It may not always be my choice, which is fine. But I really feel that this is normal, why would I feel like I deserve one if I don't. Punishment is meant to improve behavior and keep it that way. I welcome the idea. I just have no one to actually do it.
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I don't know why anyone is here and signed up to comment if you are against this.
There are still many adults who need to be spanked to keep them going in the right direction. If we don't get them we veer off track and not always intentionally.
Abuse is abuse, when is it an agreed upon situation beforehand then it is expected and not an abuse.
I try to live as I feel I should, but every now and then I could use a good hard spanking to keep me going the way I want to. For example....I have a bad habit of putting off things I want to get done. If someone gave me a time frame and I didn't get to it, I would be spanked for it. OTK on the bare ass with a paddle preferably or an instrument of the spankers choosing. Then I know someone cares enough to make sure I stick to my word on getting things done when I say I will.
I'm not looking for someone to spank me daily for no reason at all.....that I would consider abuse....
I know I am new here....but I thought it would be a place to talk about this topic without being put down for it...
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I am a 52 year old woman and would love to have someone spank me on my bare bottom, the stand me in the corner naked from the waist down!
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Hi red,,, I am Very Real caucasion 61 y/o Male who spaanks for discipline safe sane...
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My next door neighbor has allowed her 34 year old daughter to move back home. She spanks her regularly for sassing back and failure to do chores. Although she doesn't spank her in public, she scolds her in public and lets everyone know that her daughter will be spanked soundly when they get home. Her daughter blushes beet red but never answers back. When her mother is ready to go home, she says "OK naughty girl. Time foe mommie to spank your bare bottom." I wish I could be a fly on the wall after they get home.
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In a long and very happy marriage i get my naked butt paddled once or twice a yr by my wife----Its for something really outrageous--and there is no disagreement when its got to happen---Its right out of the shower and my bare butt sure hurts when i am getting it---and at that time i am thinking I WILL NEVER NEED THIS AGAIN----but six months to a yr later---I need it again---Some have mentioned it being sexual--Our sex life is very good but I assure you when i am getting my butt paddled sex is the last thing on my mind---I agree I got it coming----but I am still nervous right before---A question for others----It is a total secret between my wife and I---Is it a secret for other married couples?
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I am almost 42 years old and female in IN. i get spanked regularly by my husband and we have five kids lol although we do not believe in spanking children He believes it keeps me submissive and helps me to remember He is in charge so yes i do feel it is normal for adult women to be spanked ask my sore bottom how often it thinks i will mouth off at my husband again...
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I think it is very normal. all relationships should be this way.We wouldnt have all these divorces. Thanks for sharing
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My wife recently smacked my bottom and grounded me for 2 weeks, which means being in bed at 7pm for being home later than I said I would be. So for 2 weeks I got home from work was given a bath and tea, then before I was put to bed a bed time drink and toilet and then tucked in for night . I was only allowed out of bed to wee in the bowl under the bed. It was embarrassing to be put to bed early and if my wife thinks I have misbehaved she has threatened to do it again. VB
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I love this line of conversation . Makes me feel more "normal" in my own spanking relationship . Here's the link to my similar story.

http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-love-hating-being-spanked-by-my-frankie-187919/
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Yes, I am an adult and believe over 18 is adult for a good spanking then upto 60/70/or 80 for those who are strong both genders male/female I am a male of 68 years of age I have been spanked as an adult it was effective and taught me the lesson I was suppose to learn from getting spanked/strapped a child/adolecent. Good reading and learning from comments made above Fratom
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Yeah! Great thread...I'm a 56 yo man and stri naked and regularly have to submit to buck nude spankings over the knee...I crave getting them the more the better! Anyone want to spank me here! :-)
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utah eh? now why doesn't that suprise me.
get some counselling for your bf before he gets tired of hitting your butt and decides to start on your face.
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Oh my dear god, what have I stumbled upon. This is BDSM by a different name. Love yourselves, people. You don't need someone to physically abuse you to be a good person.
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Who said anyone was abused?
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it is not abuse for a Man to spank His wife...
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