I am a 21 yr old male who is really attracted to a girl who is 16, I think about her constantly. I am thrilled when I am near her, cause I enjoy talking to her. Despite her age, I try to back away but I just can't, I seem to be falling for this girl, and I am beginning to think I am hitting the pedophile category, do I need help? BTW, I don't think nothing sexually.
That sounds pretty sweet of you to me. As long as there's nothing sexual going on, you're not a pedophile. If you two decide to take it to the next level, though, you can check out the laws in your state/provice/country/whatever here:
if they're old enough to bleed, they're old enough to breed
if there's grass on the field, play on
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm