Bad Relationship or Overreacting? http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/ This is a bad relationship and you are not overreacting - perfectly normal. It seems like things are going downhill from where you are at, so I say you get out of it while you can because yes, it may turn abusive. Looks like your boyfriend has trust and control issues. My ex was the same and you don't want to know how that ended up. Good luck and be careful. http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-288868 2009-04-26 16:42:44 OF course, you're not overreacting. It's just him. All the same thing that happens to the adult world. 'nweiz.. I think you should end the relationship while there's still time. He doesn't even deserve you. Tsk. Well.. All I can say is Mind over Matter. :) http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-279034 2009-01-09 21:25:23 You are not over reacting. I think you already know the answer to your question, you just want someone to confirm it for you. This is a bad relationship and it's only going to get worse. If he can't tell you what kind of day he's had at work you've no chance of getting anything worth while out of him. You deserve better and you know it! Good luck http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-278312 2009-01-03 13:30:04 Perhaps he is bi-polar' Sounds like it to me, but then again, I'm no psychiatrist. Of course this relationship is not normal, maybe there are more underlying problems in his life that he is afraid to tell anyone especially you' I really don't know what else to tell you other than no this is NOT normal, YES you are justified in your feelings. I've dealt with my wife for the past 4 years and she is Bi-Polar, Somatization Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, Panic Attack Disorder, Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. So if ALL you have to put up with is bi-polar then you should have it easier than me, lol. Good luck and let us know how things turn out :) http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-278098 2009-01-02 07:43:59 Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde!!!! Dumb his ass. It may turn abusive. You're not overreacting. That's just a bad relationship. http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-277971 2009-01-01 17:42:23 Note: I didn't get to add due to character limit, that while he is being "mean" to me, he still maintains an "I love you" attitude. When he's not acting this way, he's talking to me, having fun with me, watching movies, etc. It's strange. But it's like his personality changes at the drop of a hat. http://isitnormal.com/story/bad-relationship-or-overreacting-26095/#comment-277781 2008-12-31 00:43:28