Black girl White guy?

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Totally normal. Why wouldn't it be. Maybe the guys don't think you are interested? Or perhaps, I know some folk prefer to date within their race, but the white guys I know are just as attracted to black as to white girls - well, as far as I know.

People tend to be more attracted to those who look like them. Don't you notice how many couples look like they could be siblings?

But, if they seem uninterested in you, it's probably not your skin that's causing it.

and to answer your other question, i'm a white woman and I look at interracial relationships like any other.

I am a modern young caucasian gentlemen and thought i could lend my opinoin.

Most men like 1 or 2 things. And all women are equipped with them. Most white guys (and we are talking like abercrombie white), think that they cannot get involved with a black girl due to cultural differences or they never thought a black girl would be interested in them.

White guys in abercrombie clothes though. They usually like other men or are in love with themselves.

Thats totally normal! Thankfully a lot of racism has stopped now. But who knows whats wrong with these guys that don't do anything. haha Have you tried talking to them? getting to know them? There shouldn't be any problem with the color of the skin. Im hispanic and I've dated white,black,and filipino guys haha
I really don't mind the ethnicity or the color of their skin, what matters most is personality (in my opinion) There are some people out there that are against black girls with white guys or vice versa but thats just retarded. You shouln't worry about what other people think. If you like white guys then talk and make friends with some, maybe it will lead to something more :)

Firstly, let me say that the term 'race' is idiotic. We're all human, we all bleed red. Normal? Perfectly.
As for why they don't react the way you expect, look at the personality differences involved here.
(WARNING: This is a gross generalization. There are many exceptions)
It has been my experience that most 'black' men are ... Well... Loud. Sorry to be blunt about it. On the other hand, most 'white' men tend to lean more toward the shy end of things. (With notable exceptions to both statements)

My suggestion to you is this; Try striking up a conversation with the guys you're looking at. Ask them out. We don't live in the 50's! If they are interested, then they'll accept. If not, then whatever.

Oh: As for inter-'racial' couples: Whatever floats your boat. :)

lol...i definitely didnt take offense to that I totally understand were you are coming from. Most black guys will yell at you, make noises, sucky come-on lines, stare you down and in some cases go as far as to grab your hand as you walk by. It used to be flattering to me when I was younger but now I see it as just plan rude.But on the other hand the white guys at my school are just sweet they hold the door for you and they never look at you for too long they always turn away really fast if you catch them looking at u. Its really different. So the friendship thing makes since because they never outright say "I want ur number"

Well im white and i like black girls..But im too much of a pnk that they dot like me..I only dated one and yea...Most white men dont like to date black girls cause of their borthers nad i just tell my fiernds they are pussys but its normal..Im dating a native girl now and yea..but anywho..Its normal girl and tlak to the guys...

Thats interesting...especially since I have 7 brothers with me being the only girl (I guess they can sense that on me ;)

It shouldn't matter what white girls think. I'm black and I dated a white guy for over two years. Actually, he's only ever dated black girls. It's all about preference. Some guys like black girls, some don't.

You're normal. There's nothing unusual about finding physical beauty in races or ethnicities other than your own.

I think white guys avoid getting to know you because black woman-white man partnerships are just not commonplace enough. Black guys go out with white women all the time, but it rarely is the reverse seen. So I think they are intimidated. Not by you, but by getting told off or even assaulted by other blacks for it. As I say, only one form of interracial dating seems in vogue at the moment.

My advice is settle for a good friendship with a white fella you find attractive and hopefully something more than that will eventually blossom.

well Im a white female, and Im mostly (not only) but mostly attracted to black men. I always have been, I dont think there is anything wrong with it. But yes most white men might see you (or your brothers) as intimidating, if your really intersted in someone, you should ask them out, go to a movie, coffie, lunch, whatever, see how it goes. but you might be waiting a while if you wait for a man to do anything. hahaha

its normal to date someone you like so date whoever. personally i think it is wrong to date or not date someone based on the color of their skin but thats just me. as for worrying about what other ppl think dont it doesnt matter there will always be someone who doesnt like what you are doing or who u are dating. have fun interracial is fun :D

I don't see anything wrong with it. Seriously, Im a white female attracted to asian guys.

I think white men who are in to big, ghetto asses will be more than happy to date a black woman with a badonkadonk butt.

I didnt ask for your ignorant comment and for your information not all black woman have big behinds and not all men (notice i didnt say black or white) care to much for behinds in the first place. Save ur comments for another questions but not here.

trust me, white guys like black girls! Obviously not all white guys, but more than you might think.
I'm a white guy who's always had a thing for black girls but nevef actually dated one untill late last year at the age of 26! I think the main reason i hadn't dated a black girl before was because i just alway's thought black girls weren't into white men, it's that simple. I've been with my current (black) girlfriend for 5 month's, meeting the family was a bit strange and to be honest i'm still not convinced that they're too pleased she's with a white man.. Oh and one more thing, my first time dancing with a black girl was STRESSFULL! So you mighg want to take that into account if dating a white dude who's never been with a black girl before! (i'm used to it now though! No longer an issue!)

but i'd say if its normall for a white guy to like black girls, then its normall for black girls to like white guy's. It's definately more common to see white guys & black girls together these days. Good luck with whoever you end up dating anyway!

Thankx for the comment Capello!

a) you did cuz you posted a question b) you're black asking about white guys c) I'll give my comments freely D) JUST BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T LIKE WHAT I HAD TO SAY GIVES YOU NO RIGHT TO GET ALL BITCHY!!!!

I'm the exact same way i'm in love with white men. there so hot, i'm not sure what it is but its working!!! Yes its normal but i'm not sure why they just look and do nothing, its becomes a bummer...

I like people mentionning rights hihi
Blondes! For chrissake, it's hard to date a blue-eyed blonde when you're a brown white yourself! And if you do, it's because they have no tits or what not. Set realistic goals and go for a red hair first then you can think about dating a preppy blonde.
Seriously, if a white guy is looking at you, dont get nervous and scream at him "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?"
Dating usually works itself out, if you find yourself able to smile at someone it means they're looking at you. ;)

well Im a black girl who is dating a white guy. This is not being offensive 4 black males towards black female this is my personal experiance. Ive been dating black guyz but compared to my boyfriend now who is white he is better than all of them in many wayz. Im not saying that all black males are bad 2 date. Just the worong I mate where cheaters playas and we got a misunderstanding of their life style. Well this white man we r in luv we go together in publich his family loves me and he is proud to have me in his arms. he loves me he trust me and I trust him in other way Im not afraid 2 choose him as a future husband and the future father of my babies. While dating even we r in a civilized country (US) Racism of who u date is not issue anymore. we get more negative comment. some blacks call me a sellout! ask me why Im with him wuts wrong with checkin in black guyz who r out there for me. Well my friendz and family r okay with it. But we get many negative comments I can not even believe that one guy who was goin out with a white girl judged me about me being with him. Let me tell u something if u find true luv dont mess with it by what pple say or gonna say 2 u. I luv him and he luvs me as we ever loved before. We r 6 mouths 2gether and we never had any fight we love each other as the first moment we saw we fall in luv since then.Before asking if its normal with a black girl to go out with a white man. It doesnt necessary have to be normal when it comes to love baby. Keep it real! Im black girl and hey stop hatin on a sista if she find affection and attention from a white guy. U black guyz do it and its a compliment but when we do we r sellout?? keep it real! be fair and luv without limit

As a white woman who prefers white men Ive noticed I get hit on mostly by black men and white men seem to never hit on me. I always thought it was cuz Im a full size woman but I dont know. As for u being black n likin white guys I think ur normal....and as far as black men hittin on u and white men not I cant really say. I dont wanna stereotype but I think black men are more apt to hit on women than white guys.

it may not be normal to certain people but i do believe it is i have always found black women beautiful, dont have to be a certain type skin color such as you hear alot white men only like light skined black girls or only dark skin etc. but personally i have always found it diffucult to talk to black women on a date level, im not affraid of them not affraid of black men its just you see how black movies and black comedians portray white men on television as this goofy ned flanders(the simpsons) type of guy and i think it sets in alot of our minds that why bother with this girl she'll turn me down. but for you as far as these white college guys that wear these clothes you mentioned i would say maybe they like black guys or other guys. look at his hair that is a sure way to tell if he is straight, straight guys dont tend to set in front of a mirror and make sure every hair is in place. i am in the navy i have friends of all colors and i will tell you the black guys are the more succesful of us with the women hispanic i believe is a close second with asian and white guys battling it out for last place. we (if straight) notice you but we prefer a noticible hint that you notice us before we encounter. black guys will just go right up and say hey lets get it on. i appolgize for my improper english and sentence run on etc. i fell asleep alot in school.

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