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Black guys r hot ;) - 69% Normal

I'm a 16 year old white girl who finds black men highly attractive. No one seems to understand.
Do you think it's normal?
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i'm a black guy and i'll understand your lil white ass all nite long.
Anonymous
Black Girls
Well I'm a white guy who just goes crazy for black girls. The blacker the better! So maybe.
Anonymous
I don't want to make any personal judgments about you, so I'm going to try and keep this very general. Some white girls like black guys because of the way they look, some like them because they'll make their dad angy. Some like them because the way they act, some because they seem dangerous. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to a black guy, the fact that you don't know that may say something though. Ask yourself why you are attracted to black guys. If it is because you just think they're hot, go for it. If it's to make your parents, friends or society angry, then thats not fair to them or the guy you want to date.
Anonymous
WHAT THE LAST GUY SAID
U NEED HELP LOL
Society gets really bent out of shape over interracial dating, but who cares? As long as you're with someone who treats you well it doesn't matter what color his skin is.

You can expect a certain amount of racist nonsense from some people on the site. I suggest you just ignore the haters.
No one as in...?
Today more than ever it's pretty common. I find it hard to believe nobody understands you.
I think it's fucked up to like someone jsut because of the color of their skin, their nationality, etc. That just makes dividing lines thicker. Who cares if your black white asian hispanic etc...If he treats you right and you treat him right, THAT'S what matters. But since you said you think they're "hot" im going to go right out ona limb and say that you just wanna fuck em.
And that's your own dirty little problem you filthy sinner Jesus help us all.
I know how you feel. My boyfriend is Korean and I'm white, and people think I'm crazy for it. If you love someone, it doesn't matter what they are, because if there can be more love in this fucked up world then all the better.

But, I do have to agree with one of the above posters. If you fetishize black men, then that is just as bad as being racist against them. If you love a black man, and it is genuine, then good for you! But please, please, don't fetishize. That is the hole most people get sucked into.
I hate white girls that like black guys only because of their videos on MTV

not all blkacks are "gangsta", hell, many of them are as much of a poser as those white kids. They've never been to a ghetto, how in the hell can you be ghetto and afford clothes like THAT? OR LIVE IN FU***G LONG ISLAND?

if youre attrracted to someone go for it, but if its just cause they're of a certain race, then your racist

its just as bad as saying "I dont like her because shes black".

f*ck race, I'm out for a beautiful woman, dont care on race.
Ladder Theory
If you can't find someone to take care of you financially then you look for someone who can protect you physically. In other words, you're too ugly to bag a rich man, so you go for the criminal type, and yes all black men are criminal types.
Anonymous
I KNOW WHY... BECAUSE OF THEIR BIG LONG HARD BLACK DADDY DICK!
Just don't try and be a white chickenhead, and you'll be fine.
Anonymous
My wife likes me to wear panties, and she gets off better during sex if I am full out in lingerie and makeup. For her, it is the power that turns her on, knowing that I will dress up to get sex. She also likes me to sleep in girl pajamas or nighties.
Anonymous
According to statistics from the centers for disease control, Heterosexual Black males are 14 times more likely than Whites to be HIV carriers. Estimated numbers of persons living with HIV/AIDS at the end of 2003, by race/ethnicity Look in the column under "Heterosexual Contact".
All black men aren't criminal you dumb fuck potato.....and who cares what stats say about aids. I mean use protection w/ANYBODY.Those two were the stupidest comments ever. Geez
Anonymous
THE ONly reason theres a high number of blacks with HIV/AIDS on that chart is because theres a shitload of epidemic of it going on in africa. where theres alot of black people.


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Watch Out!!!
That aids shit is scary next thing you know you'll stick your dick in a girl and "Boom!!!" your dick explodes. But yeah, once you go black you can come back, not every black guy has a "KING KONG" in the pants...unless of course they are actually "pure" african. Dick to the floor and they fight with them too...LMAO
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lol im black but i like some white boys [men] why i dont kno they seem more interesting then black boys plus i luv to be teached....lol
yea,yea,yea
it has nothin to do w/the skin of the guy. as long as u treat him with respect and he does the same (the true meanin of loving a person) then go for it but if its cause of the color of the skin the go f*** URSELF! it dont matter whats on the out-side only on the in-side.

and i doubt that no one understands this.
That's said all too often. 'Don't judge a book by it's cover'. I think we get it. Is liking black men normal? Well, is it morally wrong to? Look, if you want to be attracted to spear-chucking apes, then go ahead. Heh. No, I'm just kidding. Although I'm not fascinated with the idea of inter-racial relationships, I'm also not against it. So, it's normal. If nobody understands, you might be living in a racist society.
Anonymous
^^
Anytime someone says "I'm not against it", they always are.

Look, to the original poster, if you like black guys, then go for it. Best if luck to you!!!
im a 13 year old girl who finds them major attractive :)
*ROCK ON BIZNATCH*
Anonymous
oh yes, nˇggers love having white girlfriends!
say gurl I understand completely, I`ve got da same problem. I`m 14 & i`ve only ever been attracted to 1 white guy, i ONLY like black guys. everybody thinks i`m crazy, but I don`t give a fuck they can all kiss my ass. sometimes thats what u got to say, & keep yo head up. cause i live in a small town whurr it`s not accepted, i`ve been arrested 2 times and da police said they would`nt have even fucked wit me if wasn`t da only white gurl thurr. right now i`ve got a black boyfriend dat i`d give my life up for in a heart beat, & he`d do da same.
I DO!!!!!!!!11but im just the oppisite im black girl and ONLY attraced 2 withe guys...and WHO GIVES A FUCK if other ppl dont understand we r normal!!!!!!
color of the skin aint got nuttin to do with that. as long as he/she is a good person then you aint got nuttin' to worry bout. im mixed hawaiian and thai and my bf of 2 yrs is black.

i've dated different types of guy and im tellin you it's not the color of the skin..it's the personalities that you gotta look for.
Pretty much exactly what the third guy/girl down said. If you're doing it to look all edgy or rebellious, you're going about this relationship stuff all wrong. But there's nothing bad about finding yourself attracted to a certain look -- personally, I love the pale red-haired type, but I'm funny that way. Ignore the racists and haters and do whatever it is you wanna do!

Just a word of advice from a white girl who's been there -- depending on where you live, be ready to take some heat from both sides. There are a lot of white guys who won't like to see a black man with you, and there are a lot of black women who won't want to see you with a black man.
im a black guy and i think its great youre attracted to us.im 32 now,but ive been liking females of a different race since i was 12.i had a white female fetish especially when i was your age 16.i wasnt feeling black girls and i prefer white girls alot more.white girls treated me better and were usually 10 times nicer to me.my moms family was biased,they only want me to be with black girls we had numerous arguments and it went in one of their ear and out the other.some white girls are fine as hell and quite sexy.i like brunettes better,but some blondes and red heads are hot too.yeah young lady i accept you liking us brothas and wish you all the best.
lol
lil bounce makes my dick wanna pounce
@: kandii
Only two words to say... SELL-OUT!!!
I mean listen to all these hatin a#@ white boys, thats why your women come to our side because they would rather have a spear chuking ape... then a cave man b@#ch beater... think about that haters??????
Absolutely! Ah me too! trust me..black guys make me weak. love them..haha. Its totally normal..no one understands cause they're stupid! yup. We're normal..haha
And to add..yeah..Seriously just dont worry about what other ppl have to say like MOST of these ppl on here. Theres always going to be people who are ignorant and dont understand. What you really need to focus on is what you want..and if the person treats you good..dont matter what race. Its all good. Race is just something ppl see as a huge controversial thing..when in reality. its not. People are people. And its pathetic that ppl cant realize that in this day and age..really sad. So dont worry about whether its normal. Just go with itt
OK HEY YALL I JUST WANNA SAY I TOTALLY KNOW HOW THAT GURL FEELS I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY!! I LOVE BLACK GUYS THEY ARE SO DAYUM FINE, WHITE GUYS ARE JUST UNATTRACTIVE TO ME AND ARE TOTAL PIGS NO OFFENSE... BEING A WHITE GURL AND LIKING BLACK GUYS IS NORMAL TO ME BUT MY PARENTS DONT UNDERSTAND ME.. I JUST BLOW THEM OFF AND THINK OF WHAT I LIKE AND HOW I FEEL THIS IS MY LIFE AND ILL LIKE WHO I WANT TOO AND IF NO ONE LIKEZ IT THEY MINEZ WELL KISS MY LIL WHITE AZZ CUZ I DONT REALLY GIVE A FUCK!!SO GURLZ IT AIIGHT TO LIKE BLACK GUYS CUZ DA HOT AND THEY FINE AND BLACK GUYS FEEL FREE TO LIKE WHITE GURLZZ CUZ DER ONE RIGHT HERE WHO LIKES U!! GET @ YO GURL MANDIE AT lucky_24_2007@yahoo.com and leave me a e-mail tellin me what you think or if u just wanna talk !!! BLACK GUYS PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME TO CUZ IM A SEXY WHITE GURL WIT SUM BOOTIE!! HIT YO GURL UP! **$$$$MANDIE$$$$**
OH AND YEA BLK PEOPLE IS NOT THE ONLY AID GIVVERZ ITS DA WHITE PEOPLE TOO!! IF YOU GOT IT AND U NO IT DONT HAVE SEX AND IF YOU DONT NO U HAVE IT GO GET CHEAKED IT DAT SIMPLE!!
Girl, there is nothing wrong with that. And the fact that you are even asking yourself that question reflects soemthing pretty horrible about society. I am with a beautiful black man that treats me like gold.

I think im attrated to black men because of the whole 'danger' aspect possibly, which i do realize is completly constructed by society/media and has nothing to do with realiaty, but it so turns out this is what im attracted to. So what? Some people get turned on by freakier things than dangerous black men (Mmmmm, lol)but no one is calling them out for stigmitizing everything that isnt what they are attarcted to.

People will call u racist for being attracted to black people, but their thinking is illegical. I am not really attarcted to the majority of chinese men, but one of my close friends is chinese... my friend isnt attarcted to blondes, but he has nothing against blonde poeple. Dont let anyone make you feel about about being attracted to a certain characteristic. Racism is holding negative thoughts/assumptions about a group of people and generalizing them to the whole group of people based on their race.

Find yourself a nice black man, its all good. I msut say tho, i do have many black male friends that are hoessssssssss and screw anything that breathes... but how many of you know white guys ike that...i know i do. People keep in mind, we have a tendency to remember the experiences and things that happen to us when they eep in line with our assmptions and ignore evetns/things/experiences that contradict our assumptions. It's human nature, try and fight that.

Dont ignore the black guy who does well in school and doesnt rob banks (stupid tv)... take notice of the group of white guys that keep a yearly chart to see who can sleep with the most chicks in a year... You'd be surprised at what you find.
Many black people have to deal with societal structural barriers that you wouldnt even begin to understand about... put white people in the same circumstances and have them deal with the same thigns black people deal with and sees what happen.... Are you really that ignorant?
It's totally fine. I'm similar to you, white female, 17, and for a long time I've found black guys far more attractive to guys of my race. It's not something you can just choose, so you might as well learn to accept it.
Its only bad if you start singing black man to the bat man tune!!
I love black guys too.
I'm a 20 year old female.
I always thought black guys were hot when i was younger but didnt date one until about 2 years ago. I still find white guys attractive but prefer black. I'm now on my 4th one lol
I think black mens bodies are sexier than white guys..they have nicer asses and lips lol.

i think this is in some part due to the "danger" or "unknown" factor associated with it. I think it also has a lot to do with the fact that BLACK GUYS LOVE ME, BECAUSE I HAVE A BIG ROUND GHETTO BOOTY.
they appreciate my curves like no white boy ever could.
i amm on the samee page as you !
a lottt of adults dont understand thiss
i guess cuz theyre used to the past moree
than wee are, but a lot of kids feel the same way!
i am as whitee as it gets but i dont find white guys attractive at allll
blackk guys have better bodies and lipss
they alsoo loveeee curves and can
appreciatee ya bodyy more !
GIRL YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH!

idk if its just my experience too, but every white guy ive dated has been was to fucking hairy!! everywhere! my current b/f has the cutest ass and no hairy but! awesome! lmao! plus the muscles are WAY more defined and their dicks just looks better anyway! lmao sorry for being blunt!
I'm sorry but alot of you white girls need to back off our black men. The only reason alot of you find black men attractive is because of the fact that you think they are better in bed. I see so many biracial bastards running around with their hair a mess because you white girls went and got knocked up by one of our men and don't know how to do their hair to save your damn lives and im sick of it. So many of our attractive men have dogged black girls because their hair is nappy, or they don't put out as easy as you guys do. To be quite honest, you've changed some of the minds of our men today to think that black women are "ghetto and nappy-headed" and we're all getting sick of seeing this shit.
Im a blk gurl...and I love white guys...blk guys r good for one thing...but white guys...ha ha ha oh gosh they can be reallly fun especially if u find one with a huge piece...I love my dark n white chocolate...very hott
wow really? all black men are criminals? Thats why I'm an honors student. cause im a criminal. And thats why we have a black president. do yourself a favor, and someone-- anyone-- kick your ass so hard you fly back into the 50's so that you don't look like an ass for saying that.