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Some guys might look down on you but I dont see how he can if its just you two and you are doing it to please him. Im sure if you went around and sucked a bunch of guys before him then he might look at you like a slut but not just with him.

no, just with him. we're breaking up, but i'm afraid to ask him about his. I mean i riskd my health and dignity. I'm sort of hurt.

i dont think is like look down to it, but a blowjob is somehow "dirty" kind of thing, so probably after it, guys would know how far u can go, and somehow related to the dirty thinking of getting a blowjob. but is not a direct thought .

@ galeni

There is nothing dirty about blowjobs. To the original poster if he looks down on you after that hes an idiot your right to get rid of him you probably would never have got any oral of this peon

yeah thanks, but that's not what its about. I wasnt looking for oral ,hm.

and i agree theres nothing dirt about bjs, unless it's dirty, well you know what i mean.

Fellatio is still penetrative sex. Only in the last generation, it was looked upon as something you did with someone you had already done everything else with and only if you were really adventurous. Now it seems de riguer especially for young people. Of course us boys love it immensely. Does he return the favour with his tongue? He should!

ask him to go down on you, and even out the power imbalance. if he won't, he is a misogynistic pig that deserves to have his nipples chewed off by porcupines

just cuz someone gives a guy oral sex doesn't mean that the guy looks down on them
if he does, he's an asshole and you should bring it up, but you might just be imagining it

You don't mention your age, but I'm assuming you are very young and fairly inexperienced sexually. It's difficult to offer advice when there are so many unknowns here, but I would say that in general, young men have very mixed feelings about sex, which would also include oral sex. Sex is often connected with conquest and ego building for the guys; not so much so for the ladies at that age. I CAN tell you this much, though. My 14-year-old daughter just broke up with her boyfriend after a 1-year relationship. He's a nice young man, but he couldn't seem to resist the temptation to tell his friends that she'd given him blow jobs during their relationship. Since it's the "information age" and all the kids have computers, quite a few people -- people she doesn't even know -- are now aware that she has "oral skills." She, too, did it for love, and I really think he cared deeply for her, too. But his ego was ultimately more important than her feelings, so now she's stuck with the fact that people she's never met are judging her.

Last thought: I REALLY believe in reciprocation in this area! If you're giving him oral pleasure, he ought to be doing the same for you. With the full knowledge, however, that you can never be completely sure who ELSE knows about what you do behind closed doors.