Bored of wife? no.. but definately something

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Lately I just can't seem to get along with my wife. We've been married for a little over a year and have a 14 month old together... by all means, I know I love her indefinately without a question, but I just like it better when shes not home when I get home! We both act as if we are just tired of eachother, and arguments arise so easily. Shes a stay-at-home mom, and thats basically all she really does... stays at home, and plays this crazy little computer game where you own a pet or something and have to take care of it.. (she in no way is a weirdo or anything like that, as much as it already sounds like it.. lol) she will play that game all day! anyways, she is a very attractive girl, used to be a model and could be still. I am 24 she will be 22, and she is still so very sexy in my eyes, as well as any guys eye when we go out. I am just mentioning this because I can rule out a loss of interest as being one of the reasons to why I just don't enjoy her company anymore. I wouldn't exactly say my life is miserable.. but its clear that it's not what it was a few months ago.
I was always the lazy one in the relationship, but for some odd reason in the last 2 weeks... we have totally switched roles. I have never seen her this lazy and when I mentioned it, i get a "Now you know how I feel" reply.. Ok, let me clarify our situation.. I work as an engineer so my job entails quite a bit of work. Obviously when I get home.. I am tired and lazy and just want to relax, and for good reason. But in her case, she is at home ALL day, I feel bad for our kid somedays because he has to be stuck at home with her, and she doesn't even bother to go out for a simple walk with him to get some fresh air. I can't believe I'm even writing about my life on this but I guess I just felt like seeing what other people had to say regarding two things...

1 - I know its cliche of a marriage to feel this way, but damn... that soon?

and 2 - How do I go about telling my wife that she should really get off her butt and start doing something proactive.

Anyways I am just confused with why I'm even in a situation like this where sometimes I rather stay at work than go home. Sex has slowed as well, and yes I know what many of you are thinking, that the decline of sex is a clear indicator of a downhill relationship.. but I am the one who just isnt interested as much as before.. either I'm too tired or whatnot, I masturbate more often than sex..

Ladies - why are you so complicated?