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well i been going out with this guy for a year. he told me that he had once fingered his own bum in an experement to see if it felt good but didnt like it when he was young. anyway i came home from work the other day and he looked smug. i later asked him what was up and he admitted to me he had used one of my old (not used any more) dildos on his own ass. he said he was watching some really kinky stright porn and thought bout experimenting. a few weeks later i asked him if he had did it again he replyed no and but then admitted that he had. i asked him if he was gay cuz of it, he says he really likes women (he does like sex) and he just is a really kinky guy and only does it while watching straight porn.is this normal
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Comments (16)
flikr (10636)
2008-08-25 22:16:30
hes a dick lover
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-08-25 22:33:50
you should do it for him stick it in his arse while yous are having sex I bet youll like it too. Just how many old dildos do you have lying around would you like to sell them on Ebay
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Step21 (15968)
2008-08-25 23:14:33
Ask him about getting into pegging (You wear a strap on and go the other way around)
and i am not sure it is normal.
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ecowoman (15958)
2008-08-26 10:37:43
i dont think he is gay.mnd if i ask him 2 fuck me in the ass he does on the occation but he is normaly like but i prefere your pussy so much more to your ass.but it it normaly for strait men to use dildos in their bumm when they are by themself
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-08-27 04:07:19
@: ecowoman
What occasions are those Birthday and Christmas and bank holidays
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Lizzy__xOxo (18376)
2008-12-10 01:37:52
A guy that liked me told me that he does that... because "he's a huge freak".... I stopped talking to him.
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duckfart77 (18930)
2008-12-29 18:12:11
Hmmmm, it isn't that normal only because it is considered taboo by society's standards. If you want to know the truth, the male g-spot is in his anus (prostate gland) and by stimulating it actually makes a man's orgasms 10 times stronger!!! MOST men are afraid to try this because if they end up liking it, they will be afraid of being viewed as gay or bisexual, which isn't true. To really be gay or bisexual you have to be ATTRACTED to the OTHER sex. My wife LOVES using her dildo on me and it feels great! But I'm not gay or bi.
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Artanis186 (19943)
2009-02-03 19:32:16
I remember looking up somewhere that a man's "G-Spot" Is somewhere around the inside of their arse. I think it's normal. I've not done it myself though.
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DJBleach (20806)
2009-03-07 21:10:31
@: flikr
Just because he likes anal stimulation doesn't make him gay. Go make better use of your time than bashing people on the internet.
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DJBleach (20806)
2009-03-07 21:13:08
I do this too! Anal stimulation feels really nice. And no, it doesn't make you gay. Sex with another actual, living, MALE being makes you gay.
Don't listen to the haters.
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thebiscuit (23184)
2009-05-19 08:55:58
totally normal.... sexuality has nothing to do with wanting a dildo in your ass..... and seriously who gives... like i allways say.. if it feels good ... keep doing it
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lk4me (25298)
2009-07-09 07:48:14
well apparently having something in a guy's ass while he's getting off enhances his orgasm. i'd say its normal.
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TheAukwardOne (25595)
2009-07-15 08:10:22
Stimulation of the prostate can be arousing, so yeh, it's normal.
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DiscoDuck (18706)
2009-07-18 16:44:01
Big time normal, and big time feelin good!

Its not a gay thing as long as you are not homophobic. Bottom line is stimulating the prostate feels good gay or not. Its just that there is only one way to it....
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lithp (27834)
2009-08-30 11:31:45
An individual does not have to be gay in order to enjoy anal play. The fact of the matter is that, whether straight or gay, there are thousands of nerve endings which can only be stimulated through anal play. It sounds as though your boyfriend is completely straight, but has been both open-minded and lucky enough to discover something which gives him pleasure.
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xyz001 (29900)
2009-10-31 11:02:34
not gay whatsoever..
its just really good getting stimulate up ur ass..haha
i do it..
n i'm fuckin straight!!!
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