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Breaking up with girlfriend because of her parents
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Ok, I just started dating this girl about 4 weeks ago. I like her and everything but I am thinking I might have to break up with her because of her psycho parents. Here is why. I am 19, will be twenty in less than a month and she just turned 20, so we are both adults. We both still live at home however and her parents are the strictest parents I have ever heard of. She is not even allowed to go on "dates," which is bullsh*t. We work together by the way so the only time we get to see each other is when we work together or when I go over to her house, which is only about once a week and I hate it because we are not allowed to be alone. Her parents are in the room the entire time and we can't even so much as try to whisper to each other without her mom asking what we are talking about. For gods sake, we can't even hold hands without her mom saying something about it, like "we are moving too fast. " I don't use this word often but her mom is a grade A c*nt. She doesn't want her daughter coming over to my house without having met my parents first and my parents are busy so that hasn't happened, she did let her come over once but that was because it was her b-day. I feel mislead too because I asked her on a date and she said yes but never told me her mom wouldn't let that happen. She invited me over today and I really don't want to go. I know it sounds bad because she is a sweet girl but I feel like she isn't even my girlfriend because we aren't allowed to do couples things together, just sit at her house and listen to her b**ch mom talk about how great her parenting style is, it really doesn't feel like it is a relationship. She has talked about moving out but not until summer probably and I honestly can't wait it out that long. I know I am going to hurt her by telling her I can't be with her anymore because of her mom but from what she's told me she has had a couple of past bf's break up with her for the same reason so i don't think it will be a surprise. i don't know, is there any good way to break it to her or should I break up with her because I can't really do anything with her. any opinions?
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Comments (19)
Leopold_Butters_Stotch (12624)
2008-01-09 12:17:05
stay with her, she never defies her mother, help her




Butters--RESPECT MY AUTHORITAH
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gizzie56 (8681)
2008-01-09 12:27:35
Its like this as long as she is living in her parents house she will abide by their rules. I agree her mother is entirely over protective but that is her prerogative. When her daughter completely grows up moves out (supports herself) then she can do as she pleases in the mean time that's just the way it is.

If this girl doesn't mean enough to you to stick it out and wait until she is out on her own then yes i suggest you break it off and find someone else.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2008-01-09 12:36:29
Way to long.
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Orochimaru (9975)
2008-01-09 13:08:40
Ha, you are lonely
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Asskicker202 (12512)
2008-01-09 14:24:52
the poster of this is lieing he is underaged
but if you are not man up and get a home and tell her the same thing
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austrianotaustralia (12795)
2008-01-09 14:45:11
Kill her parents :-)
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flikr (10636)
2008-01-12 21:32:30
dude if she is hot, then get her to sneak out and then f**k her in your closet
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gaatooor (16196)
2008-09-10 19:46:59
Alright you have a few options here. You can dump her but remember its not her fault that her parents are f**kin wacko. You can wait it out but see if you can get some type of commitment from her that she will move out in the summer. But if it were me I can tell you one thing. When I did finally move in with her I would send her mom a video of you f**king her daughter in the ass. I mean a full length porno of you just f**king her daughter to the point where you girl almost vomits its so good. Make sure to get a good angle for the money shot when you blow it on her daughters face too. Also when you are f**king her it might be kinda good to have her call you by her dads name. Hope this helps.
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Miko5625 (17229)
2008-10-27 18:38:32
I'm kinda in the same situation your girlfriend is in, with my parent's except I'm not an adult yet. If you really like, try and get to go against her parents once in a while, she's an adult so she should be able to make her own decisions. Or, maybe try and talk to her parents. But if you don't really like her that much, then just move on and find someone else.
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gabbrella (17466)
2008-11-06 09:14:00
hey make it up to her who cares about her mum and dad f**k them man
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gabbrella (17466)
2008-11-06 09:14:56
f**k it then it all bullsh*t
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comalies (6298)
2008-12-12 15:53:38
Parents like that have major issues
i think you should wait until she moves out (if she's worth it that is)
if not then, move on
there are lots of chicks out there with parents who dont give a crap about em.
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lelouch (18752)
2008-12-23 23:28:38
you know what if you really love your girlfriend you will still fight for your relationship no matter what happens.. no matter her parents didn't like you still you must... just prove to her parents your sincerity..goodluck and god bless
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replicator (19836)
2009-01-29 22:55:29
move together guys. Run! If the love is strong.
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AnnaAgain (19460)
2009-02-12 08:38:37
If she doesn't mean enough to you that you can't wait a month or two to get your d*** in her pussy, then dump her. she deserves better anyway. Why don't you try thinking about other people's feelings, as opposed to your own personal gain?
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Stupidlookingguy (21005)
2009-03-17 03:45:03
Seriously, if you're that into her and you sincerely love her, you should be willing to wait. Overcome the obstacle of time and it'll be a happy ending :D
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cherry41 (20986)
2009-03-25 10:23:54
She is an adult and should be able to come and go as she pleases. But she also respects her parents which can only be a good thing. Try and hang on in there. You do work together so do get to see each other. Be strong man if you really like her, if not let her loose.
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grindemup (26275)
2009-08-01 23:43:57
my ex's parents were the same, total control. It sucked. Her parents believed they actually were pleasantville ,perfect and all . If you two are in love, it should work out. take care.
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Jen118584 (30020)
2009-10-26 22:02:17
Dude, when you marry a girl you also marry her family. You don't wanna deal with that forever. You know her parents will still be a pain in the ass even after she moves out. She needs to grow a pair and tell her mom to but the f out if she ever wants to hold down a man.
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