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Can I have sex?
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I'm a female, I'm 20 years old, and I have always been a sexual person. I feel like it's natural, but some of my friends tell me that it's a sin to have sex or to do sexual things. But I don't want to touch myself and I feel like there's a reason I have "sexual" feelings. Anyway, my question is, is it wrong to have sex, or do sexual things? Is it a normal thing to do or should I stay away from my sexual feelings??
Do you think it's normal?
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buriedalive (16071)
2009-04-22 08:47:56
Whether you view it as wrong or not depends on whether you are religious. Most mainstream religions officially look down on any sex outside marriage (though the minority adhere strictly to the rules). If you're not, then don't worry about it.
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Chronostriggers (23030)
2009-05-15 00:27:08
@: buriedalive
... you are a sexual person for a reason.. its human nature to want to reproduce... wanting sex is being human... if you want it... go get it... (and think about this... religion may tell you that sex is bad outside marriage... and non-straight sex is sinfull.... but think of what the people who are preaching this have been doing... i hear about pedophile priests all the time, and priests who were caught in affairs, or who bought gay hookers)... if you want sex, have sex... just make sure its safe.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-07-01 11:30:22
Most people who are active in a particular religion get the difference between and make choices around the edicts and propaganda of that institution, their own spiritual life, and their personal lives.

I think you are basically talking about masturbation. You think sexual feelings are normal. I agree. A few of your friends think its a sin? I don't. But if it is, they are sinning like crazy. Guaranteed.

You do have to trust your intuitions and intelligence as a modern woman. And do be careful what friends you get advice from. If you are thinking of sex with a partner, do see a health care provider first (a nurse or doctor) about birth control, sexual and relationship health. Its your body and life. Look after it.
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cheapeskater (26607)
2009-08-20 13:57:57
It is very much a sin. Humans are not like other animals. We are not meant to reproduce. We are meant to follow whatever God tells us to do. Do not touch yourself. If touching your nose felt good, then you should not do that. Touching is pleasure. Please=God doesn't like. God doesn't like=sin.
(sarcasm)
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