Hello everybody,
I am a student who has had a bad relationship 5 years ago. It was my first real relationship, and my trust was abused heavily. Since then I only found interest in some women. Most likely I am not opening myself to them and cannot really connect.
Now it starts to seem even not worth all the struggle anymore to open up to women...
my feelings won't grow easily on most women anymore and if I start to get some, my mind tells me it is not worth it and shows me all the possible problems that will occur!
what do you think?
what shall I do?
I am a student who has had a bad relationship 5 years ago. It was my first real relationship, and my trust was abused heavily. Since then I only found interest in some women. Most likely I am not opening myself to them and cannot really connect.
Now it starts to seem even not worth all the struggle anymore to open up to women...
my feelings won't grow easily on most women anymore and if I start to get some, my mind tells me it is not worth it and shows me all the possible problems that will occur!
what do you think?
what shall I do?
Believe me, it's worth the struggle. Don't give up hope! There are billions of people in the world. You can't lose faith in all of them because of one! Chin up :)
Good, solid advice.
You're normal, no worries. (:
everyone gets knocked down, but u just have to open your heart to the possibility of a new, better, stronger love and eventually it will come. :)