Can't Wait to Masturbate

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No,this is not normal.This speaks of three things:
1.You are not as attracted to this individual as you may think that you are.
2.You are introverted to the point of displaying traits of anti-social behavior.
3.Latent homosexuality.

hope that you were takin the piss with those comments clear_thinker. if you are sreious i think you need psychiatric help. how can you equate masturbation to homosexuality? anti social behaviour? youre an idiot...i personally prefer a good handjob over sex.self pleasure means great pleasure. have you ever asked your b/f to watch you?

I dont think its normal because i can't understand why you wouldnt want sex with your boyfriend.

You have serious issues.

hook-up with some guy who are attracted to and see what happens.

your fingers must smell like my upper lip. --->(i have a bad-ass moustache, baby)

I kinda know what you mean. I'm starting to prefer masturbation because I know exactly what to do, where as normal sex can just seem like too much hard work, all that jiggling and sometimes for nothing except your partner getting his jollies.
(Feelings change over time; At the begining your both infatuated with each other, this fades as time goes on. You don't love him any less, its just what happens.)

Anti social, whatever. Ignore that crap. What the previous poster said is right. Sometimes you just want to get right to the good stuff. However, if its every time or most times, there is probably something up. The question you want to ask yourself is this: When you do have sex with your boyfriend, is it good? Do you get off? If not, then the problem is probably physical. It may not be that you're not attracted to your boyfriend, as someone suggested, so don't beat yourself up thinking that you don't really love him or something. It could just be that he doesn't know how to get you really going. I think the suggestion of masterbating for him is a great one. It will get him very excited and he'll feel like you're into him, and you can show him what you like. If you like kinkier stuff than he usually does, buy some toys or something. Now, if the sex with your boyfriend is great when it happens--but you still don't initiate, that's a trickier issue. In that case you may have some emotional issues in your relationship that are holding you back from feeling close to him. You still have a libido, so you still have that urge that makes you masterbate, but for some reason you don't want to have sex with him. At that point I would take a look at the relationship.

you can masturbate anytime you feel like it.

shood try being a granny, i wonder if THEY hve sex wid ther partners??? hmmmmmmmmmm... gd luk wid the tossing off btw :) i likie it over sex too

I think you should suck it up and talk to him about this. He might have some suggestions, if you know what I mean. ;)