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Can't decide on my attractivness
Some days I look in the mirror and think I look ugly, then the next I'll look and think that I'm attractive. Do other people also have this ever-changing view of themselves?
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Do you think it's normal?
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i think, when you take care of your self it happens more and more.
I think some people think they can walk all over me and when I blow up in their face they do not know what to say. I think some people think I'm more social, talkative, flirtatious and when they discover I'm not they don't know how to react.
I really could careless about my attractiveness. I feel so distant from other people. Like I'm not normal, but sometimes I want to be just like them. I wish I knew how to fit in with other people.
Either way, this story is too lame to continue so please have it removed as its nowhere near my top of the list of favorites on this site.
Get over it. You are great because you are YOU!
The Divine Ms. O.
I believe I am insecure about my appearance and every person gets like it. I mean sometimes I feel like the ugliest person alive and want to just shove a bag on my head and be done with it.
:) At the end of the day, they say its what you think and not what others think, but when you feel like that; everyone else must be thinking it too.
Posting a picture is beside the point: the topic is about an individual's perception of themselves, not other people's perception of the individual.
I know when I'm hot, I know when I'm ugly.
Even people spot my good days or bad, and I always agree :)
A person can be really hot looking as far as societies ideal goes but they wont get far if they dont carry themselves well and have a good attitude.
Superficial appearances may get you a foot in the door so to speak but if you are flaky, rude or boring etc etc you will be shown the exit pretty quickly.
Those time you feel you look great are probably also the times when you are feeling most confident. People are attracted to confidence like bees to honey.
don't worry - this happens to me all the time too. one morning, when i slept for too long, my face becomes really bloated and so do my eyes and i just look really weird (more like ugly). but the next day for reason i slept very little and look tired but i when i try to look at the mirror all optimistic and stuff i look pretty! ok weird. i know. but i think it happens to everyone right ;)
I look in my mirror and think im ugly, but then again, I am honest.
You should be too.
i blame the mirror
You know those people that say they never look good in photos? Or people that are surprised by how good they looked? Well, that's because in a photo they're confronted with an undistorted and unfiltered real image of themselves.
When looking at yourself in a mirror, the brain interprets the data and basically modifies it to fit your idea of what you look like. The same mechanism comes into play when judging other people's appearance in real life. Negative thoughts, low self-esteem and depression among other things make you think that you're uglier than you really are, and vice-versa with narcissists etc. If that makes any sense.