cant find a girlfriend

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haha aww yes of course its going to happen! im i girl and i personally like the shy ones ive always been the type of girl to walk up to a guy so there are some girls like me that walk up to guys and ask them out. dont worry you will find a girl in time just be patient

Some people like shy people, I myself am shy. However, many people believe that it is all in your confidence and the way you approach things. Try a few new things and something may eventually work.

Yes. You will find mrs.right someday. I mean, you are only 18. You have practically a whole life to find the one.

Hey, it's fairly normal. I didn't date my first (and current) girlfriend till I was 19 either. It can be pretty hard if you don't have any female friends, but remember that they don't have to be best friends before you ask them out.

The best advice that I took when I was single, was to be happy with yourself as you are, being single. Because if you're not happy with yourself single, then you won't be happy with yourself dating either, because you'll be validating yourself based on who your partner is.

I found that being this comfortable with yourself (whatever others think of you), really helps with confidence too.

You're just being shy, there's nothing wrong with that. You're ultimately a male, shy or not, when you meet the right girl, you will do whatever it takes to win her heart. There are girls who like shy guys but unfortunately, unlike what some posters say, it's very unlikely a girl is going to come up to a guy and ask him out. So you'll have to ask her out at some point.

But shyness can happen for many reasons. Afraid of embarassment? Rejection? Sometimes we as men just have to take it and move on. Take it like a school test, if you do badly, you just have to improve for next time and try again.

FUNNY YOU RELATE TO ME ALSO I AM 20 AND HAVE NOT HAD A BF YET BUT I AM PRETTY AND I KNOW THAT GUYS WOULD THINK I HAVE HAD MANY BF BUT REALITY IS I HAVEN'T :( I THINK IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN SOONER OR LATER JUST HAVE TO BE PATIENT I WOULD THINK THAT SINCE US GIRLS ARENT THE TYPE TO APPROACH GUYS FIRST EVEN IF YOU ARE SHY YOU HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO APPROACH US BUT KNOW HOW TO DON'T BE LIKE HEY GIRL UR HOT THAT SUCH A TURN OFF TALK LIKE SHE IS A FRIEND LIKE HEY DO YOU KNOW WHERE I CAN FIND THIS STORE OR YOU REMIND ME OF SOMEONE I USED TO KNOW AND START A CONVERSATION JUST NOTE THAT MOSTLY IS THE GUYS THAT HAVE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE I KNOW YOU ARE SHY BUT IF YOU ARE CUTE YOU HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT IF THERE ARENT GIRLS AROUND WHERE YOU LIVE GO TO THE STORE OR SOMEWHERE BUT START SMALL TALK TO THE CASHIER FIRST TO BUILT YOUR CONFIDENCE THEN GO UP TO A GIRL WHO IS BY HERSELF IF SHE IS WITH FRIENDS YOU ARE GOING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE JUST START OUT SMALL

your a late bloomer! relax! the right girl will come along.

dude its has to do with your confidence always try to feel good about your self think less about things u don't have.i was in the same situation during my senior year i couldn't talk to girls i its made mi feel guy instead i started working out and that gave with a little boost, i wanted to ask a girl i like out but could not because i had a few weeks to graduate

You'll never find her if you're looking for her.

well i dont know ya but you seem to understand your not BAD looking. but personally, i think your being to picky. girls dont have to FIT you. sometimes having differences causes a fun sort of friction in a relationship. lol get out there and ask a girl out, dont kiss on the first date, clean up shave and such, and pay for everything. be confident and learn your game friend! find a pretty one and make us all proud! best of luck!

patience and wanking

I am 18 and single and I haven't had a decent bf, I am also shy and i know what it's like to want something but no be sure of it. It will happen when the times right and this is a learning experience for you. First, write down a list of what you look for in a girl and sooner or later a girl will come ago and fit you very well. :)

I found mine by looking :) I didn't have my first gf until I was 19 also :(

Yeah - a girl friend is unlikely to just fall into your lap despite your stunningly good looks.

Get over the shyness. Ask someone out on a date. Just do it.