I started masturbating when I was young, reallly young (I still thought babies came about from kissing!). It felt good so I did it, and continued doing it for the past 14 years! The problem is, back when I was 7 or so, the only thing that felt good was rubbing/humping pillows or stuffed animals. To this day, this is the method I use to achieve orgasm, well, minus the stuffed animals. Now that I'm older and sexually active, I find it IMPOSSIBLE to reach orgasm with my boyfriend. It doesn't bother ME that much because I can go back to my apartment and do it myself, but he's beginning to feel incompetent and sad, which saddens me! I've tried stimulating myself in other ways in hopes of finding something that could work, but I'm afraid after 14 years of doing pillows, I'M STUCK! Is anyone familiar with this problem or have any suggestions? thanks!