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Can't orgasm with partner! ONLY PILLOWS
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I started masturbating when I was young, reallly young (I still thought babies came about from kissing!). It felt good so I did it, and continued doing it for the past 14 years! The problem is, back when I was 7 or so, the only thing that felt good was rubbing/humping pillows or stuffed animals. To this day, this is the method I use to achieve orgasm, well, minus the stuffed animals. Now that I'm older and sexually active, I find it IMPOSSIBLE to reach orgasm with my boyfriend. It doesn't bother ME that much because I can go back to my apartment and do it myself, but he's beginning to feel incompetent and sad, which saddens me! I've tried stimulating myself in other ways in hopes of finding something that could work, but I'm afraid after 14 years of doing pillows, I'M STUCK! Is anyone familiar with this problem or have any suggestions? thanks!
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That is the way I learned how to masturbate, and I didn't know what I was doing it felt good then I saw a mad TV episode and realized that I was fucking myself.
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I know exactly what you're going through because the same thing happened to me.... I started doing pillow humping stuff when I was like 7 or 8 and quickly became addicted to it :( I still do it now almost daily (I'm 24 yrs old now) and my BF has no idea, except he gets frustrated because he cant get me off. Contact me so we can chat about this :(
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@: Gizmo
Hi,

Can you contact me so we can talk too because my gf is used to pillows and was wondering if you knew something that could help me out

thanks
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Moi
Why not try humping his thigh as you do a pillow . . .
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@: Moi
The thigh humping thing my work. As would the whole 'rubbing the penis on the length of the vagina (up and down the slit being sure to rub the clitoris)'-thing.
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Wait...your a girl and u cant reach orgasm? Cause I do know (and there is research on this), males who masturbate by lying face down and humping their bed/pillow/whatever put themselves at risk of not being able to achieve orgasm through normal sex. But since your a girl ... I dont think that would be the cause ... by the way how do girls masturbate by fucking their pillows anyway?....
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HI There,

well you can try this put a pillow in between your legs and you on your fours......

Let him fuck you from behind while you rub yur clit on your pillow......

i am sure you gonna have the best sexual content in your life
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I need advice. Fist time in my life I am dating girl that can only cum when I am on the top of her an pressing realy hard on her clit. She never cum in her life when partner is in the back. It happen only ones (from the back) when she wore tight shorts and i kind of sliped inside of her while she was dressed and she came like after 3-4min.Also she squirted at one ocasion and she said she never had that before. She gets realy, i mean realy wet so it seems like everythin is in place. I realy like the girl and I realy want to make her cum when Im holding her by the waist from the back. So what can I do?
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Wow, straight up my alley. Welcome and join the club. Pillows = awesomeness. I enjoy sex, alot. But, I've never really got an orgasm during sex either.. Only the pillow has the answer to it. And I have no idea why neither of the guys I've been with have made me orgasm.

:( but its really weird I thought I was the only girl who did the pillow thing. Haha I'm not embarrassed anymore. So, one embarrassing thing gone.
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cabinet70
He will have to stimulte your outside more right on the clit and fradually you will get feeling in other areas. Get him to rub his cock the length of your pussy on the outside
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Hi GIZMO, could you contact me with information on what you did that was successful.I am thinking about going to a therapist as I have the same inability to not orgasm with my partner. Can you recommend any positions or anything I can do to try and learn.
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I felt the same way it sucks cause u can only cum when u rub ur clit on something. But the good thing is when u ride him rub ur clit at the same time IT WORKS
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It's perfectly normal to have that "one thing" that get's you off. (For me, it's facials. If I can't come on a girls face, I can't cum at all.)

I'm actually kind of jealous of you because some of the greatest orgasms I've ever had were with pillows and now that I'm older and jaded, it doesn't work anymore. When I was young, I could wait to go to bed and let my mind drift off into the unknown. I mostly fantasied about girls in my school in scenarios were we would innocently explore each other and finally have sex just to see what it was like.

How I wish I could get off to pillows again!!!
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try gettin him to suck your tits
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