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cant stop thinking about a girl
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So there was a girl in high school who I fell in love with and she was into me to but I was in a long relationship with another girl. I have never cheated on anyone and I don't think that its right to do it so I never did anything with this girl (we will call her kc for now). So kc moved away and I still thought about her, I even thought about her while having sex at least 10 times in every relationship since. Fast forward about 4 yrs. I tell a friend/co-worker in a factory about it and we decide to start a quest to find out what had become of KC. I did a people search online and found her living in the same town I did. I could not find a phone number so I went over there one day before work and she and I talked she said that she had called off work that day for the first time in a year just because she felt like it (coincidence?) but she had a boyfriend so we only emailed back and forth. so while I was waiting for her relationship to fall apart I ended up getting a new g/f and KC and I decided that we should stop talking seeing that we were both in relationships. Well its been about two years now and I still have the same g/f but I can't stop thinking about KC and I know its not right to my g/f but I am thinking about trying to get back in contact with KC. in short I want KC but I don't want to break up with my g/f or cheat on her. so what do I do?
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live4yourself (12969)
2008-01-19 22:01:08
how could I break that news to my g/f without her freaking out?
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YumInsanity (16176)
2008-09-16 10:09:46
do what you think is right. and by that i mean do what i think is right. go after kc, you could possibly regret it for the rest of your life if you dont. but dont take my word for it
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P00LTOY (15451)
2008-09-16 10:46:13
@: YumInsanity
i totally agree. so poster do what you think is right, meaning do what YumInsanity and I think is right. sorry Yum, that was such a funny line I had to steal it. don't hate me because you're beautiful.
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P00LTOY (15451)
2008-09-16 10:48:57
so go after kc, you fool. because if you don't, yum and I will find kc, and we will anally and vaginally rape her and generally abuse her to the point where she will no longer talk in English and will join a nunnery, where she will remain for the rest of her life, and you will never have a chance to be with her.

So hurry!!! there's not much time.
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jimi2006 (15639)
2008-09-17 14:04:26
@: P00LTOY
go and fuck your mother and stop leaving twisted comments on genuine peoples stories you dirty bastard!
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jimi2006 (15639)
2008-09-17 14:12:02
You know mate, you should go and talk to her again. im sort of in the same situation atm. if you read my story you might understand! just i cant decide wether or not my girlfriend is worth the hassel. and hell is there hassel! its a strange thing when you get something into your head that you cant get rid of. go and see her and take it from there :)
p.s sorry about my previous comment. that arsehole left a really sick messege on my story and really pissed me off lol
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P00LTOY (15451)
2008-09-17 20:45:02
@: jimi2006
i left a twisted message on your story? which one was that? I want to go back to it and have a good laugh.

Don't take yourself so seriously, that's the first sign of being a genuine asshole.
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SSUM1 (17719)
2008-11-15 03:10:25
Actually the first sign of being a genuine **hole is when you leave comments that only and ***hole would leave then go and say you were just kidding. Anyway to answer this guys question, you have to think about what will happen to everyone else. Think about your current girlfriend and how she will feel. She will feel like you never really liked her in the first place. So to make it very simple, option A: you leave a girl and make her extremely sad and possibly never trust anyone ever again, but you will be happy with someone. Or option B: you stay with your girlfriend, try to always make her happy, and just forget about the whole thing. I don't know about you but I'm kind of liking option A. Man, I wish I would have thought of that.
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teehee (19010)
2009-01-01 14:06:57
I think you should go for KC. cos if ur current r.breaks down u'll want KC. and in ur next r.ship u'll still be thinkin of KC.

sometimes ppl affect us like that and we cant help but think of them for a long time. especially if we make contact with them after a long time.

It's also not fair on ur current/previous/future girlfriends if u hav some other girl on ur mind. think of it from ur girlfriends point of view. and think of it form mine, the other people that hav commented, and ur friends point of view... what would we all say and think?
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animallover (19620)
2009-01-23 07:20:43
you need to break up with your girlfriend especially if you are thinking of KC while with her. That is so unfair towards. You need to tell KC how you feel and if she does not want to dump her boyfriend for you she obviously does not feel the same. It unfair to your girlfriend and her boyfriend
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buttscratinbootykal (20705)
2009-03-04 16:39:30
awwww thats soo sweet...but dnt cheat on her because hell every gurl freaks out!!!
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apsel90275 (21541)
2009-04-03 03:16:02
WOW...this is similar to my predicament, so i know where ur comin from... unfortunately I don't know what to do either. :(

PLEASE CHECK OUT MY STORY AND COMMENT!!!!!
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apsel90275 (21541)
2009-04-03 03:19:22
comments from GIRLS especially will be helpful to let me see her point of view :)
and also guys that have experience in this kind of situation to let me know what worked or didn't work for you.
THANKS
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melvino (21918)
2009-04-13 15:26:56
honestly do what is right its your future.dont ruin it fight your urges.
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ven067 (21694)
2009-05-08 10:19:11
go here for inspiration lol
www.decembersummers.blogspot.com
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Lindseykins (26098)
2009-07-26 00:06:06
If you are meant to be with her you'll be able to find her again. If you're a religious person pray about it.
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