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Caught in bed with a guy
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I have always been ashamed of the fact that i am gay, but when i met my boyfriend, he gave me the strength to feel proud about my sexuality. I am now 18 and we have been together for just over a year. We started experimenting with oral sex about 4 months into the relationship, but we decided to wait to have full sex until last night. My parents had gone out of town for the weekend, so we had the place to ourselves. we had a candlelit meal, a bubble bath, and then we moved into the bedroom, where we had full anal sex. 3 times! It was amazing until my mom walked in on us! She didn't know that i was gay until that point, and now, as you can imagine, she is not happy. She kicked me out of the house right there and she said she didn't want to see me for a very long time. The thing is, i don't really know how long a very long time is. Obviously i am embarrased and mortified, but the feelings of shame are just flooding back. I stayed at my boyfriends last night, but when he suggested we have sex, i couldn't do it. I was so upset about what had happened at my moms. I dont' think i will be having sex for a while, but i don't want my relationship with my boyfriend to be affected. And i don't want to disappoint my mom. What should i do?
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Comments (9)
vicky (7000)
2007-03-28 14:12:44
u r an asshole, learn something from the cat have u ever seen it shitting anywhere if u do u r o.k. be frank with ur parents and be committed to what u are even if it is wrong for others but right for u.
Having sex with opposite sex is much better as opposites attracts and hey its in nature.
Try to live separately from now onwards ur mom will be dissaponted but hey.... obladi oblada life goes on....
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JeepMac84 (7004)
2007-03-28 18:06:57
Ok, so the other two comments so far are useless, demeaning, and plain old stupid. There's nothing wrong with what happened, as far as I'm concerned. Things like that happen, and you are who you are. Some people, however, are more accepting than others when it comes to being Gay. It can be difficult at times, but you'll find a way, trust me. I know. I've never been caught in bed, but I've faced people who just can't handle the fact that I am who I am. The best thing you can do is just be yourself, be who you are, who you are meant to be. If others can't accept that, it's their own loss. Have you tried talking to your parents since then? If not, try. Maybe they just needed some time to cool down. Good luck, and best wishes.
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hilai (6882)
2007-03-28 23:02:38
i feel so bad for you! *hugs* don't worry about it sweety. most things just take a little time to sink in. and in reference to georgemcfly: i highly doubt you're a doctor if you can say that sh*t. people can't just stop being who they are. its not like you can walk up and slap someone and tell them not to be a certain way. we are all who we are, whether anybody else likes it or not. don't be ashamed of who you are! be proud (i'm bi and i love every minute of it)! because there are plenty of us who love you and everyone else, regardless of what/who you do!
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-03-29 13:33:50
Its ok, your mom is a homophobe, There is nothing wrong with being gay, as I myself am bi (although I havnt had anal, so cant comment on that part)

You should call your mother and ask her why she kicked you out, and that if she has a problem with your sexuality then she should talk to you about it, human to human.

Now, are you sure she kicked you out for being gay? Or that you were having sex in her house while she was there without her even knowing you were seeing somone (boy or girl)

Also, try not to yell, even if she does, or insult her if she insults you, because your best option is to stay cool and keep your head.

If you have a sister, who has her own place, that would be the best place to live for now, because she wouldnt kick you out for being gay/bi.

Also, if your dad is still alive, and doesnt know, its best to tell him before your mother does. And, when you do tell him, it would be safer to say your bi, instead of flat out gay. (even if u are flat out gay)

Thats all I can think of to help ya, and remember, your sexuality is ur choice, and ur business only, and no one can make you change that (unless u suddenly become attracted to a really hot chick by some wierd coincidence and some sht you would see in a B movie)
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-03-29 13:36:11
Also, george mcfly, in ur profile you have your favorite food as being "semen" and your quote is "gayness is great" also, supposedly your a 67 year old man, who is a doctor, who is located in reading.

None of that is funny, and some is contradicting
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Kantir (7023)
2007-03-29 15:04:08
There's nothing wrong with being gay and you should be glad that you have a boyfriend. Some of us will never get lucky.
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DoonDoon (7460)
2007-05-05 22:21:07
you must work to 1)separate yourself from your mother and 2)continue to enjoy f**cking your boyfriend. both of these objectives are essential to your development as an adult.

Good luck to you and God bless, my son.
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fathertime (8207)
2007-05-06 20:12:58
you are who you are. your bf might not last but your mom will always be mom. expect understanding from your bf or move on. talk to mom. she'll need time to come to accept you as you are. guessing she loves you no matter what happens.
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Neuroticism (9109)
2007-06-29 22:21:19
Tell your mother to fuck off, it's your life, you make your bed, you lay in it. Your mother was the vessel to make you exist, that's all, really. The minute you become an adult, you're accountable for your actions by you, you condemn them, not your parents. Being gay is not disgusting nor wrong nor incorrect nor evil, you can't fight it, you can't turn it off, so don't bother and your mother should be happy that you found -love-.

Love should matter above it all.

Good luck to you.
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