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well depends, if you remember the relationship as mostly good then give him ONE chance. Don't become a doormat tho.

If the time with him wasn't so good, maybe you shouldn't bother.

It was kinda up and done for the most part things were good!! but i have given him a lot of chances over those 4 years!! so...

he is your first by the sounds of it. I think you should move on and have a single life without atachments for a while and experience life in general and maybe in a couple of years when yous have both had a bit of life experience you may get back together and it will be better then I reckon

don't give him another chance as much as you might want to. he gave you up for another girl and might still be with her if SHE hadn't dumped HIM. Marry him after this?? What are you totally soft in the head??

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once a cheater, always a cheater... He will most likely do it again even if your were to turn into the hot slut of his dreams and let him have you anyway, anytime and anywhere.... Of course if you let me have you anyway, anytime and anywhere I wouldn't cheat on you. I promise baby... really...

It's normal to wanna get back with him.
But DON'T.
I promise you'll regret it entirely.

I think you should just forget about him.
If he's gonna cheat on you and then you know stay with the girl (for a week) he cheated on you with wtf.
Sounds like he wants you back because the other girl broke up with him and he probably cant find another girl.
Well whatever i have been through a lot too thinking going back out with someone again might make them change.
People don't change. They don't.
They cant and they wont.
no matter how much you think you love him you guys have been separated for a while now he was probably doing a lot of other woman.
getting diseases and stuff ughhh

I think you should date other guys first just to see what you may be missing. If he still wants to be with you and tries to make an effort, then maybe you can give him another shot. He doesn't seem like he will do that though, and he seems a bit on the immature side, sorry to say that.

if he makes you happy take him back then cheet on him so he knows how it feels

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Udi's cleaned up this place, dillrod. so stay on topic or your account will be fucking deleted.

Yea i think that the main reason yo want to get back with him, is you have been with him so long thats all you know and thats what your confartable, you just have to look in your heart to see if you can forgive him and make sure hee know that if you do he cant cheat and you will always come back

Yah pretty much thanks for the advice!!

If he cheats on you now, before you're married, what the heck do you think he's going to do AFTER you're married??? Don't waste your time with this loser. Yes, it's normal to want him back, but I seriously recommend that you write this guy off and find someone who is not a cheating pig who respects you!

screw him!
you don't marry a cheater!

fuk yes its normal
u also have to look at the reasons y he cheated on u.
u should talk to him about it.
im sure after all this he will most likely never cheat on u.
and he misses u alot no boubt. i was witha girl for 1 year n i cheated on her once.
she found out n we broke up. and i hated myself. after a few months we got back together and i will never do it again dats for sure.

dont waste your life on someone like this. Been there done that. I finally moved on after a few years and now and happily married to someone else.

Its gonna be funny when he cheats on you again when you are MARRIED.

It is perfectly normal to want to give him another chance because you obviously had very deep feelings for him. I'm not going to say once a cheater always a cheater because I think pretty much every guy cheats one time or another. I do caution you on getting back with him. I had an ex I was with for like 3 years and I discovered he was cheating right after he gave me a ring. We did get back together like 5 months or so after and stayed together for about a year and a half after that and even though I'm 99.9% sure he didn't cheat during that time, I couldn't trust him. I became paranoid everytime he was home 15 mins later than usual and I was constantly snooping and trying to keep tabs on him. Our relationship just wasn't the same, neither one of us really trusted the other and so after that point, I broke up with him because I didn't like who I'd become. Obviously it's your choice and there's a chance it may just work out but it probably will never be the same.

once a cheater
always a cheater

what makes you think he wont do it again after?
men are men on top of everything
and when they see chicks temptations always there

its not like girls dont hav temptations

also the once a cheater always a cheater isnt exactly true

i mean if someone cheats on their partner because the other partner was pushing them away or was really close to breaking it off, its understandable, yet still wrong, but if things are being treated fairly and things are better the next time around i doubt he'll make the same mistake twice, if he does then kick them to the curb. if you really respect your partner you will have the mental power to just say no to temptation. its not that hard when you think about it, if you really wanted to get some other random person out of the picture you could have done it on more than one occasion, yet people choose to keep these "friends" it all comes down to is your relationship working, if it is then your an idiot for cheating on someone you once "cared about"

He took your virginity...does that mean he owes you something?

Otherwise just go your separate ways

your in love with him but hes awful. there you go. stay away form him

she dumped him because there was no more risk of being caught. she liked the game of doing something that was wrong... and he went along with it. Any relationship that has many ups and downs and one person forgiving more than the other...then that is an unhealthy relationship. One that you both will be doing yourselves a disservice by getting back together.

Don't do it!