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For valentines my boyfriend got flowers for his "friend" and I would like to hear from some of the men out there is it normal to get flowers for another woman on valentines if she is only a friend? Women can reply if they want but I have already asked my girlfriends and they all have the same answer I need a male's perspective.
Do you think it's normal?
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This is definitely normal.
You don't say what "boyfriend" means to you. Are you engaged, etc?
Otherwise, it seems perfectly normal and approprate to me, and it doesn't make sense that you should be bothered by it.
Are you some sort of insecure, control-freak or what? What kind of happiness do you think that sort of attitude will bring you?
Yes we are engaged, living together, etc. and no I am not a insecure, control-freak. I was only asking thanks
Thats hot! seriously I love that type of interaction its so cute I want to pinch your cheeks. yes those cheeks LOL
dont be so rude. she was asking for help not ur bullshit!

i dnt think its normal i really dont.
When my husband and I were dating, we hung out with a group of friends and we were a very tight knit group. One Valentine's day, he bought me a bouquet of roses and gave individual roses to our chick friends. At first I thought it was odd and I wondered why he would do such a thing. I asked him the reason and he said that since he was getting me flowers he thought it would be nice to get them for our friends too. The point is he was just being a nice guy by remembering our friends, and of course, I was the one who got the biggest gift of all...him. If he didn't want to be with me he wouldn't be. Since then, some of my male friends give me a rose or a flower on holidays because they know that I like them, my husband does not get jealous or irate about it...he knows that I belong to him. Don't worry too deeply about such a trivial thing. If he didn't want to be with you he wouldn't. It is normal to be curious about the situation though. Some things can look odd at first, especially if the relationship is new. Just think of it as him being a nice guy until he gives you a real reason to worry (which hopefully will never happen).

~Peace~
it depends how long he has been friends with her. if youve never noticed anything way to flirty or touchy then i think its fine. but otherwise you should look into it. for one does he let you hangout with him and her? or he cant hangout with you both at the same time, cause then that sounds like something is being hidden and if you all dont hangout cause she hates you, then she likes him otherwise if they were just friends she would learn to like you under most circustances.
Hiya- where i live i think it would be considered pretty unacceptable for your partner to get flowers for some other chick unless its his mum!! and i just reread the message- they were for Valentines day for goodness sake...isn't that about giving flowers to the one you love??
Did he get you any? If he only got them for his "Friend" then he is obviously a complete twat