Are You Normal?

Curious how others might perceive your situation? Submit your story today and find out what others think...

children what to do
13% Normal
20 Comments

i have 4 children, 21,19,17,16. and its all become to much for me.. they are not babies...
the madness of tryin to live with this age group has drivin me Mad.. so i Moved Out!
yip gave them tha house an left. I know dudes find this mad.. but just think i dont have to worry where an what they all up to i know.. Im in transit at the moment an am lookin for work an accomation.. which i think will work its self out... bottom line for me

LIFES TO SHORT FOR WORRY
Do you think it's normal?
Does this story fit one of these flags? If so, click it! [Best Of] [Funny] [Interesting] [Weird][Lame] [Off Topic] [Innapropriate]
Comments (20)
Yeah, that's the way. What a wonderful world this will be when everybody runs away from their responsibilities and just look after themselves.
@: WarLord
well the 19 and 21 shuld move out themselves, the 17 shuld move out next year and the 16 just let him go to parties and get wasted and laid.
@: WarLord
that wasnt meant to be directed at u warlord, but as this is too u aswell.

Haha, so true :)
You brought these kids into the world they are you responsibility till you leave home I suggest you return home and do your job and raise them
you are a stupid irresponsible idiot. I hope you are arrested for child abuse and abandonment.
i have two kids and id never abandon them though they don't live with me. yeah kids can be load of crap especially at that age. but go back to them mate. it isnt right leaving them on their own like that.

plus theyre going to fuck your house up big time. why the fuck waste a good house?
Good to see you back here Spam

On the news today a family of I think 6 kids were abandoned by their parent and were living i filthy conditions theyd ben alone for several weeks
fake.
Liberated
I don't think you're a real mom. Your writing style and grammar is too stupid for an adult woman.
hey stargirl!
@: P00LTOY
LMAO
Sounds like you lost control long ago. I also have 4 kids aged 25, 23, 15 and 11 the 2 oldest are married with kids. The 15 and 11 year old are in school and are respectable and love their parents, it's too bad you didn't do your job, you see what happens when you don't
I know it's stress that drove you to running away but I can completely understand you but you need to go back and take charge and kick your older two kids out, and take back your house and deal with your 2 youngest until they can move out.
What's wrong with you, you have a responsibility! Yeah, in a perfect world, there would be no worries. But you're being selfish by leaving your children! You're an idiot to think they don't need you, they are going to be scarred from this for the rest of their lives. You're just a coward, too scared to deal with reponsibility so you run away. Yeah, that age group is maddening but every parent goes through it! When they grow up you have a strained relationship you're going to realize what a huge, senseless mistake this was.
Actually scratch what I just said I misread it. I thought the youngest was 12 and the oldest was 16. Yeah, you need to go back there and kick out the older kids.
What was going on that you felt you had to abandon your home & family?
What the f*ck? My dad abandoned me and it screwed me up for life. So you think that just because your kids are difficult you can just f*cking quit? Good job a**hole.
People who haven't had four older teenagers don't need to be so quick to judge. I vote with the others who say that the two who are of age need to be helped to move. (I helped my 19-year-old find an apartment, helped her move and paid for the deposit and first month's rent. You obviously dont have to do that; only if you can afford to.)

Then, lay the law down to the younger two. If they won't mind, put them in foster care for while. You don't need to risk your sanity.
being a product of abandonment, i just would like to shake you. no matter what, your kids need you. it's true that the older ones should be gone already, but what bout those younger teens? it worries me, seems you should stay around and teach them those tools you never gave them. it's never to late. teach them what they need to get by in a harsh world. don't just give up, you should have thought of that when you conceived that many fucking times.