Christian sex?

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Its normal. They've made their choices, you've made yours. One is no more or less Christian than the other. That's just churchy propaganda. I wouldn't talk to them further about this. Not that they would burn you at the stake. Just I doubt you will get any helpful, unbiased and NORMAL advice

Protecting your body & being healthy is important e.g. birth control & STDs and being in a safe relationship. Good idea to speak with a health professional, like a public health nurse, or family doctor. Become educated in a broader sense - you are ready and need to.

I'm christian have been all my life and i have never given it a second taught!
Sex is a natural thing and will always be pure by the way your talking about your friends they seem quiet young meaning you are too maybe not
but if your under sixteen you should consider keeping yourself pure or however you want to put it but in the end love ehat eva feels right for you you know !


and remember dont be silly wrap your willy lol!!!!!

Don't listen to your friends. They are not you. YOU should make your own decisions. Not your friends.

everyone has urges, and being christian is no different

and you can 'repurify' your body by going to confession and by sticking to a promise that you'll never do it again .

Think about it.

Who created everything, God, right?
then whatever happens in nature is God's work as well, right?
is sex natural? yes, absolutely.
without sex you couldn't have been born.
it is absolutely normal for you to have sex.

However, here comes the problem.
in christianity, you shouldn't be having sex with someone that is not committed to you.
this means your husband.
you can have sex as many as you want, but you should have sex with right one, and after marriage.

so if you are a faithful christian, and want to do what God wants us to do, and if you are not gonna marry your bf.... then unfortunately
what you are doing is wrong.

but we are not taking about right or wrong here, we are talking about normal or abnormal.
so you are normal, we were created to have sex, it is normal for you to feel to have sex and have sex.

its normal for any girl or boy to enjoy sex

dont listen to anyones bullshit !
Christians sorry but i think they need help..
premarital sex...
come onnnnn... its stupid to me just another stupid christian move to keep people brainwashed and unhappy do what yu want if yur friends want to waste their lives and wait till marriage so be it but i suggest yu dont i mean saving yourself for one guy.... their are variety out their im not saying go fuck everyone that walks through the door but live yur life to the fullest and remember if yur happy god's happy [=

I'm not a full Christian, but I would concider myself to believe in Christ and God and read the bible etc.

I don't believe there is anything wrong with having sex as long as it is under control and you know about your sexual health etc, and about the sexual health of the person you are with.

If you have continuous sex with your boyfriend, that is similar to married life with freedom, because you trust and care for eachother, there should be nothing stopping you if you are both happy.

Sometimes devoted Christians can be iver the top and they don't understnad basic natural human needs

fuck it if your only sleeping with your boyfriend then your fine
what you gonna stop now because your friends say its not right? there probably just jelous
im christian and i've been with my gf for 3 years and we have sex all the time so dont worry about it

No, it's really not. If you claim you're a Christian but you let your panties drop quicker than a bomb from Russia, then you're clearly not a Christian. You need to re-evaluate your relationship with Christ and realize that all these people telling you it's normal and okay are WRONG. If you're a true Christian, you would know that the Bible says sex outside of marriage is wrong and God forbids it. I know I sound like a hardcore Bible freak, but honey, it's the truth.

Please read Dannah Gresh's "And the Bride Wore White."

You think EVERYONE who isn't you needs help? Learn to respect other views. And most of all respect your elders. You have a lot of growing up to do

yes its normal there is a lot of ppl who love sex

WTH are you saying? That is just babble.

It's a little hypocritical to call yourself "Christian", while at the same time disobeying the word of God. The Scriptures read, "Women, do not have sex with a man who is not your husband. Men, do not have sex with a woman who is not your wife." If you don't want to follow the Scriptures, then you might as well stop calling yourself a Christian. I mean, it's your life, and if you don't want to live it a certain way, then you should at least stop pretending.

Is it just me? Or you really are contradicting yousrself? .. If you're talking about Obeying God and following our religion.. Then Right or Wrong is Normal and Abnormal.. Cause normally we do follow our religion and the rules as God set it.. and what is abnormal and contradicting.. if we do believe in God and are not convinced with his rules..

@ Publisher .. You know what..God set Rules for A Good Reason... and not just to ruin our happiness.. God forbids having Sex before marriage because God wants to keep you safe and protect you .. However, if you still want to do it .. God wouldn't be bothered.. cause it is you who's going to face troubles and Suffer from the CONSEQUENCES, either in life or death. And one more thing.. God is the only one in your life who would give you advice and is not benefiting from it.. If your posting your stories on here and people keep giving you advice.. You can't really trust them.. do you? And even though if you do.. you got a brain to judge their opinions. So pick what makes sense to you ...

I salute your friends for warning you though.. they seem good people for wanting to save you.

Normal but wrong... see that's what i mean =/

everyone disobeys gods word and i know that, but hun its time to talk to god about this. if you need help, dont ask non Christians, they may not fully understand your situation. go to god and ask for help, ask to have him help you, or ask him to help you realize what you should really do better, if that makes any sense whatsoever.

So many opinions. Sex is a physiological fact which is popular in one form or another among all living things. Morals are devices placed on self and by others. While I don't advocate promiscuity, the facts of the matters are that no one here can tell you about your relationship with God any more than they can describe or understand perfection. While there can be psychological aspects to any decisions you make, also, keep in mind your own physical (health) preservation. Learn about the things involving sex, not just STD's but things like what can happen with your vaginal flora as it can be altered though unprotected sex, especially with multiple partners.. Learn. You mind will make up itself on the other stuff.

God put those desires in you, so its normal. I wouldn't think it would be a good idea to be slutty and sleep with everyone you meet. Take your time and be very choosy about how you sleep with. Sex can lead to STDs and pregnancies.

there many evolutionary reasons why you like having sex. in fact it is the primary instinct of a sexually mature human. to FUCK. to procreate.

but on the moral side of things. you consider yourself a christian yet you willingly (not too mention the fact that you like doing it) sin. if you feel bad about it then by all means stop doing it. but if you dont really give a fuck. then why not save a step and say that god doesnt exist. you can have moral freedom.

religion and sex are a fight. but but do your best to keep it safe. health and happyness first. sex is a part of life.

You know that Christians only have sex to make babies right? and so since the man believed that women was just vaginas for that purpose

Please give me a break

"You know that Christians only have sex to make babies right?"

Wow, just when I thought I've read the stupidest comment, I come across another one. Honestly, stop acting like you know what you're talking about. You're only making yourself look bad by spouting stereotypes like this.

i pfrefre pure girls for marriage,, but it is up to you and do safe sex.

advice : do always safe SEX ok.