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I'm a lesbian whose been dating another "woman" for two weeks now. My partner would only perform oral sex and "use toys" on me , but athough we'd make out pretty heavy, "she" would never let me pleasure "her". Last week, We had dinner at "her" place ,and "she " has just confessed to me that she's really a guy that cross-dresses
from time to time, (We met in a gay club, by the way). Now,I still like this person, but I'm angry at them for lying to me. The one thing in my life that I was clear about was my sexuality, now I'm not even sure about that anymore.....I still have'nt decided If I want to break with them or not ....(I 've decided not to speak to them until I straighten things out)... I know that this is FAR from a "normal" relationship, But if any of you out there have any SOUND advice on whether or not I should break up w/ this person, or give them another chance, Please let me know...(Lewd, Stupid comments are NOT welcome!!)
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Anonymous
2006-06-21 07:51:53
Im sorry how do you expect Not to get any 'lewd' or 'stupid' comments on this story!?? So your with a guy that you like but he likes to dress up like you! And that displeases you because your a lesbian! But isnt this modern world all about accepting people for what they are??! You say He/She/Whatever likes to use "toys" to pleasure you maybe you should try that afterall it sounds like thats what He/She/etc. is looking for! All in all this relationship was/is special to you and you should accept the person regardless of gender or panty manufacteur and not break up! I hope this advice has been both beneficial and educational! ... remember I care!!
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duracell (2487)
2006-06-22 12:51:20
does he like to crossdress sometimes or all the time. If not nearly all the time you should dump him. If he wants to be devoted and crossdress as a girl nearly all the time then you should consider keeping her. After all this isnt a strong opening line: "Im really a guy but like to cross dress. Would you like to dance?"
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-06-23 01:21:14
@: duracell
Well, to answer you question, When we met and we were dating, he would cross-dress all the time...He looked so feminine when I met him that it was very easy to mistake him for a girl!(except he was pretty tall). Are you telling me that I should "dump him" if does'nt cross-dress ALL the time? That's really strange.
The reason why I dumped him was not because of the cross-dressing, but because of the deception on his part. He could've just told me from the beginning that he was really a guy, so I could decide for myself whether I wanted to get serious w/him or not. Are you male or female? If male, do you like to cross-dress? If female,have you ever dated a cross-dresser? Hope I've answered your questions, and I hope to hear back from you soon.
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-06-23 01:27:13
@: Anonymous
Although I did state no "Lewd " or "Stupid" comments, despite waht you may think, I don't that my story is stupid--just different. But thanks anyway for you sound advice and your opinion /comment,which was helpful.
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duracell (2487)
2006-06-29 11:01:19
@: Anonymous (Story Author)
The matter is: How are your relationships? How is he towards you? Is he messing around with you or is he serious about this? Ask him why he didnt tell you sooner. What is his answer? Do you believe himj? That he didnt tell you can be understandable. This is realy sensitive subject. Its understandable to be affraid of rejection if you tell. But he could also be messing with you. Just making fun. I have no idea. The question is yours to answer. If he is serious about you and he didnt tell you because he was affraid you should keep him if you want and forgive him.
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Anonymous
2006-07-04 09:00:33
@: duracell
you are a lez right? well then then this year's oscar for funniest line goes to....YOU!! For this GEM!!...

"....(I 've decided not to speak to them until I straighten things out)..."

dyke, straighten, eh, Eh, EH?? GEDDIT!!!! LMAO!! You're the best babe!! (OR "Bob" if you prefer)
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mimi (1554)
2006-07-21 18:01:53
@: Anonymous
First of all (whoever you are), I won't even dignify you're stupid "comment" w/ anything else to say except that you have some really serious issues.....Second You're a real LOSER for being on the site on the 4th-of-July!!1 There were so many more FUN things to do that day besides surf the 'net-----LOSER---FAG!!!!!
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mimi (1554)
2006-07-21 18:37:44
@: duracell
I have'nt had the best track record when it comes to relationships. When we were together, he treated me with nothing but Love, Kindness, and Respect. No, He never messed cheated on me when we were going out and he says he isn't seeing anyone now, (and neither am I)...He's as serious about me as I am about him. He said that he did'nt tell me sooner because he really likes me and he was afraid of how I was going to react..GO FIGURE!! You're right, trans-gender issues are one of those serious subjects that society does'nt weant to deal with--let alone talk about. I'm seriously thinking about forgiving him and getting back together with him. Thanx for your advice Duracell,..Hope to hear from you again soon. (p.s. sorry I took so long to reply.)
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Anonymous
2006-07-24 04:21:22
@: mimi
haha stupid lez can't even make up her own mind about who she fancies let alone anythig else - needs internet help!! LOL - I LOVE to come on here and read about all you pathetic losers, it is the funniest shit EVER!!

As for 4th of July? Why would I be celebrating that, or is this typical fucking ignorant stupid US trash that assume that the WORLD WIDE web reaches no further than the States? You are a stupid cunt aren't you? I feel sorry for the enlightened citizens of the US who fight the losing battle against this kind of species....*shakes head*
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Anonymous
2006-07-24 04:22:30
@: Anonymous
oh, and as for your end note "LOSER - FAG", are you simply screaming out facts about yourself again Homo girl??
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-08-03 22:12:50
@: Anonymous
I don't think that she wrote this story to be insulted,she just needed some sound advice.....I think that it's very immmature of you to be evil and hurtful like that. I think that it's pathetic to come on here and waste your time insulting people on here...Don't you have somthing better to do with your time? Obviously you don't. Despite what you think, most people feel that America is one of the greatest countries in world...Only inthis country would an idiot like you be able to express yourself insuch a crude way and NOT get penalized for it! What country are from--MARS? where do you get off calling anyone trash or homo?? You seem nothing more than a PATHETIC SOULwhose nothing more than NARCISSISTIC and HOMOPHOBIC and in need of some REALLY SERIOUS THERAPY....Who knows, you're probably GAY AND TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET!!!-HOLLA!!
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2006-08-26 20:42:06
ummmmmm...
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