There is always drama in my life now that I'm with her. She was only 19 when we started dating. She is now almost 22. I'm 29. She moved in quick due to drama with an employer/roommate. Her parents are very strick so I had her move in with me to help her out. We got along great and we decided to keep living together. The problems started quickly. She always talks crap on people and she thinks they are doing the same. I guess she has very low self esteem and a bit of a chip on her shoulder. She has ruined many friendships that I've had. Most of them with girls who are friends. I've been able to keep a couple of them because she got along with them. She's had problems with someone at almost every job that she had. It seems like she is mellowing out but I can hardley stand it anymore. now she's talking smack on my cousin. Yes my cousin might be a ditz but I don't want to hear it. It's constant drama. Things that seem insignificant turn into major drama. She also feels the need to get back at people who she feels have wronged her. She calls it sticking up for herself. I call it being confrontational but maybe I'm too mellow. I love her but I'm drained. I'm the type of guy who doesn't get involved in any drama. i never have issues with anyone.