My daughter is 8, and every time I come and tuck her in at night, She says "Mom, Can I lock my door?". At first, I was like "OK whatever sure!" Because normally kids don't want the door shut because of monsters or whatever. But then, I ask her "Wait, why baby? You're not scared of the monsters anymore?" She looks at the ceiling and says "I would rather the monsters that are in here every night to come get me, than the one that comes in here every other night..." I didnt know what to say so I just kiss her on her forehead, and walk out of the room, i have had this on my mind since last night...Please tell me she is just talking about a nightmare....
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You don't understand what she's saying?
Why don't you start off by being a concerned parent and asking "who is this monster?"
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I hope that your daughter is just overly imaginative, but I would feel morally remiss if I didn't put my 2 cents in and say that this needs serious investigation.
(I really wish this was a troll, the only thing worse than women beaters is the very person that might be this "monster")
Yes, this does indeed sound quite worrying - kids at that age don't usually ask to lock their doors.
Perhaps you could try asking her about her fears, for instance making it seem like nothing daunting and just a bit of fun.
This could be something serious, so perhaps ask her about who ther monsters are.
Please keep me posted!
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On a side note - If its just the two of you and she is saying things like that, we can explore the paranormal reasons. But until the other things are ruled out, this doesn't sound very paranormal.
try puting marbles on her floor in a pattern if somone stands on them they will move.
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Allow her to lock her door for her own safety and put a hidden camera in the hallway to see who tries to open it. Ensure that no-one else in the house finds out about this.
I also hope the psychologist can crack her and get to the bottom of this. Their minds are fragile at that age so it's understandable that she doesn't want to talk out of fear of what the "monster" will do.
Ideally, she should feel safe in her own home and be able to leave her door unlocked so that you can get to her quickly in the event of an emergency.
And I read that you do have your husband and dog home, so that adds to even more ominous behavior by one of them.
But please make sure no one else but you know about the camera. If a camera is absolutely out of the question, at least invest in a sound recorder and hide it in a drawer or something where no one will get easy access.
I don't want to accuse your husband or dog of anything, but they'd at least make some kind of noise coming in on your daughter.
If you can rule out the husband and the dog, and STILL hear something on the recorder, well that gets into paranormal things. But I still highly suggest doing all you can. Your daughter doesn't want this kind of attention, and she's openly withdrawing from everything because of it. Its not good.
I don't mean to accuse him in any way but...
For crying out loud why aren't you getting your daughter's vag tested?! Check for semen samples, anything!
anyways , we haven't set up a court date the lawyer and I are still going through the case and all that gudd stuff...
As far as my daughter....she not good she is still in denial,and she saying it wasn't her dad, and that we are wrong,so i signed her up for therapy. She is angry with me, really confuses me .....:/