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Dating a younger guy
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I'm talking to a guy who is 16 right now and I'm 19yrs old. He will be 17 in a couple months in June. I will be 20 in August. Is it okay for us to have feelings for each other and develop a relationship if I'm 20 and he is 17? He is very mature for his age. I was skeptical about the age thing because I'm worried what people would think. But is there even anything to worry about? Is it really that bad? I really like him. Please respond
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I wouldn't worry about it too much. Usually it's the other way around, but as long as it is a healthy relationship go for it.
Absolutely no problem. I dated a 20 yr old when I was 18, I loved the idea of an older woman. As long as you are okay with the secret "big head" that he may have about it and your friends joking with you about how you are "robbing the craddle" (which youre really not) there isnt a problem. Have fun and enjoy it, youre young. This guy could be around for a while...and then maybe even back 10 yrs down the road...mine was!
fuck him silly
It can still pose potential statutory rape law problems. And MOST women do mature much faster than men. They actually say that men don't mature until they're like in their late 20's. So if you're looking for a serious relationship, then I guess you would have to make that decision based off of his maturity level. Remember, he may ACT mature around you, but see how he acts around kids his own age. He's still very young, which means that he's probably not looking for anything long-term, though he may state that he does, in all reality, he most likely doesn't.

You can give it a shot and if things don't turn out, the good news for you, you're still young! There will be plenty more guys for the pickin' so as long as it doesn't present any legal issues, then do what you want.
Age is only a number.
i remember when i was 16 and she was 20 that was "cool" ended up regretting it FUCKING BI_CH stole my virginity
some people are 20 years older than there partner, of course it is
no i think you shouldnt date him ya ya he seems all mature but lemme tell ya you go out with him for a year and will he be mature still tell me in a year??
i just remember reading about this 45 year old guy - at his trial he said, "she was a very mature 13".
i know your type- you are one of those people who is so lame they are hated by literally everyone they meet. so you go out with someone younger cos theyll take anything, even your stinking ass.
if u love him dont worry what people think im 16 and my last gf was 19 i loved her we were together for a year before she started caring what people thoughtand she went to colledge and just gave up sadly it broke my heart
see i want to support u on this but i can tell u that i dated a guy 3 years younger then me. it was sssooo cool cause even though he was younger then me he was really mature n i was able to talk to him about everything. then randomly after we were together for a few months he just became this lil 16 year old(which he was)but then he started acting it, it was such a horrible letdown... just b careful n really get to know him before u get into a relationship with him
I'm not sure I understand the whole "what people might think" thing. Why would anybody think ANYTHING about a meager 3 year age difference? Do you watch TV?

If Donald "barfbag comb-over" Trump can saddle-up with a woman young enough to be his granddaughter, you can surely make it work with a guy who is only a few years younger.

PS The only individuals who have a problem with this type of thing are the old jealous farts who think they own everyone. But, who cares what *they* think, anyhow?
PSS Oh, and let's not forget about that dinosaur, Hugh Hefner. Yikes! He's old & ugly as sin. The only reason those girls hang out with him is because of the (do I really need to say it?).... $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

If he suddenly went bankrupt, they would drop him faster than a hot rock.

Life really sucks for him.
SHUT-UP
wat size r ur dick(s)
the age difference isn't bad at all and it's completly normal. when you have feelings for someone age shouldn't matter. (unless it's like 30 years or something like that) just don't start a relationship untill after he turns 18 so it's legal.
Sounds like "fucking bitch" GAVE you your first peice of ass.

You Gave away your own virginity.
I was a late bloomer, and my first time was just after I turned 17. She was 19.

Get this: First time, 4 minutes, Got her pregnant. Beat that!