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Dissapointed with Girlfirend's Sex
Hello, I'm a guy - 22. I love my girlfriend (one year younger) and I've been with her for almost 3 years. Everytime I see her it's smiles and laughter.. However while I would like to make Love one a day, she only feels like it 2 a month.
I have many sexual fantasies and no taboos, including oral sex (giving and receiving) and anal sex.
More to the point, the few times we do make love she feels reaches quickly. On the other hand it takes me in about 30-40 minutes to reach, and sometimes she reaches several times (2-3) and she starts being tired and we don't actually finish.
It also seems that my penis size - when we get very passionate - sometimes causes her pain (see says it's too long and feels it "touching inside").
I don't feel sexually satisfied (craving anal and oral sex) but more importantly she starts being depressed about her underperformance in bed.
I've spoken with her about our sexual problems and maybe how we could engage in swinging, however she defenitely does not like the idea of it.
And advice? I'm afraid about committing if one day I would end up breaking up with her simply because I need more sex, but still Love her.
I have many sexual fantasies and no taboos, including oral sex (giving and receiving) and anal sex.
More to the point, the few times we do make love she feels reaches quickly. On the other hand it takes me in about 30-40 minutes to reach, and sometimes she reaches several times (2-3) and she starts being tired and we don't actually finish.
It also seems that my penis size - when we get very passionate - sometimes causes her pain (see says it's too long and feels it "touching inside").
I don't feel sexually satisfied (craving anal and oral sex) but more importantly she starts being depressed about her underperformance in bed.
I've spoken with her about our sexual problems and maybe how we could engage in swinging, however she defenitely does not like the idea of it.
And advice? I'm afraid about committing if one day I would end up breaking up with her simply because I need more sex, but still Love her.
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If her sex drive is just low, it could be due to medication or some mental issues.
Definitely do not consider marrying a girl until things improve. Swinging is a bad idea if you are seriously considering marriage as sex causes emotional attachments and likely will lead to either or both of you finding someone else.
Perhaps your intention is to find someone else (for sex)while keeping her as just a friend and therefore suggested it.
Both of you may consider getting professional help (therapy), it seems you both have a lot of issues with intimacy or lack thereof.
Good luck though
You seem to be a good couple, but not the perfect lovers. And you're too young to miss the good loving.
Love is ... the sweetest thing ... and love making should be a regular part of that, especially when you're 22 !
You don't start to cut down to twice a month until you've already been married for years and years and had kids. Or you don't cut down to that at all if things are right. Any time before that and ... ALARM BELLS ARE RINGING WILLY.
Bottom line, dawg, is that she don't fit your groove sexually. And that's because she don't like what you handing out. Either give her the goods or get her to really give you the goods.
You may love her, but if she don't love you, nuthin's gonna happen.
maybe u should read up on the subject to find answers, sounds like u are going to cheat and soon
good luck
Seriously, that's terrible. A good, healthy relationship (especially at your age) should include a LOT of intimacy. Sex brings people closer.
i may be underage
but im up for anything
*does nekkid dance*
And advice? I'm afraid about committing if one day I would end up breaking up with her simply because I need more sex, but still Love her. - If ur gonna break up with her cuse sex sucks, then u dont really love her you ass.