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distance relationship-cheating?
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I am a guy and so far i always disliked the classic "macho"guy that cheats on every woman he has. Always against that! I have a girlfriend, which i love and i even thought she
"might be the one". the thing is that now i am living in a different continent since like a year. now i met this girl and we are starting to have this relationship. I cant say i love her, and any way i will go back to my country when i finish here, in a couple of more years. i dont like the feeling of cheating on my girlfriend, but i do enjoy being with the new girl. is it like "ok" because of the distance? is normal to have the feeling and to do what i am doing?
Do you think it's normal?
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Anonymous
2006-08-01 21:08:34
You're not going back to your girlfriend for a couple of years???

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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-08-01 21:54:53
@: Anonymous
actually is 3.5 more years from now. and supposely yes i will go back to her
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MattTall (3020)
2006-08-01 23:47:40
just dont "f" her or kiss her or make her love you. She does know you have someone back home right? If the answer is no tell her immediately but dont say so she thinks you are saying "yea i dont want to go out with you". Its confusing yes but i hope you understand. Just bring it up with something like "man i kinda miss home, cant wait to see my family, friends, *cough* girlfriend* cough"
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-08-02 05:43:24
yes she knows i have a girlfriend back home, i said since day 1
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Anonymous
2006-08-02 08:16:09
@: Anonymous (Story Author)
I hope you are able to go back and visit your girlfriend now and then.

Does your girlfriend know about this girl??

Keep it platonic . . .
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Anonymous
2006-08-02 09:21:01
My ex b/f too moved to a new city to complete his studies.He'd phone me everynight thus i always knew about the new pals he was making.He met this girl,they got close. It was a mere platonic frenship.She knew bout me and i was cool bout the whole thing until my guy returned home 8 months later.Turned out things got out of hand;they had "fallen" for one another.Now i hate tat FUCKIN PIECE OF SHIT!
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CrazyMoFo (1953)
2006-08-02 12:34:04
Dude F*ck everything u can stick ur D*ck in, and dont feel bad, cuz ur girls spreading her legs every chance she gets. Do u really think shes gonna go 2-3 years without the c*ck, (oh wait u must be really good if she's gonna wait for u, - hell no) I'm sure she's putting it in her ass as we type. Get over it and F*ck, F*ck, F*ck.
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Ladybug (3106)
2006-08-06 23:58:56
It's normal to want to move on to a new girl. But it's totally uncool to keep the old girl around like a teddy bear to go home to. How convient to know that you will have her waiting for you. But very unfair. Just be honest and tell her it's time to end it. It takes balls to break up, and you will probably feel guilty, but it must be done. You will both be happier.
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fluffy (3166)
2006-08-10 01:46:22
I totally agree with ladybug. Keeping her around for your convenience is not only immature but also selfish and unfair to your girl back home. Choose one or the other.
It's not abnormal to like other girls in your situation. I understand that you must be lonely without her, but cheating is cheating no matter what the miles.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
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