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Is it normal for a woman not to masturbate? Or is she lying because if she says she does then what is she thinking about or who is she thinking about.so do all women play with themselves.
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Guys dont like to hear this but girls get horny



I touch myself and play with all sorts of things to know what works, what doesnt, so i know how to sexually handle myself there yup


its a shame that some girls dont play like this, theyre missin out!!!
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mickrissec
I do masturbate but only once every 1-2 month or so not a lot. When I was younger (12-13) I would masturbate A LOT, but then one day I got something stuck in there... had to get my dad to take me to the emergeny room to get it out it was SO humiliating and ther pain was excrusiating! It was so awful! The worst park was telling my parents god that was so humiliating! I didn't masturbate for SO long after that (like a year or two!) and then after a while I just started doing it JUST with my finger (I can't get my finger stuck lol) but I'd only do it once every blue moon. So it scared me and I never want to feel that kind or pain and embarressment again in my life! So only every once and a while.
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my girl claims she never does and will not allow me to watch, is it possible she never does?
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she's lying cause shes embarassed. we all do it sometimes=)
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do you know what hapens when a women masterbates and she didnt had her first period pls ??
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Totally normal. I masturbate, of course for the most part its a personal thing that I do in private but I'm not embarassed I just rather not talk about it to the girls, usually unexposed to the statistics, who get grossed out. I do it about once or twice a week, usually when I find something arousing or when I'm just bored. I also think its better to be more aware of your body espeacially if you've never had sex. Its a real stress reliver too, I'd recommend it.
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Seriously women!? how do you NOT play with yourselves!? If you don't know how to get yourself off, how do you expect to teach your guy how to?

i've been masturbating since i was like, 12.
it's natural.. me gusta.
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im a girl have been since i was about 12..
im 18 now and i go crazy if if i dont for about a week even lol
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me too, i am a guy and gave jerkingoof for lent once and thought i was going to die, i have to do it at least 4 times a week , sometimes 2 times a day.
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ILoveYhu<3
lol im a girl i could probably not ever give uo fingerin ma self lol aha
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Very normal. I am sure most women have a least tried it.
I would anticipate that as women get older and more comfortable with their body and their sexuality that they are more likely to try it.
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i have been satisfying myself since i was like 5...no lies..so basically 13 years now & i do it 2-3 times a day..sometimes 2 times in an 1-2 hours lol i have a huge sex drive for a girl, but i am a virgin. weird, huh?
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Omg I do it all the time too yet I am a virgin! (and yes since I was 5) how weird
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michael4p5
thats not weird at all i jacked-off when i was 5
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Anonny
Same boat honey...except i'm a guy...>.>
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My wife of 29 years does not masturbate, and we have a great sex life. When she's horny, which is often, she wants me to do the honors for her. She LOVES the rabbit vibrator that I bought for her a year or so ago. We don't use it every time we fool around, but probably 3 out of every 5 times we do.
When I asked her why she doesn't play with herself, she said she just prefers that I do it for her. She's amazing in bed and is incredibly passionate, so I have to disagree with those who commented that women who don't touch themselves are prudes or cold fish.
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Dear curious I feel your being a little naïve, I would say that your wife does use the rabbit , but she is not secure enough with her sexuality to tell you, If she’s at home reading a hot romance novel or watching a sex scene in a movie , and your not home of course she’s going to use it.
Ask yourself this have you ever masturbated when she’s out of the house? What would make you think that she wouldn’t?
She likes it when you use it, but doesn’t like to use it on her self, as I said at the start a little bit naive
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do you know what hapens when a women masterbates and she didnt had her first period pls ??
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Nothing you'll be ok don't worry
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do you know what hapens when a women masterbates and she didnt had her first period pls ??
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I'm a woman and I have never liked the feeling of fingering myself or being fingered. So it doesn't happen. I do love masturbating though - that's what vibrators are for!
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i do... since 12 yrs old... im comfortable with myself... trust its normal just that society makes females feel like they cant be into sex like men
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I am turned on by the thought of women masturbating and always ask my lovers how they do it (not if) and whether they have ever used objects. Every single one (and I've had several lovers) has used a banana. Some courgettes and the odd one a cucumber. Hair brush handles, aerosols and even bottles were used by some of them. Do you concur, girls?
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many women were raised that it was wrong and it scars them for life
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Unfortunately, it's perfectly normal. You're gonna have to read up and show her the ropes.
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im a girl and i masturbate! but i use to be those girls who would think its nasty and unnatural but one night me and my boyfriend of 2 years where on web cam and he got me super horny where i couldn't take it so he told me to rub myself and slowly stick my fingers in , i was scared but i tried & loved it !! so don't hate it til you try it! i masturbate at least once a week or two !:D
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it is normal for a woman to touch herself. it makes you feel good. most women think about men they wished they could be with and wonder what kind of sex they can give. that arouses me even more and i just have a good time. my husband and i play this role all the time it turns him on even more and we have awesome sex afterwords
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i think masterbating is normal
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I think most females probably masturbate, just like most males. The ones who don't would probably be a VERY small minority. I think nearly everyone has a sexual urge, and hardly anyone is getting all they want or need sexually from some partner, so will at least occasionally resort to self-relief. Sure, plenty of people will lie and say they don't, out of shame over the act. That is human too, lol.
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my first wife said she never did. I think she told the truth. Thats why shes my 1ST wife.
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Aw, c'mon!

Dr. Oz says that 45% of guys masturbate, and the other 55% lie about it.

A day without masturbation is a day wasted!
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How would you know what you liked if you didnt try it?
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Statistics have it that about 75%% of girls masturbate, that's three out of every four you see around.
Humans come in all types and I am sure that there are girls who never masturbate but they must be undersexed.
I once had a girlfriend who had never masturbated until I gave her some "instruction and information" on how to do it. She started after this and told me how she did it. She was 23 years old at the time and I was quite puzzled by the situation.
I think most girls take more arousing sexually and so many of them do not have sex on the mind as often as we men have so perhaps this is why they do not seem to be so keyed into the habit as we are.
Proof that girls masturbate lies in the range of dildos and vibrators designed for them.
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ive tried it before looong ago, and it did absolutely nothing for me. Zero excitement. I havent tried since id rather leave it to someone else. Everything is funner with another set of hands!!
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MrsDuckyFuzzles
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same! except i havent found that other set of hands
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for women that have never masturbated go onto the internet and seach women masturbating like on sites like redtube or pornhub and see the expression on their faces while they are fingering themselfs. It has to be good becuse it sometimes looks as if the women is going crazy over the overwhelming pleasure. MASTURBATE!!! (sorry for my spelling)
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Nah, all chix masturbate, and when they do it they like one of this waked milking machine on the Johnson farm next door, sure is fun to watch.
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Wow , Never Thought This Question Woud Come Up , But It Is TOTALLY NORMAL .
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As a woman with a very rich sex life as well as a rich self-satisfying sex life :D ... I first off must say that I highly recommend that all you women out there who say you don't do it just give it a bash - there is nothing to lose. When having sex with your partner, you don't necessarily always have an orgasm, but when indulging in a bit of onerism - you will ALWAYS cum, hands down, no contest. Your orgasm is as good as your fantasy and where you are in your menstral cycle.

Now, to answer the question : personally, I barely ever think of men I wanted, had or couldn't have, rock stars, actors and bullshit. I dredge up a lot of my darkest fantasies and whoever the man is is immaterial to me. Most often I don't even see his face or he's masked. I have and will admit honestly, OFTEN fantasised about my husband - he drives me insane sexually - but it's not always him I'm afraid. I cheat subconsciously... :P
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I meant more males masturbate then WOMEN, not men.. Haha.
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my girlfriend says she doesnt do it but she said she tried it and it felt good so she kept doing it until she climaxed but never did it again after that. i highly doubt it. ;)
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I do it alot even though imma girl(get bored easily)
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yeah! i do,i started it when i was 9 years old,i didn't have knowledge about sex,but when i read sex stories ,i used to get excited,and i used to finger myself...and now i often do this,but i want to know,about other ways? somebody help
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Girls masturbate too
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I don't masturbate and I HATE hearing people tell me im lying I used to but havent in months I dont get horny either like normal people. I dont feel normal myself but i dont hate it at the same time.
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After reading thru this I felt the urge to register because the amount ignorance about this post is appalling

I'm a 34 yr old woman who's been regularly, sexually active for 16 yrs
My sex life is far from vanilla & I have received several compliments in bed. I take great pride in being open, flexible & adventurous in bed. I consider myself lucky because I know what my body wants, I'm always horny & ready to get naked whenever my partner wants, I can both cum easily or last a long time or have multiples & my orgasm rate is in the high 90's

AND I DON'T MASTURBATE you ignorant people
I'm sick & tired of people like you trying to make people like me feel ashamed, or that I'm lying or that something is wrong with me

Have you ever tried to tickle yourself? Notice how you're not ticklish when you do it, but are if someone else does? Well that is what masturbation is like for me

I'm not ashamed that I don't masturbate
I have little desire to play with myself
I'm not a prude, I don't have vanilla sex, I know what my body wants, I make my partner(s) happy & am sexually extremely happy
I can accept myself as is, why can't you?
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You know what?! I dont even know how to do that if you are a woman! and I am a woman!
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Hey! How's it going man?
haha
How does a women masterbate, anyway?
(shivers)
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I think more males masturbate then men, but that doesn't make it abnormal when women do. Honestly, if she does- good for her! Everyone should know how to please themselves.
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Chris_Ufc
Women who claim they never finger them selves are full of shit. Its not un common for a girl to go a few weeks or even months without it but over all yes they do it. All most as stupid as the "girls dont take shits" deal.
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i dont touch myself :S
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elloitsme
you should
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why not?
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just as i was reading that my hand slipped downstairs for a moment..and yes im sure every woman has done that at one point in time even just to try it not everyone does it on a <b>regular basis</s>
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Sadly, there are a few women who don't probably because they were raised to think it was wrong. But most do even if they say they don't.
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amiabnormal
I'm a girl and I don't masterbate. It's perfectly normal
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I dont think ALL women play with themselves. I think that the sexually healthy ones do and the prudes that will never have amazing sex bc they dont know their own body dont. In short if a girl has never masturbated STAY AWAY FROM HER not only will she be a terrible lay but she will also be BORING.
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A few weeks ago my friends brought up a conversation about who masturbates. It surprised me to hear that girls actually masturbated on a regular basis. I have tried it once and didnt like it. Fingering creeps me out and so do vibrators. Just down there in general creeps me out. I never get sexually aroused when Im not around people and thinking about doesnt do anything either. Im afraid it will interfere with my sex life one day if I ever have one. Especially with all the stuff guys have sad about avoiding prudes. Its just my choice and I wish guys would learn to respect it but they dont.
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Ms_October
whatever is right For You sofaras masturbation is normal For you.

Some women masturbate often, some not at all.

I enjoy it, though I enjoy my BF much more.

Personal preference.

:)

October Marie
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its totally normal...though some women do it and some dont.
if you do or you dont its normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
its actually a very good way to explore your body and discover what you like and dislike
xoxoxo
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Not all wimon play with themselfs. They are missing out on a good thing, but alot of my female friends dont like the feeling of there vaginas.
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Many women don't masterbate or, rather, not often. Point blank, everyone gets horny and wants to visit the bermuda triangle from time to time. In my experience there are certain times that we get arroused easily, generally right before getting our periods. I do it a lot sometimes and then can go weeks without. Some women don't "need" to and some "need" to all the time. The sex drive of females is different just like the sex drive of males. But your girl may be saying she doesn't because of embarrassment more so than worrying about how you would feel about who she's thinking about while doing it. I know there is no particular man I think about, the sheer act alone is enough to make me go the extra mile. Maybe you should try masterbating together??? You will definitly know if she does or doesn't while doing something kinky at the same time. ;)

Good Luck!
~Peace~
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im a girl and i like to masterbate all the time. i guess it's because my boyfriend is studying out of town and i dont have sex with him as often as a use to (everyday).
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i say this and thu what if there's adults on here ALOT OF THEM everwhere
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When I was little I was told it would make you go blind. Can't see that somehow...ooops...bang ...ouch!!!
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Not all women masturbate. I've tried it, and it honestly doesn't do anything for me. I hate the idea of fingering myself, and it's not because I'm a prude, I just don't like the way it feels. But for some reason when my boyfriend does the same thing, I love it.

And to all you people who say that girls that don't masturbate are boring or bad in bed, that's a terrible generalization. I've got a great and interesting sex life, it just always involves someone else. And I know my own body just fine too.
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just to add and clarify - it's all about the penis and what it's doing to you as well as whatever else floats your boat, than it is about who the person is doing it to you. I think I fantasise more about the penis, and sometimes sex with women.
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i could do it better
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sophie21396
Fingering myself creeps m out but I sure do love the shower head ;)
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femalepimp
some do and some dont.
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If asked if they masturbate 1% will tell the truth and say yes. The other 99% will lie and say they do not
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It is normal to, but not all women do. They should though...it's excellent stress relief. and how can a man please you if you don't know what you like?

I don't think about anything, usually. I'm watching porn when I do it. But, when I do it in the shower, I think about something kinky, like being with another girl, but usually what pushes me over the edge is imagining a guy standing between my legs coming on me.
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My wife does not masturbate. But our sex life is great. I can't say she never does. But I guess maybe once inwhile. We usually do it together its something different. I've had girlfriends in the past that used to do it all the time. I suppose it depends on the woman. But just don't be afraid to try it if u never did it. Have fun.
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most do, i do probably every girlfriend i have do!
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all women do the slippy rub i spy the women in my life and do the the deed as i watch them as they dont know
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Anonny
I'm gonna come right out and say it, it's such a common thing that male or female, unless it's actually DISPLEASING as in it hurts your or makes you sick to your stomach, you are honestly missing out on quite an experience. I'm willing to believe that girls do it less but with the right push in a certain direction it could send them snowballing into masturbation for the rest of their lives. My guess would be that maybe 1/100 women don't masturbate and 100/100 men masturbate. All men do it, idc what you say! Once a man gets that first climax, it's over with. it's a life of masturbation for him =\ The point is, reguardless of gender or social or cultural boundaries, it is a perfectly normal act and i think it's foolish to think otherwise!
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I think it's normal. I used to when I was a child, but now that I'm older I have little to no desire to do so.
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It's hard to vote on this one.

If I was answering the "Do all women masturbate" part I'd be voting "normal" cos my answer to that is "HELL YES! =D"

If you know a woman who claims she doesn't... then she's possibly lying - some women ARE shy about opening up about self-touching. Or it's possible that she doesn't do it - there are some women who have very vanilla sex lives.
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I sometimes enjoy masturbate more than the actual sex.
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err.... i dont..x
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sex is a part not the whole...
what if itwas the wayback?
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well according to medical research, 42%% of women masturbate so its a good chance that she is telling you the truth. in any case, show her how to get down.

cheers!
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lol oh man the number of people who didn't read your details on the question are just hilarious

i mean they just read the first line and wrote their answer lol
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I would give a good guess that about half of all women finger themselves. Probably for the same reason a guy would, boredom, stress-reliever, thinking about someone, although some women think it's disgusting and never do it. I don't blame them. I've never masturbated, I think it disgraces yourself.
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