On more then one occasion after having left my clothing in the bathroom hamper I have later returned to find that my unmentionables have been moved or unfolded usually with the gusset left exposed to the air. the reason I think my father may be doing something perverse with them is, I don't leave my unmentionables visible, not ever, I fold them and tuck them away clothing waded around them to conceal them.
my question is, is this a more common situation among families?
I have been researching this and many signs seem to point to this panty sniffing being a common masturbatory aid for many males family or otherwise, in fact, it seems this sort of thing usually begins within the family though by a sibling.. not a parent.
I think this is something that has only recently started , either that or he's been very careful up until now.
I live alone with my father, permanently disabled, spending my life in a bed I am 23 years of age.
My tummy feels cold and hot all over writing this, but I just needed to get some answers, no harsh comments or disgusting responses please I do not have the hots for my father.
My father is a good man, dedicated hard working and honest and we are brought up in the Christian faith. I don't feel afraid at all, but, do you think I should confront him?
Could this all just be in my head? my panties didn't un-crumple themselves.
You told me you can't do your own laundry - fair enough. But you, as a couple of people pointed out, could keep your own hamper - yet you ignored that - right?
Look - no disrespect intended - but one possibility is he's just sorting laundry. And girlie underthingies - well for me, as a Dad who pitches in on laundry with a couple of gals in the house - I just separate them & have no (believe me) other interest. And truthfully - I feel awkward even about that!
Look - I want to be straight with you. I could be wrong. But there's no mom in your household I gather. Just one mature woman - you. And he is a decent Dad as you said. No I don't think you should confront him. Just talk.