I've been in a happy relationship with my g/f for about 18 months now, and my mate who I used to hang out with stacks is acting a bit weird. We used to work out together get oiled up and go clubbing and dancing lots when we were both single but thats slowed down since I found my g/f. Now my mate keeps sending me links to gay websites, and telling me about his stinky brownfinger, and gargling throat yoghurt, and touching it.
Is he secretly gay and craving my hot man loving?
he wants you to find out hes gay, and ask him about it, rather then him say something about it.
just ask him if hes gay, if he says no, leave it alone, if he says yes, except him as he his, and continue with both your lives.
ps, if you arent gay, and you feel like he wants you, let him know, that you arent interested in him in that kind of way, you are not gay as well. if he is a true friend, he will understand, and not ever try to hit on you, as to make you feel uncomfortable.
i have alot of gay guy friends, and none of them hit on me, b/c they all know im not gay, and they didnt even have to ask, (most gay guys have an extra sense for knowing this)