There's this girl I know who recently started talking to me more on teh computer and stuff. Asking me personal questions trying to get to know me better and stuff and it seems like she's interested in me but I can't tell. I know she thinks I am really good looking, but then again a few different times she has talked to me about the guy she is going to prom with. He isn't her boyfriend. I think they are just going so they don't have to go alone. But she has talked to me about how cute she thinks this guy is. I think she might be trying to make me jealous though because at work(we work at the same place) she always is coming up to me and smelling me(saying that I smell great) and saying that she wants to dance with me and go walk on a beach without shoes. What I'm really wanting to know though is why she is talking to me about this other guy. Is she really just trying to make me jealous?
Thats a hard question, maybe she thinks you are a good listener, maybe she wants to be friends with you, maybe she is trying to make you jealous or something, i don't know.
Just ask her for a date man!
she wants to here it from you that you really dig her.
so tell her{rolling drum in the background}.
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good luck
your friend anne
She says you smell nice and wants to walk down the beach with you!! What more do you want:-) She could not be any more direct than that really.
Mate, women say everything important indirectly.
I have ****** these sort of obvious situations up before so many times and I only wish I could go back and have a second try. I know what it's like to have this thing inside you ruling everything positive out and saying, "She doesn't really like me. It just happen for ____ reason". It is your subconcious mind invalidating things.
I have had this for most of my life. I remember a girl on a dance floor put both my hands on her breasts when we were dancing and I still didn't get the message(I regarded her as a threat, and now I know she wasnt). I know now that when girls do things like that they are sending you loud messages that they want you big time.
I just wish I has this much opportunity flying in my face every day.
Remember: Our society doesnt really like women asking men out, and the women known this: that is why they have to drop hints all the time. It's the best they can do without being branded a slut.
It's up to us to ask them and they know it, so they work hard to get the right ones to ask them out.
Secondly, they drop hints and it's up to the men to take them. If the man doesnt take the hint, she will assume he wasn't as much of a man as she thought he was, and look somewhere else. You'd better hurry up and stike while the iron's hot.
In college today, a girl asked me for my email to be a study partner. I am taking that as a hint and am going to email her now.
Best of luck.
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So yeah once you've asked her out say "hey baby wanna come back to my place I've got a sand pit you can walk bare foot in" then when you get back to your place offer to make her dinner but put your dogs medication in it to dope her up real good then pump her like the pistons on an old iron train.