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ENORMOUS Crush on Boss
What ho! (i.e. hi!)
During my interview to get my current job, I was interviewed - like most people.
Since I set my eyes on one of the bosses then, I fell head-over-heels in love with him. I am a 26 yr-old in-gay male. My boss is the same age as my dad. I am discreet, smart and quite atractive (modest ahem).
There was a sexual tension between us, which he began picking up on. One evening, after some wine in a hotel, he began saying that if there was anything I'd like to tell him, I should.
So I did. I told him I knew he was gay (as he is) since I met him. I added I was gay too. But tended to be bi, a lot.
He, at the time, was stroking my hair and then abruptly stopped, saying it was not appropriate. Which, I suppose, is (sadly) true. AND he is in a civil partnership with someone already. (Who, I might add, is rather unattractive!)
We then caught the lift down to reception and went home (individually).
I cannot stop thinking about him.
He is EXTREMELY intelligent, very handsome, loving, kind, very whizzkiddish for his age (49). His mind is like lightning and, his voice and eyes.... Anyway. You get the message.
I think the reason I have such feelings is that I am in bereavement at the moment, having lost some family members. At my time of grieving, he has been very kind.
He has also helped with my assignments and my own immediate boss, who is his colleague. The latter guy is a bit of a whacko.
Yet I have had HUGE feelings for the main boss.
I cannot help it - and am dreaming about him now. :-(
I humbly implore someone to comment constructively, and offer some tips. Career matters. Pleease let me have your thoughts/tips/advice/ anything.
During my interview to get my current job, I was interviewed - like most people.
Since I set my eyes on one of the bosses then, I fell head-over-heels in love with him. I am a 26 yr-old in-gay male. My boss is the same age as my dad. I am discreet, smart and quite atractive (modest ahem).
There was a sexual tension between us, which he began picking up on. One evening, after some wine in a hotel, he began saying that if there was anything I'd like to tell him, I should.
So I did. I told him I knew he was gay (as he is) since I met him. I added I was gay too. But tended to be bi, a lot.
He, at the time, was stroking my hair and then abruptly stopped, saying it was not appropriate. Which, I suppose, is (sadly) true. AND he is in a civil partnership with someone already. (Who, I might add, is rather unattractive!)
We then caught the lift down to reception and went home (individually).
I cannot stop thinking about him.
He is EXTREMELY intelligent, very handsome, loving, kind, very whizzkiddish for his age (49). His mind is like lightning and, his voice and eyes.... Anyway. You get the message.
I think the reason I have such feelings is that I am in bereavement at the moment, having lost some family members. At my time of grieving, he has been very kind.
He has also helped with my assignments and my own immediate boss, who is his colleague. The latter guy is a bit of a whacko.
Yet I have had HUGE feelings for the main boss.
I cannot help it - and am dreaming about him now. :-(
I humbly implore someone to comment constructively, and offer some tips. Career matters. Pleease let me have your thoughts/tips/advice/ anything.
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anyone who uses phrases like "in bereavement" and "time of grieving" ought to have their asshole glued shut.
Sit tight and don't do anything to jeopardize your job.