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When i was about 7 i lived next door to this girl who was about the same age. one day when i was at her house she said we should play mums and dads. she wanted us to do all this stuff like: lick, smell, and touch each others 'privates' i thought it was pretty strange but went along with it. when i stayed at her house she like us to sleep with our hands down each others pants, i wouldnt do it and she stopped being friends with me. i havent seen her since. Again when i was about 9 i was at a friends house and i went to have a shower. she came in and wanted to get in the shower with me i told her to get out but she wouldnt. she kept rubbing my vagina and wanted me to do the same to her. i didnt want to see her again after this.
Now i am 16 and whenever my boyfriend and i make out i feel really sick and i dont want to have sex with him cos i think sex is filthy.
Was this normal behaviour for young girls?
Is this why i hate the idea of sex now?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (10)
dukepost (6726)
2007-03-29 23:39:06
That is probably why you hate it now, and no, that is not normal behavior. Talk to a therapist, I would doubt most of the people on here can help you, although there is 1 or 2 who might have some good suggestions.
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leahhh001 (7025)
2007-03-30 17:06:50
@: dukepost
you should speak to a therapist about your feelings. but everybody does have 'pretend s*x' or whatever. :)
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-31 15:24:14
She sexually assaulted you, and molested you. Kids are capable of doing such things. Perhaps that was done to her when she was that age. I don't think you need a therapist, but I do think you need to be assured that sex is normal, and that she has problems, not you. She gave you a false sense of sexuality. Lots of young girls do this as an experiment, out of curiosity. But I truly feel she was abused by they way she kept coming onto you. She'll probably end up worse than you; she seems to have a lot of aggression. I hope you realize that sex with someone you love and consent to is different than sex with a troubled girl.
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solowhore (7679)
2007-04-17 05:04:34
that girl was molested and sexually abused as a child. help her out. (not by doing sex stuff) by asking her about it cuz i bet u anything she got abused.
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dontaskwhy (8791)
2007-06-10 08:03:09
honestly no that is not normal. Um, yah like dukepost said consult a therapist that's actually worthy of that. She was probabally sexually abused as a kid. Sex is normal and you shouldn't worry about that if repressing it and therapy doesn't work out... hypnotism but no not normal and yes thats prolly y ur afraid of sex now
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Neuroticism (9109)
2007-06-29 01:51:20
I had a similar encounter with an 8 year old boy, and he got his ass chewed out by his grandpa, who just happened to be a police officer, and I was all of 4, but I don't consider it molestation, because he never entered me...lol

But I guess I can relate.
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dontaskwhy (8791)
2007-07-09 23:02:37
whats her name? first last and (if so) middle for 20$ ill shoot her and calm ur spirits lol
(dont wrry... im quick)

jk... well i dono... do u want me to? if u rly want me to its 1.5k american
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dontaskwhy (8791)
2007-07-09 23:07:04
@: dontaskwhy
im srry i had to say that but anyway... she is not normal probabally abused at that age. Don't wrry sex is natural and normal. If your extremely desperate hypnotism is good, it made me give up smoking if it can do that it can do anything. If ur not that bad than just tell yourself "She's not right, I'm fine, sex is normal, just forget about it"
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xBabiiiRonziiix (10159)
2007-08-25 09:39:15
omg....7? that is fucking crap mate
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mtziongirl (17365)
2008-11-02 13:52:39
yeah thats probally why my friend tryed to play boyfriend and girlfriend with me but we were both girls! okay she was young so you cant blam it
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