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ex gf worries
by my age i shouldnt be worrying about who my partners have slept with in the past.
i know hes had alot of partners in the past, and as a rule, they generally have dumped or cheated on him, so he's not really one to do that, you know?
i dont care about all the others, but theres one. i think im bothered because i think shes better than me, shes 'hot' and 'cool' in all the ways i dont think i am. she antagonises my insecurites (not literally ive met her once long before we started dating), i know nothing would ever happen between them but she haunts me. i suppose i just over think things...
how can i stop thinking about this? i know i need to chill out and forget about it but its so easier said than done.
i know hes had alot of partners in the past, and as a rule, they generally have dumped or cheated on him, so he's not really one to do that, you know?
i dont care about all the others, but theres one. i think im bothered because i think shes better than me, shes 'hot' and 'cool' in all the ways i dont think i am. she antagonises my insecurites (not literally ive met her once long before we started dating), i know nothing would ever happen between them but she haunts me. i suppose i just over think things...
how can i stop thinking about this? i know i need to chill out and forget about it but its so easier said than done.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (6)
JeniLosAngelas (20769)
you didn't say how long you've been dating this guy.. if its been a few years then you do need to finally relax.. otherwise its completely normal! But just keep in mind that he is with you, so obvisouly he thinks you are better and coooler one!
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sallypartridge (20637)
@: JeniLosAngelas
year and a half/two years ish, i know i need to relax, i just ont know how
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mstyle (21440)
Just try and relax and be yourself. Even if she IS prettier or cooler, you probably have something she does not have. Sometimes the best looking people can be really annoying to be around. Sometimes the coolest people can be "too cool" and more into themselves then they are in the relationship. Maybe he thinks you are really fun or really laid back and that's what he likes about you. I am not sure. Whatever it is, try to let go of your insecurities. It may be hard, but you don't want him to think you are insecure. Confidence is a huge turn on. Be confident and enjoy being with him.
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yafuckendick (21715)
smoke weed you forget everything
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akasenior (23461)
In Life we find that our friends come with many different covers, names and tags, men and women, gay and straight. You must understand your friends feelings may not be as strong as yours and before you lose a "long term boyfriend" discuss your feelings with both, you may be very lucky and find the answer is right in front of you. Best of luck!
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Ollieo (19003)
At your age you do need to worry about former partners - but not as competitors, which is childish - but for sexually transmitted diseases.
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