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Exclusivly dating
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OK I have an interesting delema I met this great girl ive wanted to date her for a while now and recently we started hanging out. But after the first date after she kissed me led me on she tells me that we are inclusivly dating. In other words we can still date other people. Now im not like a lot of other guys cause i think this is just wrong i dont want to date other people i want her given im not in love yet but its really weird. I now constantly think of her with other guys now im not sure of there are other guys i just worry about it. So let me get to the point should I stay with someone who isnt ready to commit and see were this goes cause she did say we could see were it was going or should I say go away you stupid sl*t im not going to be your boy toy.
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theBARTENDER (4902)
2006-12-24 20:03:23
Some girls don't want to establish a formal relationship right away. Problably she had a bad experience with other guys before she met you and she just put it that way as a auto protection avoiding falling in love too quikly. So I recommend a litle bit of patience not only to know her well but to let her know who you really are , physical and emotional, as well.
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Rory2424 (4424)
2006-12-24 20:06:47
I'm kind of in the same boat. I went out with this girl a couple of times after she had gotten out of a bad relationship and this girl your talking about is probably thinking along the same lines as the one I am referring to. She doesn't want to get involved in a serious relationship right now. Just be patient and maybe she will be ready to date you exclusively given time.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-24 20:12:58
I am with her 100%, although I'm likely in the minority so will explain. Dating is all about finding out who is most compatible, learning, experiencing, and ultimately choosing someone to be with long term. Both men and women tend to be possessive and uncomfortable while dating about their partner not commiting to the other. It is actually very healthy to date around and eventually a decision will need to be made, whether to go your own way or remain monogamous to the chosen person.

If you are uncomfortable with this, tell her. She is being very clear and honest with you, don't fault her for that. She also has every right to see other people, if you were married, a legal agreement between you both, then she would not have that right.

The ball is in your court, you decide what to do now. Frankly, I would love a girl like this. She is not needy and independent. Their is one major concern, and that is if you become sexually active together, she must not be doing other guys at the same time. This is something if and when you need to come to terms with her. Good luck!!! I envy you.
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paulii (4043)
2006-12-25 09:46:10
retard id like to see you get off the comp, stop bagging people cos obviously u have nothing better to do over the net and go fuck someone.. oopps sorry i forgot.. YOUR A RETARD !!
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smurph (2483)
2006-12-27 10:18:48
thanks guys this helps alot and i think i am going to stick with her shes really great but i appreciate the advice
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-02-04 02:10:44
err what sisophous said
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roxieboo (4493)
2007-02-11 16:22:21
Heyylooo...:D :D im tyring to beat smithee... gimmie 3 months and ill win :D
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