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Extreme Feeder Sex
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Is a Feeder Normal?

I am very overweight and had a hard time in high school. Then I went away to College and met a guy who was an Extreme Feeder. We met at a College mixer, It was strange cause he passed right over all the other girls and made a bee line straight for me. He was 6 feet tall a trim 180 pounds and he was very good looking. I knew about guys who preferred fat girls but I never met a guy who was as obsessed as he turned out to be.

He was so romantic and I really liked his personality, to tell you the truth I was falling in love with him. We had a few wonderful dates and I could not resist his advances any more and I made love for the first time. It was the most overwhelming experience of my life, he totally loved every inch of me. He made me feel like the most beautiful Goddess there ever was!

Things were perfect at first but then he slowly started to show me his sexual perversions. He told me that he LOVED my fat, that FAT and SEX were the same to him. He loved to take me Fast Food Hopping, we would hit all of my favorite places first White Castles, KFC and then Pete's Pizza. My biggest problem is that I am a compulsive binge eater and this guy was going all out to encourage me to over eat. He would order two meals of my favorite food and he ate practically nothing himself and would encourage me to eat more! He told me that to see me on an eating binge was a HUGE turn on for him!

He would spend less time on me and more time fondling my fat! Then he told me that he is a feeder fat fetish! He would bring me food and then put hand cream in the deep fold of skin between my rolls of fat and want me to eat at him as he had sex with my fat rolls. I really wanted to please him but things kept getting worse and worse.

What he LOVED to do was to Funnel me. He got me a clear plastic funnel and put it in my mouth then he would pour cake batter down my throat while I would stroke him. He would then have sex with me, fondling my fat and telling me how he loved seeing me eat myself Fatter and Fatter! Then he went WAY over the line.

He told me that he wanted to feed me to over 500 pounds, I was in shock. I was at the heaviest I ever weighed, about 340 pounds, my doctor was pressuring me to get Weight Loss Surgery, and my lover wanted me to gain over a hundred pounds more. Well THAT did it. I told him that I was going to try to keep where I am, even though I would love to lose weight. He told me that if I don't gain weight he would leave me. God, my love meant nothing to this guy. He wanted to force me to be his super morbid gaining sex perversion!

I still love him but I am not going to let him feed me to death. I refused to play his weight gain games any more and then he left me for a fatter girl. I am happy with a guy who loves me the way I am. I do not want a feeder who wants me to burry myself in my own fat. Am I wrong? Is it Normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (28)
You should have realised he didn't love you if he was trying to change you. To him you were nothing more than his sperm-whale.

I think you should try losing that weight though, it's really unhealthy.
it was probably you, just look at yourself in your profile pic!
@: Bobert
Hey hey, I was not his sperm whale, Fat Lady yea, but not his sperm whale.
Oh You think I should lose weight cause of my health, like I didn't try everything already to lose weight. My problem is that when I eat a "normal" amount of food my appetite skyrockets and I just can't stop myself from binging. I know it is bad for me but I am just too weak to resist my overwhelming hunger.

My Dam Doctor wants me to get Weight Loss Surgery that would surgically remove most of my stomach and then to bi pass my large intestine so that I could not absorb anything but a "normal" number of calories. I am NOT going through that nightmare, I do love food and I hope that I have reached my set point in weight.
Could sperm whale possibly be a pun ya think? Get the surgery, your body will thank you later.
@: roger49
My girlfriend got that surgery and most of her hair fell out, she pukes a lot. Two years after surgery she had to get gallbladder surgery that was related to the bypassed intestines. When she lost over 150 pounds she had to get very painful reconstructive surgery to remove her excess dangling skin -- She looks 20 years older. I like the way I am better than to mess with my body like that.
Omg that is DISGUSTING! how can you be happy weighing that much? That is so wrong! I will never be able to understand why men are attracted to whales. How can sweaty, greasy rolls of fat turn ppl on? what does it take to eat more fruit, less junk, and do more exercise. you repulse me. fat = lazy, greedy, unhealthy.
Omg yoo used to weigh 10 stones! lol, you are hardly one to give advice in the dietry department. My advice to yoo TinaPannus, is to do what feels best for yoo. If yoo are happy being overweight then so be it. However there are many health risks associated with being as obese as yoo are. Yoo must get out of breath very quickly when Yoo are doing even the lightest if exercise?? I am glad that yoo found somebody who loves you for yoo, not for how fat yoo are. Also, lots of sex will help yoo lose weight faster. It worked for PartGal07, but she did it with lots of different guys instead of her boyfriend, but hopefully it doesn't make too much difference to the amount of weight yoo lose. Good Luck!
DISGUSTING, Fat, lazy, greedy, sweaty, unhealthy, wrong, greasy, repulsive -- WOW, you think that I am all that? Thank God for men with FAT fetishes, that is all I can say.
Thanks for being nice to me, yea I get out of breath too easy and I really don't want to hear any more about how I am eating myself to death. Believe it or not, I am a Goddess to many men who prefer Super Fat girls and Sexercising sounds a lot better than exercising to me Party Gal.
No problem! Sorry about partygal07... unfortunately we are sisters, but i am the nice one lol. and yea... sexercising DEFINITLEY better than exercising lol.
Wow I'm so glad that you and him be apart now. Getting fatter and fatter is not a good health for you. He is not the one for you. Well good luck on the loosing weight.
Some men like this I dont know why but you were right to end it with him yous obviously didnt want the same thing. I would try and give up the KFC too thats poison
Well for one partygal07 sounds like an anorexic, self centered, superficial bitch.

Anyway, I would definately suggest losing weight due to the fact that it CAN hurt your health.

And I've actually never even heard of a fetish like that...but damn...that must be really hard to deal with having been with a man like that. That's just as bad as men yelling at girls to lose weight. No one should ask the other in a relationship to change their body, unless it IS indeed for their health and not cosmetic reasons.

Good luck with your weight loss and remember, any man that puts way too much emphasis on appearance, whether it be fat or thin isn't worth shit.
Yes cabinet 70, that guy was bad news, it was too bad cause his personality was wonderful except for his Extreme Feeder Fat Fetish obsession. I enjoyed some of the Fat Fetish Sex but the forced weight gain feeder thing was terrible. Give up my KFC Extra Crispy Chicken with mash potatoes and gravy, oh no, that food is totally orgasmic
Restless, I am having trouble trying to keep myself from gaining weight. See restless, at my weight, most of the guys that want to date me, prefer me fat. I have read about many other guys with the same type of Feeder Fat Fetish Perversion that my former boyfriend had, it is a sad way to be.
I wouldn't worry about what other people think. I woudl worry about your health first, and then start looking for people to date.
`hey not listening to what others think is def the best thing to do and just do you, Me I had a hard time not letting what people said get to me, I was overweight most of my life at the age of 21 i weight in at 450 pounds :)

lazy and all that shit is not always true, i was very active in weight training and all that cardio crap but never seemed to loose alot of weight anyways I ended up getting Gastric Bypass surgery at 22 and now i weight 215 and i love my body now, the surgery aint that bad

ask the doctor about an appetite suppresent called Phenthermine it really works and if u have a costco near by they have a pharmacy which sells it for under 20 bucks its prescribed so you cannot just go in and get it,

anyways its up to u, i would recommend the surgery it will improve health problems plus confidence in yourself if not then it's your life do as you will.
Yea Sullen congratulations on your success. I am scared to death of getting weigh loss surgery cause I hate the idea of cutting out most of my stomach and bypassing my intestines --- Oh my God I HATE the sound of that.

The idea that on a hot summers day when I am very thirsty, that I would no longer be able to get a big glass of cold ice tea and drink it down without puking -- that is not for me. Eating is the second greatest pleasure I get in life, and to give that up to become a thinner, empty bag of loose hanging skin, who faces a series of painful corrective surgeries, that is not for me.

You were lucky or had a great endurance for pain. I am going to wait till they come up with a less drastic and painful way to lose weight. I will check out Phenthermine on the web and see if it is for me, thanks for the advice.
Overweight is not healthy, and a man who has no greater fantasy than having sex with a fat roll is quite perverse.

Good for you putting your foot down. I'm glad you've got a new guy. Keep up the good work and you'll get that weight off! :)
I'm so glad you found someone who loves you. You were right- he was into you for the fat and not for you. Congrats on escaping an abusive relationship! I'd advise not getting the surgery. As long as you can move there is hope for losing some weight without needing to have your internal organs mutilated. What you said about eating being a great pleasure for you... well, I have to admit that statement makes me a little nervous (they've had Dr. Phil episodes about that) but I'm not going to judge because, well, I'm not you. I have to admit, though, thinner people tend to have happier lives and the whole exercise=endorphins thing is nice. Whatever you do, be happy! I battled bipolar disorder for a long time, and being unhappy just kills any hope you have in life. Rock on!
Yea, Mymunchkins being me is not healthy, and my current boy friend loves every roll of my fat, but he does not push me to gain weight and that is a big improvement. I don't think I will be able to get much weight off, but I hope to keep from gaining.
Yes Cuibirdgal, my new love is wonderful, yea he is way into my fat too, but he loves me the way I am. I am taking your advice and I am not getting the weight loss surgery. You are right about my LOVE of food, yea I am a food addict and Dr. Phil would have a field day with me, but Dr. Phil is fat too, so should he be preaching diet to other fat people? Thank you for the encouragement.
Wow go on biggest loser theyll probably chuck u on and island and ull have to feed off ur fat and the last person standing (or sitting because of their obesity)wins!!!

PS: DONT EAT FROOB!!!
Extra: Start a friken Bakery
Ur the retard party girl is friken so god dam right far out ur sticking up for her wen she put this on herself (unless its a medical condition)
*SIGH* unfortunately some people take this way too far.. being forceful with getting someone to eat can be very fun when you have that fetish and can put you in a nice dominant state of mind, but if the person you're with cares more about their fetish than your feelings, it's not worth it. I have that same fetish, my ex WANTED to gain weight, it was lovely, we had ALOT of fun until his doctor got on him and I encouraged him to try and lose weight. I loved him more than his fat. That's the way it should be.
Feederism fetishists are related to rape fetishists in the sense that the person doesn't turn them on, the person they're fantasising about can be batshit ugly. The dominance turns them on. They like to be in control. It's clear that he DOES NOT love you, this is an abusive relationship. You don't love him either, you're dependant on him which is common in abusive relationships. Get out of the relationship, eat healthily, go to the gym, start jogging, and loose the weight. At your weight it'll be difficult, but weight loss surgery at your age (you sound like you're in your twenties) is not the right choice.
I understand the feeder fetish mostly because I have a friend who is a feeder. However, I agree with alot of the comments here that this is indeed an abusive relationship. Ultimatums that jeopardize happiness - especially health - should never be made.

Furthermore, in terms of your current weight, you DO need to drop because whether you see this or not, binge eating or compulsive over eating is an eating disorder. I just got discharged after 5 weeks of treatment for an eating disorder and a lot of people who were in program with me had binge eating or compulsive over eating problems. Please PLEASE research the effects on this disorder and realize you need to get help! You might be happy wiht your body but I assure you your organs and your body aren't happy with your body. keep yourself healthy.