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Extreme Feeder Sex
Is a Feeder Normal?
I am very overweight and had a hard time in high school. Then I went away to College and met a guy who was an Extreme Feeder. We met at a College mixer, It was strange cause he passed right over all the other girls and made a bee line straight for me. He was 6 feet tall a trim 180 pounds and he was very good looking. I knew about guys who preferred fat girls but I never met a guy who was as obsessed as he turned out to be.
He was so romantic and I really liked his personality, to tell you the truth I was falling in love with him. We had a few wonderful dates and I could not resist his advances any more and I made love for the first time. It was the most overwhelming experience of my life, he totally loved every inch of me. He made me feel like the most beautiful Goddess there ever was!
Things were perfect at first but then he slowly started to show me his sexual perversions. He told me that he LOVED my fat, that FAT and SEX were the same to him. He loved to take me Fast Food Hopping, we would hit all of my favorite places first White Castles, KFC and then Pete's Pizza. My biggest problem is that I am a compulsive binge eater and this guy was going all out to encourage me to over eat. He would order two meals of my favorite food and he ate practically nothing himself and would encourage me to eat more! He told me that to see me on an eating binge was a HUGE turn on for him!
He would spend less time on me and more time fondling my fat! Then he told me that he is a feeder fat fetish! He would bring me food and then put hand cream in the deep fold of skin between my rolls of fat and want me to eat at him as he had sex with my fat rolls. I really wanted to please him but things kept getting worse and worse.
What he LOVED to do was to Funnel me. He got me a clear plastic funnel and put it in my mouth then he would pour cake batter down my throat while I would stroke him. He would then have sex with me, fondling my fat and telling me how he loved seeing me eat myself Fatter and Fatter! Then he went WAY over the line.
He told me that he wanted to feed me to over 500 pounds, I was in shock. I was at the heaviest I ever weighed, about 340 pounds, my doctor was pressuring me to get Weight Loss Surgery, and my lover wanted me to gain over a hundred pounds more. Well THAT did it. I told him that I was going to try to keep where I am, even though I would love to lose weight. He told me that if I don't gain weight he would leave me. God, my love meant nothing to this guy. He wanted to force me to be his super morbid gaining sex perversion!
I still love him but I am not going to let him feed me to death. I refused to play his weight gain games any more and then he left me for a fatter girl. I am happy with a guy who loves me the way I am. I do not want a feeder who wants me to burry myself in my own fat. Am I wrong? Is it Normal?
I am very overweight and had a hard time in high school. Then I went away to College and met a guy who was an Extreme Feeder. We met at a College mixer, It was strange cause he passed right over all the other girls and made a bee line straight for me. He was 6 feet tall a trim 180 pounds and he was very good looking. I knew about guys who preferred fat girls but I never met a guy who was as obsessed as he turned out to be.
He was so romantic and I really liked his personality, to tell you the truth I was falling in love with him. We had a few wonderful dates and I could not resist his advances any more and I made love for the first time. It was the most overwhelming experience of my life, he totally loved every inch of me. He made me feel like the most beautiful Goddess there ever was!
Things were perfect at first but then he slowly started to show me his sexual perversions. He told me that he LOVED my fat, that FAT and SEX were the same to him. He loved to take me Fast Food Hopping, we would hit all of my favorite places first White Castles, KFC and then Pete's Pizza. My biggest problem is that I am a compulsive binge eater and this guy was going all out to encourage me to over eat. He would order two meals of my favorite food and he ate practically nothing himself and would encourage me to eat more! He told me that to see me on an eating binge was a HUGE turn on for him!
He would spend less time on me and more time fondling my fat! Then he told me that he is a feeder fat fetish! He would bring me food and then put hand cream in the deep fold of skin between my rolls of fat and want me to eat at him as he had sex with my fat rolls. I really wanted to please him but things kept getting worse and worse.
What he LOVED to do was to Funnel me. He got me a clear plastic funnel and put it in my mouth then he would pour cake batter down my throat while I would stroke him. He would then have sex with me, fondling my fat and telling me how he loved seeing me eat myself Fatter and Fatter! Then he went WAY over the line.
He told me that he wanted to feed me to over 500 pounds, I was in shock. I was at the heaviest I ever weighed, about 340 pounds, my doctor was pressuring me to get Weight Loss Surgery, and my lover wanted me to gain over a hundred pounds more. Well THAT did it. I told him that I was going to try to keep where I am, even though I would love to lose weight. He told me that if I don't gain weight he would leave me. God, my love meant nothing to this guy. He wanted to force me to be his super morbid gaining sex perversion!
I still love him but I am not going to let him feed me to death. I refused to play his weight gain games any more and then he left me for a fatter girl. I am happy with a guy who loves me the way I am. I do not want a feeder who wants me to burry myself in my own fat. Am I wrong? Is it Normal?
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I think you should try losing that weight though, it's really unhealthy.
Oh You think I should lose weight cause of my health, like I didn't try everything already to lose weight. My problem is that when I eat a "normal" amount of food my appetite skyrockets and I just can't stop myself from binging. I know it is bad for me but I am just too weak to resist my overwhelming hunger.
My Dam Doctor wants me to get Weight Loss Surgery that would surgically remove most of my stomach and then to bi pass my large intestine so that I could not absorb anything but a "normal" number of calories. I am NOT going through that nightmare, I do love food and I hope that I have reached my set point in weight.
Anyway, I would definately suggest losing weight due to the fact that it CAN hurt your health.
And I've actually never even heard of a fetish like that...but damn...that must be really hard to deal with having been with a man like that. That's just as bad as men yelling at girls to lose weight. No one should ask the other in a relationship to change their body, unless it IS indeed for their health and not cosmetic reasons.
Good luck with your weight loss and remember, any man that puts way too much emphasis on appearance, whether it be fat or thin isn't worth shit.
lazy and all that shit is not always true, i was very active in weight training and all that cardio crap but never seemed to loose alot of weight anyways I ended up getting Gastric Bypass surgery at 22 and now i weight 215 and i love my body now, the surgery aint that bad
ask the doctor about an appetite suppresent called Phenthermine it really works and if u have a costco near by they have a pharmacy which sells it for under 20 bucks its prescribed so you cannot just go in and get it,
anyways its up to u, i would recommend the surgery it will improve health problems plus confidence in yourself if not then it's your life do as you will.
The idea that on a hot summers day when I am very thirsty, that I would no longer be able to get a big glass of cold ice tea and drink it down without puking -- that is not for me. Eating is the second greatest pleasure I get in life, and to give that up to become a thinner, empty bag of loose hanging skin, who faces a series of painful corrective surgeries, that is not for me.
You were lucky or had a great endurance for pain. I am going to wait till they come up with a less drastic and painful way to lose weight. I will check out Phenthermine on the web and see if it is for me, thanks for the advice.
Good for you putting your foot down. I'm glad you've got a new guy. Keep up the good work and you'll get that weight off! :)
PS: DONT EAT FROOB!!!
Furthermore, in terms of your current weight, you DO need to drop because whether you see this or not, binge eating or compulsive over eating is an eating disorder. I just got discharged after 5 weeks of treatment for an eating disorder and a lot of people who were in program with me had binge eating or compulsive over eating problems. Please PLEASE research the effects on this disorder and realize you need to get help! You might be happy wiht your body but I assure you your organs and your body aren't happy with your body. keep yourself healthy.
Furthermore since by your own admission you are a huge fatty I don%%u2019t think you can afford to be picky about the type of relationship you can get into. Face reality, really fat chicks like you are not going to get many chances to be with a good looking normal guy. You pretty much either have to hang yourself out there and attract the hoggers or deal with the freaks and geeks. Unless you want to be alone for the rest of your life with your box of Twinkies and bags of chips you are going to have to settle for whatever you can get.
At least a dedicated feeder will make you feel wanted and desirable no matter how grotesquely fat you become. In fact the more monstrous you are the more he will appreciate you, so it%%u2019s really a win, win for the both of you.
as for this guy feederism is a dangerous game
pick carefully
Face it we feeders and feedees are few and far between. We practice of special brand of kink in the privacy of our own lives and we do not seek or expect approval from any of the general public. Especially since most of us already know that the concerns and outrage expressed by outsiders is based on the fact that they are full of shit. If it wasn’t so sad it would be almost laughable that so many of these intellectually challenged excuses for human beings are only getting revved up over this because they are the same lowbrow creatures that think nothing of paying good money to buy tickets to see the Jerry Springer show.
I don't think Feederism is wrong, I'm a bit of a feeder myself, but I know the difference between a perversion and a preference; and he had a perversion, he didn't care about you he only wanted you for your body, he's as bad as those guys obssesed with skinny girls.
Of course, anybody can want a woman like that or being a woman like that, but that's your choice and you can't endanger someone's health for a fetish.
You need someone who loves you and your body. You can be with a Feeder, so long as loves you and respects you. Or you can loose weight and find someone you loves you anyway.
The Point is: Avoid those who don't make you feel confortable and safe. You deserve better