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Family should not talk or joke about sex
Ok, I dont think that your own family, mother, father, brothers or sisters should talk about anything sexual infront of you even if its just joking about something on TV. I personally think this is sick. If anyone in someones family is sexually frustrated or single, they should keep it to themselves or talk to a friend or someone else apart from family. What couples get up to in their own bedrooms is personal, why should this be talked about out of the home especially to family. I think there are some sick kinky people in this world who get off on this type of thing but I think its sick. Does anyone else agree with me? Is it normal to think families should never talk about sex?
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just try to switch the topic around, i guess
family should NEVER talk about anything sex related lol
Your friends will come and go, family knows you best. Sex doesn't have to be something that's wrong, it's how you were made, it's what drives you. If you can't be mature and talk about it with your parents you'll never be mature enough to handle the real situation (properly).
i mean if your parents aren't going to explain sex to you, who is? your friends who might not know or might be dishonest?
The hypocritical thing that I find highly disturbing is that the parents brought their children into the family through sex.
My mom and I are pretty close and we talk about everything and anything we want to. If something is wrong we tell each other.
You obviously aren't that close to your family.
I don't know, maybe I'm comfortable with this because I'm an open person. That being said, you come off as a prude/narrow-minded snob.
I say this because of the way you said (typed) your opinion. It's fine with me if you think it's wrong, but it seems like you would say something like, "EW you must be into incest or something," to anyone who was open with their family.
The family should handle an honest type of relationship about any topic. Friends are just there to have fun because they can more easily blackmail you or tell when you fight and your family is less likely to betray you.
I think people in general should just talk about it more freely and then it wouldn't be so taboo.
It's why we exist for crying out loud. Your Dad put his pee pee in your moms vagina and cummed in it and you grew inside of her for 9 months and you came out of you vagina, (it's the first thing you touch... your mom's vagina).
Just accept it, get over "it" and get over yourself and move on.
I noticed that after I became sexually active all that prudish embarrassment disappeared.
Because let's be honest, being embarrassed about sex in a world that has sexual liberation coming out it's ears is false shame. This is, completely, an unnecessary and redundant social norm from the distant past.
However, if your family is comprised of people that don't feel comfortable talking/joking about sexuality, that's completely okay too. As long as that family doesn't push their needs, thoughts and comfort zones on others :) (of course, it's the same the other way around)
Is it awkward sometimes? Absolutely. I don't think anyone wants to get a mental picture of a loved one doing the deed, but there's still nothing wrong with talking about sex.
Now thinking that it's sick or that something is wrong with them is taking it a bit too far.
But some families are close, and have no moral barrier to discussing things like that--and there's nothing wrong with that, because it doesn't feel wrong to them.
It's wrong if you think it's wrong as a family, but still do it.
My dad, on the other hand was a horndog! Being raised in a large and open family.
No, they didn't talk about sexual acts in front of us until we were adults.
When my mom finally did, it was out of disgust and letting me know she moved out of their marital bed because my dad wanted to perform oral on her and she refused. Then she couldn't figure out why he couldn't get hard for her anymore. I asked her if she ever thought about grabbing and fondleing it. She thought I was sick.
Since I had more than my fair share, my brothers and sisters felt comfortable coming to me with their sexual questions, having only one sex partner themselves.
As adults one sister and two brothers are quite comfortable joking and talking about it.
Poor Mom probably never had an orgasm in her life. She REALLY missed out by being a pride!