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Fantasies about my mother.
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I have been having sexual fantasies about my mother for several years. Am I the only mother loving pervert out there or are there others? And is this just a phase that adolescents sometimes go through? Am I normal. I would never act on these fantasies of course but......

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Oh for Christ's sake...you people on this board are frickin' ridiculous. First off Silver, despite the BS replies of everyone else so far, yes, what you've experienced is normal. Sexual arousal between familial relations is very well documented, despite our feelings to the contrary.

We are attracted to people who are similar to us. If you want empirical evidence of this, all you need to do is look at siblings who are seperated at or near birth and then later reunited. These people almost always describe a feeling of sexual chemistry (assuming the sibling is a gender of their preference) to this long lost family member.

There is a thought which states that family bonding and family interaction creates an emotional dynamic with our parents/siblings which de-sexualizes this person. Because these formations never took place, so the theory goes, the siblings do not have the emotional bonds which places each other in that perspective.

In most cases, people who find themselves having desire to a parent usually have it for one of several common reasons: 1. The parent has attributes which the person desires, but has been unable to find with their peers. 2. The child-parent bond is too weak for de-sexualization to occur. 3. The person's peer group is small or virtually non-existent, and the mind is seeking out gratification from something.

So, having said this...here are my suggestions. First off, forget the damn therapy. You don't need it. Secondly, try and get out more. Interact with others and find new friends. The more peers you have, especially of the opposite sex, the more your likely your fantasies will move away from familial relations. Third, if you are estranged or distant with your mother, work to become closer to her. This might sound counterproductive, but the more you can strengthen a parent-child bond the less you will sexualize her. Finally...stop worrying about it. It happens, more often than the uneducated crap on this board wants to realize.
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I agree with Aecalculin as well. this poster is more normal than would be generally admitted.

And I think it is very obvious that many people are attracted to others who are physically similar to their parents. just look around to see who gets married to whom, who hooks up with whom, etc.

say eeew all you want, but this seems to be a fact.
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I think that Aecalculin has some points. It's good that there are serious people on this site.
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yo silver it's all good bro, i'm a proud mother loving pervert and i'm 25, i love the taboo of incest, it makes the sex like 10 times hotter... i feel no shame nor anything weird about it...it's just a more physical display of love and lust for mom/sister...don't knock it til you try it
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I think it's normal but most people will never carry it out. But, almost everybody thinks about it. If you think about it, there is no such thing as incest. We are all related somehow distantly. If people believe the Adam and Eve fairy tale, they had to have sex to continue humanity. Then their children had to have sex with each other or with their own parents to continue humanity and so on. Think about it.
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u dont think we have a god? how we get here? and for incest.. long as its a fantasy it is normal. nothing wrong with taboo. shoot i used to watch my gf do other men. some stuff u live out
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I dont believe in god i believe we got here through the big bang wich was an explosion caused by the creation of super strings wich are warps/rips in the space time continuum. superstrings are what make up quarks, wich make up electrons neutrons and protons wich are the compononts of the atom wich are the compononts in elements. this is all indesputible scientific fact proved through controlled experiments. prove god.
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Yeah, that's pretty gross, I've had the rare dream but most guys know enough to supress any desires to mate with their mothers. It's called the oedipus syndrom, I b'leave.
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JES
Yep. Mingin and oedipus.
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Anonymous
@: JES
when i was 41 and she was 89 i slipped my 10 inch slong into her pussy
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2 words for you:
Sigmund Freud
you might find some interesting stuff if you read about him
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Anonymous
You should probably start socialising with women a little more and see a therapist to see why you feel this way. good luck.
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There’s nothing wrong with FANTASIZING about anything, right? Thinking about something and doing it are two different things.

I think it’s perfectly normal for an adolescent male to have sexual fantasies about his mother. Especially if she’s hot.
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nast sick fuck.
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Many people fantasize about their mother, it is not normal, you are a fucking sick minded person just like all the others, and like all the others, you will burn in hell for it.
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Don't listen to all of these rude fucks on this board. I don't think its normal to constantly fantazise about your mother though. You should try to do whatever you can to change the way your thinking like watching some porno starring older women or going on dates with older women. That just might work!
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Anonymous
That is gross
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DAMN that is not normal! sure, you can fantasize about other peoples mums because they are younger and hotter and NOT FAMILY, but you're own mother. thats just revolting. theres a bad taste left in my mouth
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Anonymous
In this situation I'd highly suggest you seek out a therapist. In all seriousness.

The only other mother loving pervert I can think of is that Bates guy from Psycho.
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thats a bit mingin. ya weirdo arse reaming prick
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you say you're an adolescent...how young is that? if you're like, eighteen or close to it, then...yeah, I'd start looking for a therapist.
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not normal! gross! something is very wrong with you. you sound like some guy that i went to bootcamp with. alcante!
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You could kill urself, tht should solve the problem. Write back and tell me how it went
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Anonymous
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Don't kill yourself. But that is not "normal" You asked right? Please go seek some help, your life can improve dramatically
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