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Fatten my girlfriend
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Most of me loves her the way she is. She is totally gorgeous. However, there is a small part of me that wants to see my girlfriend get fatter.

It all started the other day when my girlfriend and I were together and I found out she was sucking in. I asked her to relax her stomach muscles and her belly stuck out slightly. I thought that was sexy so when we were making out later I told her I found it sexy. Basically, long story short I got wondering what it would look like bigger. I thought she would look sexy with a potbelly.

I do love her the way she is and if I were to spend the rest of my life with her and she were to stay the same size I would be happy. (actually a hell of a lot more than happy).

Also, her health is a concern so I wouldn't want to make her actually fat, just a little bit larger than she is now.

What I want to know is: Am I alone with these feelings or are there many other people who have similar desires.
Do you think it's normal?
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princesztatii (27201)
2009-08-16 12:05:30
no i dont think you are the only one with these feelings or desires, lol when i met my boyfriend for the first time i was thin and he kept sayin if i get a lil chunky monkey belly plz..n that it turns him on,...i got a lil thicker n he is happy we both are, but i wouldnt force her if she is really happy with how she is .. girls have a really hard time with their self esteem and appearance and even tho u might think she looks good she might not and can cause her to do things to make herself feel better ... but other than that no ur not crazy lol or the only 1 with these desires
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norMall (27213)
2009-08-16 20:58:08
heh,finaly found a person like me ;p
I did that on my ex,she was normal and a lil bit juicy,but i wanted more (: and i achieved it , i made her eat more and after a while she was bigger ;p
everywhere..and i liked it.
Not only belly but i like many parts of body to be fat in women,face would be better normal,it varies from person to person my gf didnt took in her face which was great, she had a pretty 'n cute face.
Anyway, extra stuff in women is more feminine,cute and sexy ,thats why i like it.
Way to go bro ;)
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WayOutThere (27021)
2009-08-18 19:34:01
IMHO, a potbelly on a girl does *not* look sexy. Flat stomach with 0.7 hip to waist ratio looks way sexier.
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dynamicazure (27153)
2009-08-18 23:52:17
thanks for the comments. Its nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels that way.

My next question is how do I tell her/ask her to actively try to put on weight. I don't want to freak her out and I don't want her to feel like I don't love her the way she is.

Thanks
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dynamicazure (27153)
2009-08-18 23:54:40
@: princesztatii
oh and thanks princesztatii. I understand the body image issues that come with size and I wouldn't want her to feel unhappy because of me.
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catgirl (28010)
2009-09-02 20:00:33
@: dynamicazure
You could suggest she eat foods that she might not know are fattening like creamy soups or salads with dressings. And most girls like sweets, so make sure you have her favorite desserts around. If you go out to eat, offer to split a dessert and let her eat most of it.
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Peterpeter (28062)
2009-09-03 20:43:41
In alot of cultures still consider fattness as a sign of wealth and prosperity, but this is not so, at present in western clture, perhaps becuase gay men designers want all women to look like 14 year old skinny boys, but you will find that less than a 100 or so years ago - in western culture bigger was mind blowingly sexier and you know what, most fashions these days dont flatter a larger woman, but when they are on top ;) they are pefectly in proportion and there is nothing better
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dynamicazure (27153)
2009-09-06 03:11:09
@: catgirl
If I suggest certain food types she would definitely get suspicious. But keeping her favourite dessert around is a good idea. I'll make sure I have pretzels (her favourite food) around whenever she visits me at uni this year. and I like the dessert splitting.
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dynamicazure (27153)
2009-09-06 03:13:50
@: Peterpeter
It just goes to show that what is considered beautiful is more of a social thing than an inbuilt desire. It makes me wonder what happened in my life that makes me different in my response to the social 'pressures'...
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-09-06 06:39:20
Voluptuous. Full figured. Lots of men & women still consider that a very attractive ideal. Mainly its good you just like her as & for who she is though.
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