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Feeling Guilty
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Is it normal to blame yourself for someone eles problem.Like sueacide well she diden't actually do it beacsue i called her mom and dad.And i was over there when she took one last hand full of pills. but i could of stoped her by takeing away the pills in her hand but i diden't because i froze.But i did take away the bowl of pills.
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Footfan90 (5641)
2007-04-16 09:11:44
i'm not sure if this post is serious but i'll comment anyway.
You SHOULD NOT feel guilt over another person's death, unless it was actually you who did the killing, you should feel sadness and mourning, but not guilt.
in regards to ur case, it was suicide, so it was completely their choice, and you have to realise that you probably had little, if nothing to do with it.
Things like this happen, i'm not sure if you should call it fate or whatever, but you definitely should not blame urself for someone else's CHOSEN death.
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MightOfTheMass (6096)
2007-04-16 09:20:55
You should only feel guilty about your own failure to spell and punctuate correctly.
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Moi (588)
2007-04-16 09:57:19
Don't feel guilty!

I'm confused by your post ... you say "well she diden't actually do it". Did she only attempt a suicide?
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insaneXace (6653)
2007-04-16 16:35:44
i would feel guilty for not doing anything and seeing my friend die but you got to know you said you froze you did not know what to do now i'm going to give you the best advice that i can give to you right now, pray to god he will help you he will help a lot you will have a clear head, but your friend will never leave your mind of what happen that will help you later in life


stand strong
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spamjavelin (7659)
2007-04-16 16:59:11
u r guilty. it was ur fault. get a friend to thrash you with some oversized rosary beads until you bleed...then you will be forgiven.. say ten hail mary's aswell.
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-18 21:22:11
i feel guilty too.
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cranberri (11177)
2007-12-31 09:36:53
it sounds like your 'friend' is just trying to get a rise out of someone. she told you, so you would tell her parents. She wants more attention from them, that's why she took a few pills in front of you.... most otc pills you have to take hundreds of for it to actually kill you. and most people puke before hundreds of pills start to digest.

It seems like they have a few issues to work out... i suggest you stay COMPLETELY out of your friends life right now... so you dont get sucked into this negative downwhirl.
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