Feeling Powerless

69% Normal

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It's normal, most people either want to dominate or be submissive during sex and its just a matter of what you prefer, personally i love licking girls out but i know tons of other guys who can't stand it. it all comes down to what you want and how you want it

Why under your own question you'v staited you'r self as weird lololol and rape??

I recently met someone who wrote about how she likes to feel powerless during sex and wrote really well. I am posting a link to their writings in the hope that their descriptions of their experiences can help you understand yourself.
http://community.livejournal.com/betweenthehorns/419.html#cutid1
But even before I met this submissive I knew that a lot of people like to feel powerless during sex. One reason might be that they have a problem accepting their own desires since sex is often considered dirty, sinfull or wrong. They may want to enjoy themselves without having those actions be their fault.
Sometimes it may be a matter of feeling unworthy of making a choice. (Low self-esteem) And sometimes it is a desire to experience again something that happened to them in the past which they may not have wanted at the time, but long for now because of the good feelings they remember that could not be helped.
I am not saying that any of these things explain your reasons for feeling that way, just some people's.

asl ;D

Sex means something different to everybody. Some people only want to be in control, some only want to be controled. Most of us fall somewhere in the middle.

That being said, you may want to look at why you want to be used. Really think about what that means to you and the person you want to have sex with. other than that I would say be safe and be happy.

yep , normal

sounds normal, but maybe you'll change your mind when you get a stiff 8incher up yer chuff.

Let him stick it in your pooper!