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Feelings for an older guy...
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So at work there is this guy that I find VERY attractive. He is the cutest thing in the world we always flirt and joke around. One problem he's 31 and has an 8 year old daughter.... he recently told me that he and his wife dont get along and are always fighting and she is always calling and checking up on him like a psycho!!... So I was thinking of trying for him i know this makes me a "homewrecker" but he's so cute and i think about him all the time. Should i leave it be or go for it?
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Welcome to ruining the man's life. Are there not other guys your age out there?
If he didn't have a daughter, I would say go ahead. I bet his wife is not Miss perfect, more like a cold fish, however it is insensitive and cruel to come in the middle of a marriage when a child is involved. The girl needs her father and you would be playing a part in her loss of a parent should you get romantically involved with him. Leave it alone and find someone else.

Nothing good will come of your involvement with him, only pain, frustration and misery due to the fact he has a young child. Take my advice, I've seen this happen time and time again.
just fuck him you whore
The fact that he told you he and is wife dont get along is a hint that he may like you. You have to consider a lot of things. Does he just want a bit on the side, does his wife check on him because hes a cheater, and if you get with him a divorce is a hard thing to go through even for the other woman and you could become an instant parent are you ready for that? and will his daughter like you and will you be able to have kids together.
What cabinet70 says is very true. Plus, if his wife calls him like then it must mean there is a bit history of cheating on his part, which means how do you know he won't cheat on you while you are with him? Are you really ready for a ride on the roller coaster of heartache and pain?...But if you truely like and are up for all that mess, then like him for him (personality, lifestyle, etc.,), don't like him for just his looks or cuteness or what not. i say you should leave it be.
Hey, this guy's in charge of his own life. It's not possible to break up a good marriage; why should the OP be held responsible for "ruining his life" when he obviously wants this as much as she does? (Clearly he does or he wouldn't be sending the mssages he is.) Life is complicated; people get hurt; it just happens. No one's being malicious, but no one should have to deny themselves happiness just because others may not approve.

Will his daughter be less scarred if her daddy stays in a loveless marriage and continues to fight with psycho b*tch?
talk 2 him, if it happens be prepared when his mrs finds out cos she will
Does it change things if he gets a divorce from his wife?....because they are seperating..
if they are seperating, go for it..talk to him...good luck
talk to him about if they are getting a divroce or not. if they are GO FOR IT. but if they arent maybe you should wait and see what happens.
just go up to him after work and suck his d*ck. Maybe you'll come to find it's too small for you.
do you want to be a "homewrecker"? remember it takes 2 to cheat. Think of this...what if you do get him under your clutches and then things go south. Are you prepared for "what comes around goes around"?
Remember this if the guy leaves his wife for you because the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence what's it going to look like when you to hook up.

I don't wantyou coming back on here in to months saying You didn't think he would go back to her or that you didn't think he would leave you for another woman!
not fucvking toucching this one