I love my boyfriend so much. We have a great life together. He has alot of money and we reap the rewards of that often. However, I have noticed something very disturbing. Really messed me up. I notice he has an odor around his ass. He showers numerous times a day, but I don't think he is doing it right. He gets a bit defensive if you say something against him. I do not want to hurt his feelings. After careful thought I think he is just missing a rag when he showers. He is a soap user, meaning he just uses the bar, not a rag for the cracks and crevices of life. I take numerous showers and I almost hurt myself scrubbing out my ins and outs. I must feel clean, I dont understand how he doesnt smell it. Sometimes when he gets up and my head is in the right spot I catch a whiff. I am so turned off I am ready to throw away 2 years of the best relationship I have ever had. Another problem that makes this hard is he is soooooo damn sweet. I just dont want to hurt him, is this normal?