Okay, well me and my boyfriend have sex often.
And Ive noticed that when he's fingering or eating my p*ssy I cum more and sooner then the actual sex part. Advice?
And Ive noticed that when he's fingering or eating my p*ssy I cum more and sooner then the actual sex part. Advice?

Do you know NOTHING about nerve ends and anatomy? Any of you guys here? Geez.
If you are on top, YOU control how much, what kind, and how hard and fast the 'contact' is. If you are on the bottom, you control the 'grind', but not nearly as much as he can when using only his hands...
I could tell you stories.....
Seriously though do older adults still finger and blow each other? I'm not having sex after 55 that is just gross.
If sex isn't getting you there or getting you there less, practice different things or finger yourself less.