Hey, iv been going out with this lad for 4 months now. he isnt a virgin but hasnt ever asked me to have sex with him but he has hinted in the last month. i was just wondering although im worried about it should i just get it over and done with?? i have put it off with other guys so much it has rewind our relationships so what im asking really is, is it that important losing you "V"??
If you really like the kid, and he likes you, then factors like age, and how long you've been dating are really arbitrary compared to that. Was fifteen when I lost mine, but it was to someone that I cared about and trusted, so I still have no regrets about it, even though it didn't work out in the end.
well how much do you like him?. how old are you?. its a personal choice but you need to make sure your not just throwing your virginity away. You need to try and think about the future a little bit, ask yourself when your a little bit older will you be embarrassed to discuss with your close friends who you lost your virginity to? would you be embarrassed to say " it was just some guy i kinda liked i just wanted to get it over and done with" another question i always ask myself when sleeping with somebody, "would you have a child with this person? would this man make a good dad one day?" .. now i know your young and you dont want to have kids but you have to think about the worst possible outcome, it is possible that you mite accidentally fall pregnant to this man.. if that was the case would he be a good father and life partner? would he be a good father? and is he a good enough guy to provide for a family if he absolutely had to. If your guy isnt capable of doing those things than is he really the type of guy you even want to be sleeping with?.
and finally one day your going to settle down and your going to find the love of your life and get married, and when you find that man you love truly your going to wish that you had stayed a virgin for him, so when you get to that age are you going to feel like shit thinking that you gave away something so special to just anyone?
when you do it use protection be smart and remember all boys are assholes, dont believe their bullshit be smart otherwise they will fuck you up for everything they can
basically when your young it doesnt mean much to you, its kinda cool to be having sex and geeky to be a virgin BUT when you get a little bit older you will wish you had of respected and protected yourself as much as you could.. only do it if this guy deserves it, dont do it to please him dont worry about him he isnt important if you want sleep with him someone else will and if he goes else where than you dont need him anyway, do it for yourself its all about you
All guys want is to screw woman. Guys are always ready. You drop your pants they are there like flies. It is like a game with guys as to how many cherries you can pop. Keep yourself for the right one. Don't be s statistac.
Spreading your legs doesn't make you an adlt it makes you weak that you gave in.
Keeping yourself for the right man makes you strong in control of yourself!
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and finally one day your going to settle down and your going to find the love of your life and get married, and when you find that man you love truly your going to wish that you had stayed a virgin for him, so when you get to that age are you going to feel like shit thinking that you gave away something so special to just anyone?
when you do it use protection be smart and remember all boys are assholes, dont believe their bullshit be smart otherwise they will fuck you up for everything they can
You drop your pants they are there like flies.
It is like a game with guys as to how many cherries you can pop.
Keep yourself for the right one. Don't be s statistac.
Spreading your legs doesn't make you an adlt it makes you weak that you gave in.
Keeping yourself for the right man makes you strong in control of yourself!