Budthewise,first of all let me say I'm sorry for what has happen to you in ur relationship but I will say I hope u have forgiven her,plus what goes around always comes back around for people to learn from their mistakes in God's timing. Thank u for ur comment it meant a lot coming from someone who has been there and back, you make an excellent point about not trying to be his mother because in our arguments that has come up from him feeling that way and it was never my intentions to make him feel this way and I have told him on numerous occasions and he understood but let me give u a little more in debth of our relationship he has two small girls who is 3 and 4 which he had to get custody of because the girls mother was around his age but she was not ready to raise them and now he and the girls mother is divorced, I'm divorced also but have no children but I'm willing to be with him despite our differences we have with one another because I truly do love him and I'm very picky with who I choose to be with and so when we met my spirit was at ease and we met twice now which this last time when we saw one another it was strained because what I didn't mention he is in a different state from where I live also, so on top of things we're in a long distance relationship etc. So we do have a few things against us among some other things but again I truly love him for various reasons too many to mention on here but willing to try and make it work but the ball now is in his court! I will not force anything because if something is meant to be you wont have to force the issue.Plus I love his daughters and they do need a balance mother in their life's. I really appreciate ur feedback and appreciate if you all have more to add on, from the additional information I've given it will be appreciated? thanks
Well, in the end, I am happy with my fiance now. I have been with her for two years and everythign is great. I wish you the best of luck though and I hope you are truly happy.
Budthewise; you are very welcome and I appreciated all your comments and glad you are happy :). I had to break it off with him and explained it was best for the both of us; I didn't mean to break his heart but in the long while he would thank me one day. We both agree to stay friends, God bless you and your fiance' for years to come! :)
will say I hope u have forgiven her,plus what goes around always comes back around for people to learn from their mistakes in God's timing. Thank u for ur comment it meant a lot coming from someone who has been there and back, you make an excellent point about not trying to be his mother because in our arguments that has come up from him feeling that way and it was never my intentions to make him feel this way and I have told him on numerous occasions and he understood but let me give u a little more in debth of our relationship he has two small girls who is 3 and 4 which he had to get custody of because the girls mother was around his age but she was not ready to raise them and now he and the girls mother is divorced, I'm divorced also but have no children but I'm willing to be with him despite our differences we have with one another because I truly do love him and I'm very picky with who I choose to be with and so when we met my spirit was at ease and we met twice now which this last time when we saw one another it was strained because what I didn't mention he is in a different state from where I live also, so on top of things we're in a long distance relationship etc.
So we do have a few things against us among some other things but again I truly love him for various reasons too many to mention on here but willing to try and make it work but the ball now is in his court! I will not force anything because if something is meant to be you wont have to force the issue.Plus I love his daughters and they do need a balance mother in their life's. I really appreciate ur feedback and appreciate if you all have more to add on, from the additional information I've given it will be appreciated? thanks
Thank you and I am glad I helped.
for years to come! :)