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friends with benefits ... good or bad?
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I have this friend who is really cool, every time we hang out she ends up giving me a blowjob or we have sex, but i cant see us going out. and shes okay with this. I'm wondering if this is good or bad?????
Do you think it's normal?
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dukepost (6726)
2007-04-12 17:05:35
Good, but sex eventually leads to feelings for each other, especially from women, so be careful.
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-12 20:36:23
Yeah that or std's from her because you can guarentee theirs a few other dudes on the side with you.
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silence (442)
2007-04-12 21:28:12
It all depends on how mature you two really are. Also if one of you finds a significant other, that could lead to feelings of jealousy from the other. I'm not going to say it's a bad thing, but it certainly can complicate things.
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Turdburger (6729)
2007-04-12 21:36:39
What a stupid Questian to ask is it good or bad? i'ts good to have a fuck buddy.
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CuteStrawberry (3780)
2007-04-13 05:29:48
its good since youre both ok with it.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-13 11:10:01
@: silence
I have to agree with you 100%. I really don't get all this friends with bebfits crap!
I guess IAm old fashion but I believe in 1 on 1 relationships and if they don't work out then you move on to the next!

I can't believe that everyone has forgotten about Herpes, HIV, etc etc etc!

Maybe I am the 1 that need to move into the 21st century but I don't want the baggage that goes with it!!!
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silence (442)
2007-04-14 11:50:48
@: kristina_696969
that's not what I said at all.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-17 19:14:12
@: silence
Sorry!!! I guess I mistook what you said but that's still how I feel!!!
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Hairy-stick-nipples (7861)
2007-04-24 18:36:20
you a dumbass to need to ask this question. Surely you can make your own decisions on matters such as your slut friend, if this is real by the way. I hate you and hope your pubes turn grey. and then ginger.
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ChrisEnder (8654)
2007-06-05 00:55:02
she is probably insecure and does it for company. just keep fucking her fat ass
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Be_weird_with_me (8615)
2007-06-06 15:10:39
if she's ok with it then that's fine, i personally think it's kinda wrong though because it seems as if ya'll might be using each other just for sex.
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SweetAngel (10282)
2007-09-03 14:32:10
Your penis will soon fall off.
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girlygirl (3080)
2007-10-19 15:52:06
i have a friend who filled out a survey and one thing he marked that he wanted 2 be with me was friends with benefits! and i havent seen him in a while and even if we could hang out more idk if i would or not cuz i sorta have a crush on him and he likes a girl who lives like 2 hours away so im confused!! (no this isnt girlygirl! this is her friend candace! a few of us share this name!!)
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Sprinkles (10609)
2007-10-19 16:12:21
I agree with Turdburger.

Fuck n' suck buddies are great. But as others stated be aware of possible future feelings developing on either side. Also watch out for who mever else he/she becomes suckin/fuckin buddies with.
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daza6 (11695)
2007-11-13 06:29:43
It's cool. I have had one of them that I virtually lived with for 4 years. Like Ive said in another post, even whe she dropped my she still kept asking me over for sex because she like what I had and the way I used it. Im not saying I have a better body or are great at sex, Im just normal: she just liked my body and what I did to her with it. Keep doing it as long as it lasts.
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