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Gay Relationship with Co-Worker
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I am 27 and have been married to my husband for nearly 9 years. We have not had a good marriage, its been a bit of a rollercoaster ride to be honest, and everyday i fall out of love with him a little more. I think we got married too young, and for all the wrong reasons. I got pregnant with his child when i had just turned 16, and because of this, we rushed into marriage. We now have 3 more children together, and if i am honest, they are the only good things to come out of out relationship. For the last year i have been having an intimate and sexual relationship with a woman at work. I know it is wrong to be cheating on my husband, and i know i am being selfish, but i am rapidly falling in love with her. She loves me for who i am and we have so much fun. My husband and i have not had sex in 6 months, because he says i have gained to much weight. I know that i am grossly overweight, but my lover doesn't care, and she makes me feel so sexy. I have never had any gay thoughts or relationships before, so this all came as a bit of a shock to me! I know that i don't want to me with my husband anymore, but i have the kids to think about. Does anybody have any advice?
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Comments (8)
Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-03-28 14:28:37
Good luck with all that fisting and shit.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-03-28 23:35:52
you are in this relationship for all the wrong reasons why dont you lose some weight and try and fix your marriage first if that doesnt work go back to the woman and yes you got maried too young
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dukepost (6726)
2007-03-29 22:11:43
Yeah, Fatty McFridge. Fat people are not lovable. Just selfish wastes of life.
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MightOfTheMass (6096)
2007-03-30 09:36:06
Continue with your lesbian love affair and gobble up some large creamy cakes whilst at it.

Your husband will probably fuck off anyway if he hasnt emptied his tank for six months, although he is probably, more than likely, knobbing around already with some slim, blonde beauty, twenty years his junior.
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PsychAdviser (7048)
2007-03-30 09:42:11
You have purposely put on weight to make yourself unattractive to your husband. You have planned this. You will get your hair cut short and commence wearing your T Shirt tucked into your high waisted jeans.
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raptor_jesus (7486)
2007-04-12 14:12:14
Keep it up. Sounds hawt
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teen_advisor (6260)
2007-05-30 20:37:43
Don't pay attention to all these bigoted people, they aren't going to help your situation with their negativity. You did get married to soon and it sounds like you haven't had the chance to sew your wild oats yet. Everyone goes through a stage where they want to be wild and/or express themselves before settling down. It sounds like to me that's what you are doing. As for the kids, I'd stick around for them. When they are of age then you can decide what you really want and then go for it.
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LFC_999 (8542)
2007-05-30 20:42:29
Nobody says that you are dumb. They just say you were sixteen years old before you learned how to wave goodbye
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