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Getting touched by a 13 year old while sleeping
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A few weeks ago I was watching a friend’s child for the weekend. I am 35 and he is 13 we are both guys. He is the only child and his father doesn’t want to have anything to do with him. Just talking with his mom I know he is starting with the hormones and she thinks he is gay. Well one night he started asking me odd personal questions: what do I sleep in (boxers), do I have hair all over (I told him yes and one day he will as well just be patient), why does my penis get hard --then I realized he what he wanted to talk about – sex, puberty, masturbation, etc. So I answered all of his questions, some got weird but I kept reminding myself I never got the chance to ask questions at that age and he’s just curious. Then he asked me if he could see my penis, I told him that was not appropriate to ask me or anyone else for that matter. He started to cry and get all upset. I didn’t yell at him or even raised my voice. I put my arms around him trying to comfort him. I asked him what was wrong and all I got was more crying and how he wanted to die because he feels different. He asked me why he gets hard thinking about boys and not girls. So I talked to him about bisexual and gay and that his body is so f**ked up right now that these feelings may go away. He told me he knew (his mom told him) that I was gay (which I am and open about it, just never thought a 13 year old would care or needed to know). We continued talking about a bunch of things all the time him lying in my lap facing me (remember I was comforting him from having his break down). **Well now thinking back every time I got up or he got up to go to the bathroom etc. he would always end up back on my lap** he started falling asleep and rolled over so I just kept him on my lap. Well about an hour later he started squirming around and all of the sudden grabbed my crotch. I jumped up almost throwing him on the floor. He remained sleeping so I passed if off as an accident. I left him on the sofa and I went to bed. A few hours later he came into my room and asked if he could sleep with me (me being half asleep I told him to craw in. he has slept over before and sometimes ended in my bed because of being scared etc. oh and it is a king size bed so there’s plenty of room.) He started asking sex questions again and I told him I would talk to him in the morning and too go to sleep. In the middle of the night I was sleeping on my back and I awoke to a hand rubbing on my penis. It was out of the boxers, I was hard as a rock and pre cumming. I rolled over to my side facing away from him. A few minutes later I felt his hands touching me and he was trying very hard to touch me again. Nothing ever happened but am I wrong for letting him “explore a little”? I do not and never ever fantasized having sex with boys. I did not and would never touch him so please don’t call me a pervert. Any comments would help, thanks
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I don't think it was wrong to let him explore a bit. Like you said, He was just cerious. I think you did everything right. I thinkn you handled it well. :)
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I had a similar situation. My brother lives near me. My nephew's friend (12) was riding his bike on the block and came over while I was working on my car. After talking for a while, he came out and asked to see my penis. I ignored him, but he persisted. Finally, in a moment of weakness, I went into the garage and asked him if he was sure he wanted to see it. He said yes. I was already getting hard. I opened my pants and let it hang out. He smiled and asked if he could touch it. I nodded my head. His hand felt like heaven. He got on his knees and opened his mouth. Holy shit, it felt so good. I came in his mouth. This kid was so freakin' good. I know it was wrong. I hope for his sake and mine that he doesn't come by again, but I think about it often.
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@: jonny12
thanks for the post man. if you want to email back and forth shoot me an email - lkin2gtsucked@yahoo.com
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I would love to e-mail with you.
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I had a similar situation as well...except for it was me that was doing the touching while friends or whatever were sleeping. Ive sucked many a penis's that way but not Im grown and dont know if I could get away with it anymore.
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@: je2sexy
Theres no harm in trying is there,Enjoy yourself for as long as you,can.I would love to chat with you,more and this subject.
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What's your email
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@: je2sexy
you could come over and touch me anytime you,like.
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What's your email?
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@: je2sexy
maybe we should talk more and you could touch me while i sleep
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Would love to! What's your email
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I would love to hear more about your,encounters with this kid.Write to me well you.
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@: jonny12
where do you live just to be cautious??
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@: jonny12
I'll bet that you've enjoy that blow-job alot.I really didn't see anything wrong with that 12 year old sucking on your,hard rod.I would like to hear If that kid came back for seconds.
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If anything talk to him about it, never act on his feelings. as for you look, DONT touch and if possible avoid this type of situation. And dont let him in your bed... Help him understand the consiquences of what he is feeling. be his friend not his lover. Anything else, You would be the one in trouble.
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Wow i admire you for asking for people opinions..what a sticky situation! the kid in just trying to figure stuff and emotions out, hes probably thrilled to know hes not the only male around who likes or thinks of other males in that way..but you need to talk to him otherwise he will think theres something sacred, special and secretive going on between the two of you, hes probably too young to realise that a guy can get arroused in his sleep without realising it, he will most likely want more and have fantasies of touching you more when you sleep, think hes in love with you and persist for the curcumstances to arrise more often. Your obiously not stupid you know its now your responsibility to teach him the correct behaviour and lucky for him..theres a lot of men out there who would take advantage of the innocent boy.. But yes be careful and perhaps speak to another adult or his parent in confidence if you think they trust you. If you were a pedo you would not have posted for advice..well done your a remarkable man
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Thanks for the respsonse. I will definatly take your advice into consideration...You seem to be someone willing to listen with no judgement. Thanks again
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wish i new this kid must be nice to meet somone like him whos that interested but anyways nothin u did was wrong all u did was like what any other dad would to to confort there kid, if u was awake i letting him touch u and u enoying it that would have been wrong but if u was asleep u cant exacly help it.
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Don't let him in ur bed and don't let him sit on your lap and don't touch him, then you will be fine.
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Were you going to TRY to offer him decent help for his specific predicament, or did you simply take pleasure in being an irritating sot?
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I admire you for being so strong, If it were me and a girl I don't know how long I cold hold out.

My advice... don't let that scenario come about again. You never know, he might get mad and report a lie to mom saying you wanted to "show" him how things go.
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crazyblonde101
I wish I did not read that I'm scared for life
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it sounds like he may have been sexually abused. This is concerning... Curiosity is on thing but insistence after you let him know several times it was not okay... there is something wrong.
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issac41
Umm well when I was 13 I did the same thing
I think i was jst curious
Why? Wernt you
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I don't think he's gay, he just need a pathernal figure
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Straight details huh?? Wow and I'm sure you told his mother this story 100% the same and them some right!!?
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He's a VERY curious child
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I would have beat the shit out of him
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What the fuck is wrong with u??? U do realize this is a damn child.. And having 2 children of my own if I knew who the hell u was I would report u to the police!! That is fucking sick! I have no problem with people that r guy but when u let a child touch ur penis u need to be put in jail or shot! You do realize that there is other ways to teach a child about sex right???!!!! U don't personally let them touch ur nasty penis!!!!! U are gross!!! U need serious help!! I would love to turn u in to the police! Sick bastard!!
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I think you should not put your self in that situation again by not letting a young and gay boy who wants you in a sexual way in your bed.
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Allowing this to happen, is a step across the line. One must never ever let a child go that far being so young. even if it is the child making the moves. you are the responsable adult in this situation. For myself i like young boys but have never been in that type of situation, but one thing I do know is that if it were me I would not have allowed it to go that far. because of them being so young I would not concider this act. I would never take advantage of a child (or any one for that matter). I would have told him to wait untill he is older and can better understand his feelings. then and only then would i probably let it happen. If anything i would have told him to find someone his own age and try it. because i am older. He has a lot of growing to do and so do you...
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yes you were wrong and yes he is gay.
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I like to email whit you and see à picture of you and the boy (just curius) and i think its okai what you did
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gay pple are just as sick as pedophiles
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thats a load of rubbish.
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I sense extreme hypocrisy in that comment...!
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indeed. Fuck you.
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@: Britton
You know what homophobia really means about you right?
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That I'm completely straight and am repulsed by fags? You know what they say about those that assume, right?
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@: Britton
Straight people that can't except gay or bi people are what we know as perverts which are immature. I don't have to assume that, I know that! Perverts are the most ignorant, annoying,immature,pieces of $hit on earth! Also straight guys are jealous because gay guys get all the chicks and don't abuse them unlike perverts!
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@: Ruppkid
I'd love the part where you,said that straight guys are jealous because gay guys get all the chicks and they don't abuse them like perverts do.
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