ok, so i've been going out with this girl since September, we were best friends before we went out for 2 years. During that time, and while we have went out we have talked about what we would do with people, how we would do it, she only hooked up before me.
Anyway, when we started going out,t he first time we hung out we gave oral both ways. Since then she has gotten good and she say i have to, however we have talked about it and she said that she has never had an orgasm with me, i keep trying, doing different things, sooooo much stuff, however i'm stumped, i can not do it. She says when she masturbates she does one thing fast and quick, however she said not to do that, to change it up with her, with hand and mouth.
So alas, i have come to a last resort, please someone help me, give me advice, anything
This will work Every Single Time.
alright. first of all, when you give oral try actually like sucking on the clit rather than just wiggling your tongue around.
second of all, apply pressure to the "flaps" hahaha.
third of all, when using your finger -- don't apply too much pressure. it actually sometimes hurts/burns or can overstimulate a girl so that you just kind of like shake because it's like.. TOO MUCH INPUT but it's not actually an orgasm.
fourth of all, try getting her really turned on before you just start rubbing/licking away. tease her a little. rub her inner thighs as well as lower stomach/on top of vagina, lick at her hips and area slightly above her crotch so she anticipates it rather than just all of a sudden starting out of nowhere. tell her to close her eyes. ask her to help you/guide your hands/rub while you use your mouth etc.
if this wasn't lee.. i feel a little strange now because that was really indepth but i hope it helps. hahaah.